Intimidation by mystery man next door, or plain old paranoia?

Appollynon

Jedi Master
Back in January, I begun interacting with the SOTT site more on the news pages, and posting news regularly on my FB page. A few day later, I get a knock at my front door and to my surprise and shock, there was a man was standing at my door holding my mail. This chap seemed like a regular older, bespectacled guy in his 50's, but his eyes and his manor sent a chill down my spine before he had even spoken a word.

So there he was with my mail in his hands, and telling me that he was my neighbour from number 56, and that for some reason my mail had ended up at his house and he was here to return it. Immediately I knew he was lying. I say this as I had new neighbours at number 56 who had recently just moved in, and whom I had spoken too, a young couple with kids in their mid 30's, who did not have any older men such as this guy living with them! So I knew something was up, why did this unnerving mystery man have my mail and lie to my face about whom he was? I should have paid more attention.

Around 2-3 days later, I was having a chat to my best friend and house-mate about my time spent on the SOTT site and the posting of news I was doing on my FB page, as he was somewhat worried about my behaviour. I told my friend that I was simply trying to help wake people up to the psychopathic realty we live in, if I could, and help others more. My friend jokingly replied that if I was trying to go against the dark actors in charge of this world more overtly, then shouldn’t I be getting attacked by them more than I have been if what I was doing was on the money so to speak. That’s when I reached down into the morass of jumbled power cables in my lounge, from which my laptop would normally run, and realised that there was one laptop cable already there, that was not mine, as I had just brought my laptop and power cable down from my bedroom and hadn’t yet set them up.

So I raised the laptop cable and suggested to my friend that he had left his laptop cable here, and did he want to take it to his girlfriends place, where his laptop was (I had naively assumed that he had no power cable to run his laptop). When I said this and showed him the cable he turned ashen and the colour drained form his face in seconds, and he slowly told me that this laptop cable I held was not his, or his partners! It was only when I held this cable up to the light that I realised there was something amiss. There was black tape around the top of the laptop lead at the point where you connect the lead into your laptop power supply socket. I think my colour must have drained as quickly as my friends at this point.

On close examination of the lead, I realised that the black tape was not ordinary masking tape as you would expect to see in a repair job of a damaged power cable, but copper tape, which would conduct an electrical charge. The tape was very neatly wound around the tough plastic flex around the top of the cable end that plugs into a laptop, and it had been cut away in the middle of the flex revealing the regular black cable underneath. However, at the top end of this cut out section, where none of the underlying black cable had been stripped, there was underlying wire that had been peeled backwards over the exposed area of regular plastic cable, so that it was in touch with the black copper tape used to cover this area and the top part of the lead. Knowing how tough those parts of flex are, I couldn’t even begin to fathom how such a thing could have been done by accident, it seemed like a rather expert job of precise cutting/sabotage of the lead to expose enough wire to conduct an electrical current through the copper wire and into the hand of anyone plugging this wire into the mains. What had really sent a shiver down my spine was the fact that if I hadn’t have picked the lead up at that moment and held it up for my friend to look at, the “repair” job of the copper wire was done so well, that at a glance, everything looked normal, and I would have likely used the lead in error at some point in the near future.

We wondered how it could have gotten there, and who could have put it there, which is when I remembered the visit by the mysterious lying man a few days earlier, and also remembered that the day before I had gone out and stupidly left my patio doors unlocked! So we now knew, “when”, this lead could have been placed there, but still didn’t know for sure by whom, or if there was any connection to the mystery man at the door. I begun to wonder if this mystery man at the door was in some way connected to the mysterious house next door, to the left of my house.

I’ll explain a little more about this mysterious house and it’s visitor/s. I moved into my current address at the beginning of last August, and was overjoyed at the new garden from which I could watch the stars at night, compared to my previous home in an apartment. At the end of August I was made redundant and so begun spending more time at home than I was used too. After roughly two months of living there, and meeting a kindly elderly woman who lived on the semi-detached house to my right, it became clear that the house to my left was vacant, as there were never any lights on, movement or sounds, or anyone home, at any time during this period. What I found a little odd, about this house was that there was a car parked out on the front drive, which in the two months leading up to October, had never moved, not an inch. So while I could easily tell that there was no life or movement at this house, due to my proximity and time spend at home, from the outside it looked like someone may be living there. I decided to have a quick look on google map’s to get a better idea for how long that car had been sitting there on the drive, as I knew the map data had been refreshed in this area roughly 18 months beforehand. So I had a look, and sure enough the car was sitting there plain as day 18 months earlier in the exact same spot. I had found this rather odd, as the car itself has a road-tax disk on the front windscreen which was obviously being renewed each year, due to the tax being paid up until March this year. So I found it a little odd that a car which had been sitting stationery for so long was having it’s road-tax renewed, yet never being used.

