My Favourite Things

SlipNet

The Living Force
I've been grinding my gears this evening wondering about compiling a list of my favourite things. Objectively speaking, we live as intellectual vagabonds who resist party loyalties and think for ourselves as best we can. The Beast can be felt everywhere, and to survive we must conform to the VISA system. But despite the overcast clouds of chaos, misrule and control, I can see shafts of light breaking through. We have the whole of ancient literature, religious texts and treatises, ancient art and culture, all the classic artists of the ages, 20th century art/media at our fingertips, the testimonies of our greatest and most astute minds. We also have 25 years of tremendous contemporary thought too. Truly, it was the best of times, it was the worst of times. We need those gems that nourish our soul. So, I thought I'd start a thread listing Good Stuff in my life experience. Here goes::cool2:

1 Coffee and Tea. 2 crucial beverages which I consume every day. I love them both dearly, and so does my brain.

2 Tobacco. Just like my fave bevvies mentioned above, smoking is an essential element of a happy day in my life. I smoke one 30g pouch of American Spirit per week, a modest rate.

3 Bacon. Another staple of my weekly diet, in many dishes and forms. With fried eggs and plum tomatoes, just sublime.

4 100% Pork Sausages. My god I eat 3/4 of these every Sunday. One of my great food discoveries after first adapting my diet to a more carnivorous mode back in 2010. With herbs and cooked apple, yum!

5 Keeping a Journal. I discovered this habit after reading about the life of Jim Morrison back as a student in September 1994. I had just moved to London to study as a callow teenager, I was SO naive. Keeping a journal planted the seeds of thought in my developing mind, and I challenged myself in terms of books, films, music, the whole lot. Journalling is a way of life. I keep a thread on here devoted to insights from my journals for a reason; it anchors my mind and my soul, and it has helped me to recover lost memories after I became a schizophrenic back in 2004. I have learned plenty, but I am only what I currently understand. Looking back on scribblings from fevered states from 1994-97 was fun in particular. I'd recommend keeping one to all who have yet to take the plunge, it's well worth it. You'll soon find out what you're made of.

6 Movies. I freakin' LOVE movies, from 1957-78 in particular. I could list them for days, but suffice to say that watching the great directorial auteurs has enriched my life in numerous ways. I even make myself chuckle on occasions by observing that I have a directorial eye when I'm out and about. A wet pavement reflecting streetlights becomes a moment of cinematic beauty, a fun observation. I came out of my garage last summer into a hot sunny garden, and the lighting reminded me of John Ford. Mother Nature is the world's prime artist. Movies that capture her awesome beauty live long in the memory.

7 Music. It first really hit me as a teenager listening to hard rock, and it's been with me, ever widening its scope over the years. As vital and natural as breathing. Between 1967-78, I have about 300 cds. So much great music came out in a comparatively small window of time. My fave era for sure.

8 Books. Need I say anything? The essentials of life are in my book collection. From religion to politics, to philosophy, mysteries, occultism, ufology, psychology et al. You name it, I've got something to say about it, thanks to my books. I'd never be without them.

9 UFOs. I first had an alien experience back as a kid in 1988. Really spooked me. I was laid out on a slab and 3 tall white faceless beings were looming over me. A few years later I learned about Travis Walton and then got into The X-Files. And it's been full steam ahead in my searching ever since. My chief interest in life, overall if I had to rank it. Kind of my raison d'etre.

10 Football. I discovered football in the schoolyard in 1986. I wasn't very good at it, but I was smart and knew how to hold the ball and keep possession for my team. There was a place in the team for me because of this. I was a "ball retainer", lol! That summer in 86 we won the inter-school county football tournament, and then we all watched Mexico 86, the great football World Cup event that hot summer. It was a life changing summer, I spiritually grew that year. I've loved and followed football ever since, it's given me many happy times, and it's good exercise to play it every once in a while.

11 The Internet. I LOVE the internet. It's my gateway drug. I'm online about 10hrs per day, easy. Reading, writing, networking on X, watching podcasts and lectures on YT, I'm literally never bored, and I'm limited only by my own imagination, nothing more. A power cut is a most dreadful thing in our household.

