Of course a "polite visit" sounds nice, but you have no idea how much grief and suffering this "visit" brings to people in Ukraine.
If that is what you truly think, you underestimate almost everyone on this forum - their understanding of sufferings and grief. Pick a country, a year, a generation. Not all may have directly experienced as perhaps you are now, yet they have eyes and ears and can see the same things happening in their own countries if not by a gun, it is different gun.
This tread like others is directed at humor, and not all like it, it can be dark - and as much as you may think it is directed at Ukrainian people in general, it is always specific as you should know. I also see you mostly avoid the main Ukraine/Russian thread, and perhaps I can understand that given your location and what you are caught up in.
I live in Ukraine and every day I see information about innocent civilian deaths, not counting those killed at the front. I understand that it cannot be avoided, that it is inevitable, that for someone it is just information or just numbers about hundreds of thousands of dead, Yes, it is the resistance of psychopaths, but I am very sad to see that this "special military operation" turns into a war or the destruction of people, Slavs against each other, and I am very sorry for people living in Russia and not only Russia, who still do not understand it and continue to humiliate people living in Ukraine.
It goes without saying that regular people in Ukraine killed and caught in the crossfire with their lives thrown upside down, is plainly speaking, a God awful realty. In Donbass it was a reality, too, they were Ukrainians after all, except to the minds of the junta in Kyiv and their western handlers. You are there, you understand, you also understand where the reality emanated from. You understand that there will always be people on all sided venting, either in frustration or ignorance. Thus, as said above, humor can be dark - very dark, often highlighting the outright killing of people in their own countries by their own pathological leaders - be it a AK47 or a Pfizer vaccinations or a specious policy to mutilate children, it is the same - injury or death may likely result. Humor is a copping mechanism, so don't take it as a slight against the people who are stuck in it like you or the people killed and maimed who did not ask for this. Again, it is a mechanism aimed at cause, the string pullers (you know who) and the ignorance that results that keeps the s#$&-show running.
By the way, five of your quotes above (you are from Ukraine) respond to youlik (who is from Russia) that are not even from this thread, so perhaps address them in context on the correct thread. You and he likely also have much more in common than you may think, which might be why you are both here in the first place.
Regardless, Sergey, no one here is happy that any innocent civilians are dying on any side, and venting here is not directed at them you can be assured.
You take good care.