At around the beginning of October, I begun to notice a change next door, someone had begun to visit the house during the day to do some heavy duty work inside the house, as I could hear drilling, hammering and sawing for around a fortnight. There were still no lights on at night, but this also soon changed after the work being done inside the house had stopped, as the house began to receive sporadic visits by someone, roughly once a fortnight, or sometimes as often as once a week, but only very late at night after 10 or 11pm. Yet still this car on the driveway was never moved or used. So whoever was visiting the house, was not using the car on the driveway, nor were they using any other car that was parked nearby, as I had become used to the cars in my area, and had never seen or heard any movement suggestion there was someone using a car to access this mysterious house next door, again I found this a little odd. Coincidentally or not, at this time on October I also had a problem with the locking mechanisms on both my rear patio doors and my front door, both locks had failed in the space of a week and both needed to be replaced, despite the fact that the locks were part of the fairly recently installed UPVC doors. The mysteriousness of this house and it’s late night and sporadic visitors next door, coupled with my mysterious lying mail interceptor, and the mysterious appearance of this laptop cable, gave me the feeling that all of this was somehow connected, and it was a feeling I couldn’t shake.

By now I would imagine any reader may be thinking, “What a nosy neighbour and paranoid character I must be”, however I was soon to find out that my gut was on the money in at least two aspects. Recently I had an interruption in my gas services due to the replacement of gas pipes in my area, and there was a need for the gas engineers to get access to my gas meters and pipes in my home. On the last day of this work, I had the feeling that maybe, I should go and have a cigarette outside the front of my house with my friend, as opposed to smoking out in the backyard, to see if the gas men were also accessing this mysterious house next door, with the hope being, that maybe if I could see the mysterious neighbour next door, and maybe say hello for the first time, it would put my paranoia to rest. My gut couldn’t have kicked in at a more pertinent time. As I stood outside smoking, my friend and I noticed the garage door open on this mysterious house, and we overheard the gas man saying to the sporadic visitor, “Oh right, so you don’t ever actually use the gas here for heating, so do you want me to just knock of the tap”! With the incredibly cold winter we have had this year in the UK, during which the mysterious late night visits had continued sporadically, I took this as a confirmation that the house was not lived in by anyone, and that know one was living there who needed to use the gas to heat their house, or for any gas appliances you would normally expect to be used. As I stood there smoking with my friend who heard this, we both gave each other a knowing look, and I said I wanted to wait and see if my other gut feeling was correct, about the mysterious visitor there, being one and the same lying mail interceptor I had seen at my door. Sure enough as the gas man and the mysterious and usually late night visitor made their way out of the garage, I met eyes with the same bespectacled man who had a few weeks earlier intercepted my mail, and lied to my face at my front door about the address he “lived at”, the house whose garage he was exiting was next door, and number 50, as opposed to the number 56 he had claimed to live at! While this still doesn’t connect this mystery man, or mystery house to the mystery of the sabotaged laptop lead, I thought I would share this to ask for any second opinions, as I could still be reading into this more than I should be and letting my own paranoia run away with me.

There is a little more too this story which has to do with a peculiar post on the one particular article on the SOTT main page that was made in response to my initial post about this incident, which had some slightly creepy overtones that uncannily linked into some of the disrupted essential services I’ve had in the house recently, but I won’t share any more on that unless asked, as like I said, this could all still be a paranoid delusion and seeing something that is not there, but I'd appreciate any htoughts on the matter.
 
Question 1.

how does the car look?

Question 2.

You seem sure the car hasn't moved, is this "proven" by eyesight or measured somehow?
 