12 Philosophy. From Plato, Socrates, Descartes, Blake, Schopenhauer, Nietzsche, I plotted my way through 3 years of study in Uni from 1994-7. A crucial time period where I was under not too much pressure and could just blossom and grow as a person. Without having to work at a boring job, instead we could go to the pub and talk about art and music. Happy days which seeded my future interests.

13 Sleep. This is one of my favourite things for sure. One ciggie, a cup of strong black tea, and my 3mg Melatonin tab, each and every night that's what I take an hour before bedtime. In my journal (and on here on a separate thread) I log my dreams from childhood up to the present day. A vital resource. Knowing that sleep recharges the soul means I take getting good sleep very seriously. An old friend of mine was afraid of sleep. He called it "a brief, little period of death". I struggle with insomnia if my mind is over-extended on some subject or other, but melatonin helps big time. Within an hour of taking a 3mg tab I'm usually drowsy.

14 Conspiracy Websites. Finding Cassiopaea.org in 2003 was a milestone in my life. Before that I'd read Montalk, Rense, Icke, Alex Jones. I consider it all to have been time well spent. I love a good juicy conspiracy to grind my gears over. JFK, 9-11, Roswell, Jesus/Caesar. It's been worth the effort of interest over the years.

15 Fine Art. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and so it is. There is something incredibly soothing about going around a decent art gallery. It stills my soul and challenges me to look deeply. One of the bonuses of living in London from 1994-98 was the easy access to various top level art exhibitions. I have so much respect for the true masters of the art. Another life bonus that feels essential to me.

16 Nature. i go for a 2 mile walk every day. Just to pick up the morning paper for my Dad, and it wakes me up and I just enjoy feeling a part of nature, just letting go and feeling whatever is blowing through you at that particular moment in time. I also enjoy observing nature. I watch the ants in my garden, the birds nesting in our trees, and I regularly scare off the scabby cat that often prowls around as an interloper. A good early morning country walk is a beautiful thing. Knowing that the Wave is coming, and our world will get considerably colder, more hostile to life, is sobering. So I enjoy all of nature now, while I still can.

That's a good summary of how I listed (in no particular ranking order) the most obvious favourite stuff in my daily life. I'd be interested to learn of any responses and fellow lists from anyone on this forum, if you have the time that is, I know time these days is very precious. I've put this list in my journal. It's there for a strategic reason. That being to cheer me up if I'm ever feeling down. I hope this serious list brings a wry smile and a nod of recognition from any curious readers. We're not so different on here I suspect...
 
Thanks for the list, SlipNet - my list would be much the same, with two additions:
- My wife - my best companion, lover and friend. She’s great to have around.
- Our dog Roy - a 4.5 year old German shepard. It’s so much fun to watch his antics, and he too is great company. He just likes to be around his mob.

Well, that’s actually true for all our animals, the cows, the chooks and the ducks …

And thanks to your reminder to see the good things we have in our lives and not to just stare at the dark clouds on the horizon. There’s light too!
 

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And thanks to your reminder to see the good things we have in our lives and not to just stare at the dark clouds on the horizon. There’s light too!

You're welcome! I'm strangely enough feeling positive about life these days after a period of reflection where I was feeling gloomy about world prospects. Watching Israel getting away with murder has been as infuriating as ever. Our world is crying out for justice, but we have to become the change that we want to see in the world.

Also: choosing your wife! Awesome pick! That's something I've missed out on in life, but I've had close relationships and they've been enjoyable and instructive. I felt myself becoming more disciplined in my outlook. Strange but true. I guess I had a thing for assertive girls. Having a wife must truly be one of the favourite things. Love is precious, and is to be celebrated always.
 
My (non-exhaustive) list:

- during summer, rain starts to fall, there is a particular smell

- the cherry flavour, orange flower too

- books; I let books on the side for the preference of vain things, that adolescency made appear as "shining". Today, I am getting back at books. I would like to be surrounded by books, and I try to have as many as possible, in every room in my flat :-) It just feels "normal" and positive. Second-hand books at 1$ each.

