SeekingtheTruth
Jedi
I've been reading through various threads and one thing that I've noticed is that some of the forum members (myself included) are having difficulties with identifying and/or dealing with "make nice" programs. I'm the sort of person that attempts to always give the benefit of the doubt, to give a "second chance", and "to turn the other cheek" etc. Though I've seen it in myself many many times,I'm still having difficulty with understanding when it is appropriate to "play nice" and when it is appropriate to act as though "you are saving your soul". I thought I would start this thread because after doing a forum search for "making nice program" there were zero results. Though I have had situations in my life where "being nice" seemed to be the appropriate response, I thought it might be helpful for other forum members with more experience and/or wisdom to help explain the difference and/or provide examples. In other words, under what situations of "being nice" that, after introspection/observation, later proved to be the wrong decision?