Before discussing the content of your post, a few questions:

1. Are you totally gluten/casien free?

2. Are you getting decent sleep in a dark room?

This helps you narrow down any possible avenues for toxins that could make you paranoid. :)
 
Thanks for the reply Gimpy, as far as I'm aware, I have been gluten/cassien free for at least 6 months, if not longer. My diet for most of my life, consisted of maybe 80% meats, and only a small portion of around 20% fruits and vegetables, with only the odd and very rare inclusion of wheat or gluten products, having found at an early age they make me ill. I have cut out completley even the rare/odd wheat and gluten products from my diet for maybe 4-5 months, and am very carefull about even the source and types of meats, vegetables and fruits I consume and where they come from. I gave up drinking milk in my early teenege years, and have never eaten much cheese either, in particular I have cut out any cheese from my diet for the last 6 months. As far as I can tell from my own physiology and from the descriptions offered for the products I consume, I have no gluten/cassien or wheat related dis-ease or input in my diet at all.

After realising the oddity of the house next door, I had made a point of mentally marking the position of the car with a view to the underling concrete and surrounding environment, and as far as Im aware, the psotion has not moved since, and does not seem to move. The car is so close to my own property that my housemate had checked the milage clock which can be easily read and the milage has stayed static for over a month now, despite the comings and goings. It's a fairly modern Vauxhall Pegeot 406, which gets dirty looking when we have no rain/precipitation for a while, with dirt built up at the bottom edges of the door panneling which does suggest it remains fairly static, no visible rust or any real defining characteristics, apart from the interior which looks immaculate, no debris or signs of usage, and seemingly no wear or tear on any of the upholstery, it looks as good as new on the inside. Recently, due to the gas work done, I saw a car in the garage that looked to be very old, maybe 20-30yrs older in comparison, older even than a Ford Capri and old 80's Lada's, so old I could not recognise the model or manufacturer, which Im pretty good with when it comes to cars.

Generally the quality of my sleep is good, with between 7-9hrs per night regularly, and I have never been able to sleep with lights on, even as a child, the light seems to cause dis-ease which stops me from getting to sleep. I tend to use candlelight at night to work with if I need a lightsource.
 
What if the car hasn't moved because it's the old gentleman's car and he can't see well enough to drive anymore - but- he's too attached to the car to just get rid of it and paying the road tax is something he's always done and it's a point of pride to continue (as many old gents do things that don't make much sense in order to continue things as they have always been). What if you misheard the address he gave you - or he did say 56, but meant 50, or didn't and didn't really think much of it, just that he was a neighbor? He is a neighbor. In other words, what if it were just a mistake on an old man's part? What if he owns the house next door but can no longer live there on his own due to his age or health (might also explain not being able to drive the car) and thus only visits occasionally?

I know those are a lot of what ifs, but they're also quite common what ifs and certainly quite possible.

On the laptop power cord - I have no input, really, though I don't see much point in leaving a stray power cord when all laptops come with their own cords, most people will use the power cord that came with their laptop, so I'm not sure what might have been accomplished by leaving a stray cord there - but perhaps you usually plug in various cords for power?

I suppose the main question here is what do you really think is trying to be accomplished by what you perceive to be these nefarious sources? Just curious about what you think the effect of this would be?
 
Appollynon, why don't you visit the old fellow and talk to him. You can get more information on which to base your thoughts. He might just be being neighborly. I always introduce myself to new folks in the neighborhood. It often takes them by surprise as anonymity is the habit of modern western man. :)
 
For what it's worth, there have been good suggestions/questions provided by everyone. If you read my older threads, you may see certain similarities regarding my thoughts on situations that were happening around me - all which turned out to be projections. You seem to be up on the diet, ee and sleep which is very good.

If you choose to view these situations as an opportunity for you to take a closer look into your own mind and how the way in which one perceives and twists situations into upholding one's current worldview, this can be an invaluable lesson.

Perhaps when something happens you can take the initiative to ask yourself "Am I sure?". You may also want to take some time, as Go2 said, to speak with your neighbor. Ask him about the car in a nonthreatening manner. Something like, "I was wondering if everything was okay with your car. I noticed that your road tax was renewed but the car doesn't seem to be driven, do you need a mechanic?" Frame it in a way that sounds as if you're asking as a concerned neighbor.

One of the things I learned about myself is how our own thoughts can be our worst enemy. You may find that this hold true for yourself as well.

If you try to tackle this issue from the point of view of "This is interesting, let me see what's really going on." and "Why is this upsetting me so much?" instead of "Why is this happening to me?", I think there will be much insight to be gained.

Not sure if you have seen this recent thread of if it will be of use to you, but just in case. The way I understood it (in terms of my own experiences) was how we can project things onto other that we deny in ourselves. In my own case, the denial of taking responsibility for my own lack of self worth and projecting that onto outside situations. It was my life mirroring my own thoughts via my perceptions. Hope that made sense. :)
 
The only thing that bothered me was your description of the
laptop power cable, of not being yours, and appears to have
been tampered with.

I would definitely not have touched any power cords that
appear to be tampered, has been taped, is frayed or has
exposed wires. Unless I can see that it is safe to unplug the
plug from the AC outlet, I would use gloves to pull that plug
out or otherwise turn the power off at fuse panel box and
then proceed to unplug any and all questionable power cords
at every AC outlet in the home.

It's better play it safe, than to be electrocuted and dead.

Once the tampered unit in question has removed from AC power, I
would have it checked out by an expert, and preserve the evidence
for possible finger prints. If it is confirmed by an expert that the unit
was criminally tampered with, I would place the unit into a zip-lock
bag and hand it over to the police with the expert's name and number.

Keep in mind that most laptops have step-down transformers built
into the power cord, one end of the transformer block into the AC
outlet (120/220VAC) and the other end of the transformer block to
the laptop, which is a low voltage AC or DC power source.

In the future, it pays to check out your AC outlet/plugs visually
*before* you touch them. It would be a good idea to periodically
check your home for all AC outlets and cords to ensure they are
in good condition, not worn-out, not abused, not overloaded, nor
tampered with.

Make sure you do not stack AC outlet extender blocks.
Make sure you do not connect power strips to power-strips
Make sure you do not go over the maximum rated current for each AC outlet.

FWIW,
Dan
 
What if the car hasn't moved because it's the old gentleman's car and he can't see well enough to drive anymore - but- he's too attached to the car to just get rid of it and paying the road tax is something he's always done and it's a point of pride to continue (as many old gents do things that don't make much sense in order to continue things as they have always been). What if you misheard the address he gave you - or he did say 56, but meant 50, or didn't and didn't really think much of it, just that he was a neighbour? He is a neighbour. In other words, what if it were just a mistake on an old man's part? What if he owns the house next door but can no longer live there on his own due to his age or health (might also explain not being able to drive the car) and thus only visits occasionally?

Thank you for all the advice, I can't honestly comment on Anarts first “what if”, but, as suggested by Go2, I could get a better idea or feel for this neighbour if I approached him and had a chat with him, so that's something I can try to do over the next week or two, depending on whether he is in or not, but I can keep trying maybe once a day until I strike lucky. I have knocked on the door once before during the day to try and introduce myself, but it would behove me to keep trying until I get a response.

This did just remind me of the first conversation I had with my elderly next door neighbour on the other side of me, when we first introduced ourselves to each other. We had been asking each other a few questions about each other and our lives, general chit-chat, and I had asked how long this lovely lady had lived here, and she had been here for 42yrs, I also asked if she knew a forwarding address for the couple who had lived here before me, as I was getting a lot of their mail still coming through. I then also asked if she knew whether there was anyone living in the house on the other side of me, as I had never seen anyone at that point at the house and had never seen any lights on at night. She replied that she didn't know for sure, but thought the house was vacant, due to never having seen or spoken to anyone coming or going.

I'm pretty certain that I didn't mishear the address given, as upon hearing it, it had send a bit of a chill down my spine due to having spoken to the couple who now live at this address just a few hours earlier as they were doing some more unpacking. As has been said, it could be a case that the man, being in his fifties, made a genuine error himself, so that's a good possibility. The reason I thought he was in his early fifties is that he seemed to be roughly ten years younger than my own parents, who have recently reached their early sixties. This man may have health issues that mean he is unable to live at home for long periods on his own, so this is a possibility and good explanation to explain the lack of driving of the car left on the drive. The visits which are only sporadic, roughly once a fortnight now, are only ever very late at night, with the lights only going on usually past 10 or 11pm when already very dark, and seems like an unusual time to pop round an check up on things at such an hour for someone of that age, but still not outside the realm of possibility to consider.

As Anart mentioned about the power cords, it has been a habit of mine for some time to take my laptop upstairs to my bedroom when not in use. So there were often times when both mine, and my housemate’s laptop would be taken upstairs and both leads left unplugged and downstairs near the morass of cables at multi-socket we use. So it was a fairly regular thing for me and my flatmate to mix our power leads up and use each others without realising it when bringing the main body of the laptop down for use. This is why I was a little freaked when I found this as yet unaccounted for cable sitting tangled up amongst all the other leads, it would have been very easy for me to plug it in and try to use it through my own lack of awareness/ignorance and either get a shock myself or damage my laptop. I had asked a friend of mine who works at PC World to take a look at the lead and let me know what he thought, he told me that what had been done to the lead was obviously not a repair and seemed deliberate, and at the very least it would have given me a nasty shock, or damaged my computer, he was also a little concerned about how such a thing found it's way into my home and suggested being more careful and making sure all doors were locked at night and when leaving the house.

However it wasn't really the lead itself or anything that the lead could potentially do that honestly disturbs me, as I did not think any shock from such a cable would be dangerous to me, and if my computer was damaged, I could always borrow my housemates when he was not using it himself. Instead it was the feeling of my home being intruded upon by person/persons unknown which still bothers me a little to this day, as there has been no way to explain it's appearance other than being left their by persons unknown to both myself and my housemate. I guess it's the feeling of vulnerability to having my home intruded upon that had caused a bit of a strong fear reaction in myself at the time, but after leaving my own back doors unlocked, I can see how ultimately I only have myself to blame for allowing this sort of thing to happen through my own lack of awareness and being mindful. I think this hit me especially hard as my housemate often has his young children and his partner’s child, stay with us, and I didn’t like the idea of anyone entering my home without my knowledge, when there were also young children around a lot of the time.

As truth seeker has rightly said, I have used this as an opportunity to take a closer look at myself and my own vulnerability and lack of awareness. Through this episode I had realised that I was still being rather aloof at times, as can be seen in my attitude towards not taking the time locking-up my home securely enough. I have tried/am trying, to use this event as a galvanising opportunity, to remind myself too always be aware and mindful of my surroundings and what I can often do to be my own worst enemy, through not being mindful and aware enough, and ultimately leave myself open to such a home intrusion.

I also think that truth seeker is on the money regarding the possibility of why I was being so aloof about my home and potentially my own safety through leaving my home open to intrusion and ultimately unprotected, a realisation I haven't had before about myself, and I don’t think I could have had without the help given here. One of my chief features throughout my life has been a lack of self-confidence and self worth, and I can see now, how this could have been projected into my aloof behaviour when it comes to personal security or looking after myself and my home. This aloof attitude was very much like me saying "well I don't really care what happens to me, or what is done to me or my home, so I won't waste my time thinking about protecting myself or my home properly", and that is what probably caused this aloof attitude in the first place. This chief feature is something I’ve been working hard to address through both self work in the Gurdjieffian sense and with the positive reinforcement going on through my study course in Clinical Hypnotherapy and Hypno-Analytical therapy, I think I still have some work to do in de-programming the conditioning that has helped to cause this, but I like to think I am making good headway.

Thank you once again for your help, I have learned much here that I couldn’t learn without your helpful suggestions and nudges in the right direction. As the C's say learning is fun ;D
 
Thank you for your advice additional advice Dant. The truth is I only noticed the taping up of the cord when I had scutinised it closely, and so on a regular day would not have checked or likley have seen this tape wrapped end, it was a very neatly worked job, whoever had done this. Neither myself or anyone I know has ever tampered with electrical equipment once damaged, we would all rather play it safe and replace the faulty equipment with new equipment, that's what made this cable appearing as it did so strange. The power cord istelf was not plugged in to any mains as I found it, which was lucky for me I guess, as I would have likley gotten a small shock if it had. I have since been very careful with all plugs and electrics in my home, and usually unplug everything when not in use.

I actually spoke to a friend of mine's husband, who works for the police about the lead and showed it to him. He had basically told me that it was likely just left in my home by some local thief passing through and been dropped their by mistake, and that there was probably nothing sinister about the whole episode. this type of comment seemed to me a littl flippant and belitelling and caused me to feel a little stupid fro bringing it up, so I decided to just keep the lead, keep quiet, and use it as a reminder to be more careful in the future. However I will take your advice from now on if there are any more mysterious object left in my house and seal them up for evidence straight away.
 
Can't explain your power cord thing but I can tell you tell you about a real life scenario which would look odd to someone who didnt know the details.

My friend bought a house almost a year ago. He works as a self employed contractor and gets a lot of work in the oil business. As he is in places such a Quatar and far flung fields his contracts are usually 2 to 3 months at a time. He has a van, it is parked outside his house. Occasionaly a friend will borrow it or take it out just to keep the engine turrning over.
My friend who works away from home has his brother swing by his house a couple to times a week just to check his mail and to check the central heating and everything is ok.

Now how would this look to a hypothetical new person moving into the same street of my friend the oil contractor? They would probably assume that my friends brother owns the house, that he appears at odd hours . they would scratch their heads about the mysterious coming and going of the van. and what if my friends brother had to deliver some post to a neighbour that been wrongly delivered to his brothers house?
 
it definitely sounds like the begining of some very interesting movie and plot could now go either way, for your sake I hope it doesn't develop along the lines of Polanski's Tenant :)
FWIW I am with truthseeker, your account does have the flavor of excessive internal considering so maybe its time to deal with this. Of course you should definitely try and obtain as many facts as possible.
Sometimes asking directly is the best way.

The power lead thing seems very strange, but with stories like this my experience is that mundane explanation crops up sooner or later.
In any case be vigilant , don't indulge too much in plotting in order to fill in the missing facts, and report here regularly.
 
Thanks for the additional comments. I noticed a few lights on last night as I was out back smoking, so I popped over and knocked on my neighbours door this morning, hoping to say hello, and ask if he knew anything about the unfortunate illness that has hospitalised my elderly female neighbour or had perhaps heard any news on how she is getting on. This elderly lady lives on the part attached side of my semidetached home on the other side of me. I knocked, heard movement coming to the door, no reply, so I waited a few minutes, whilst hearing movement on the other side of the door, and knocked again. again heard movement a few inches away on the other side of the door, but no reply. Maybe the old gent is just shy? I'll try again each day just the once in the hope that I do get a response and an op pertunity to say hello properly. One thing I did notice was that the windows and doors are in apretty bad state of disrepair, wiht the wood and seals aorund them rotting and causing a build up of black mould both outside and inside, so if I do get a chance to say hello, I will offer to lend a hand to repair or fix up what I can for him, as I know what it can be like living with damp infestations and black mould, and it's not healthy. :D
 
Appollynon said:
Thanks for the additional comments. I noticed a few lights on last night as I was out back smoking, so I popped over and knocked on my neighbours door this morning, hoping to say hello, and ask if he knew anything about the unfortunate illness that has hospitalised my elderly female neighbour or had perhaps heard any news on how she is getting on. This elderly lady lives on the part attached side of my semidetached home on the other side of me. I knocked, heard movement coming to the door, no reply, so I waited a few minutes, whilst hearing movement on the other side of the door, and knocked again. again heard movement a few inches away on the other side of the door, but no reply. Maybe the old gent is just shy? I'll try again each day just the once in the hope that I do get a response and an op pertunity to say hello properly. One thing I did notice was that the windows and doors are in apretty bad state of disrepair, wiht the wood and seals aorund them rotting and causing a build up of black mould both outside and inside, so if I do get a chance to say hello, I will offer to lend a hand to repair or fix up what I can for him, as I know what it can be like living with damp infestations and black mould, and it's not healthy. :D

This is getting interesting :D although I think Stevie Argyll has a very valid point and Anart... and mostly everybody who has responded here.
Remember external consideration when You keep "banging" on that door :)
 
Hi Appollynon,

There has been good advice given no doubt.

Some thoughts, fwiw:

The tampered power chord is a fact. Tampering in this case is intrusive and manipulative; concern from this isn't paranoia. Manipulation has a desired outcome.

Old age issues aren't normally associated with a person in one's 50s.

Has anyone even remotely hinted that you might be paranoid, maybe as a reaction to you sharing any observations of pathological world affairs shared here?

Who most obviously has direct access to your home? Who would be the next most obvious?

Cui bono?
 

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