- going out, staying outside. Too much computer during the last decade, now I need to counterbalance. It has become a mandatory step than to do that, and as well for the sake of our humanity, to be a good example. Walking & being outside (if possible!). A meal outside is a must.

- focusing & learning the concepts that the forum works on: ponerology, the anthropocosmic connection, Ian McGilchrist, ... The C forum has that talent than to spot things of high value for a good perception of reality. I am always very proud and very knowledgeable after having taken the time to read and study those things. It is very very rewarding. The anthropocosmic connection, for example, features few dark concepts. It is most of the time a very enlightening walk, fascinating. I really like it and it gets one away from "fighting the matrix", a concept that we all see in New age teachings. I see that the STO road is a calm one, based on positive integration of knowledge. I appreciate this road. Thanks to the C forum, there can be a steady and calm walk in positive ways.

- black pudding

- a fire in a chimney, candles

- linden tree tea

- smoking tobacco

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A really nice list @SlipNet. It really touched me, along the lines of: yeah that's me! And I think it's wonderful that you started this thread. Reading what everyone's specific preferences are and what makes us different from each other can help us find each other though, by getting to know each other better.

My (also not complete) list:

I love birdsong and the sound of crickets in the evening in summer

I love thunderstorms. Especially when I can feel the energy before a thunderstorm and breathe the air afterwards.

I love standing on a beach in a storm.

I love listening to old vinyl albums on my record player by candlelight and a really good red wine.

I sing karaoke with fervor as soon as my husband leaves the house. 🤣
 
This is an interesting coincidence, as idea of listing things I like, among other things I wanted to ponder, popped into my head last night and this morning I was trying to list some of the things that are important to me. To be precise, I am trying to figure out who I am and what I have to offer and I imagined a situation where I am meeting new people and how I would, theoretically, describe myself. This exercise is not finished yet, and after listing some stuff I like/am interested in I asked myself if I define myself by them. Can person be defined by means of liking some stuff? I think yes, unfortunately. I would certainly judge someone if they say they are not eating meat or by the music they listen to or what they do on weekends.

After reading your list, I checked for almost everything, minus philosophy & footbal.
For mine I would add to yours yoga/stretching, cats, great people as friends, meaningful conversations that bring people closer, visiting other parts of the world and creating things with your own hands :)

Thank you for this topic and as always a very pleasant reading you've provided @SlipNet !

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- focusing & learning the concepts that the forum works on: ponerology, the anthropocosmic connection, Ian McGilchrist,

I've only recently gotten into listening to McGilchrist on his YT channel, and his discussions with Rupert Sheldrake are very good. 2 of the best thinkers around today for sure. I've read a little on his key texts and he seems to be a very engaging thinker.

I love thunderstorms. Especially when I can feel the energy before a thunderstorm and breathe the air afterwards.

Yeah, you can't beat a mean, moody storm. The devastating power of nature.

Can person be defined by means of liking some stuff? I think yes, unfortunately.

I don't think it's so bad. My personal maxim is "you are what you do, what you know, and what you believe". Naturally that will entail your reading habits, viewing habits etc. It all goes together in the great soul mosaic that comprises the greater self. I suppose the key factor is in refining what you're into, and to what extent do you commit to these habits?

My little list:
- books
- dogs
- Coffee and cigarettes

Dogs, I knew I'd forgotten to list one other thing. No other creature can lighten my spirit like a good, comical dog. They belong on this list for sure. I'm smiling now just visualising the antics of my old Yorkie, he was crazy but so big-hearted. :lol:
 
Oh, and forgot … snowstorms! I love them … when it snows horizontally and you have to drive across snow drifts!

I always dreamed of waking up in the morning and having to jump out of the second story window to get out of my home …

Of course I realise, that the reality is somewhat less poetic, when you have to shovel all that stuff away.
 
Lovely thread :) Lots of mine have already been mentioned, like dogs, books, stormy weather (especially monsoonal rain!), bushwalking, and tobacco.. Being at the beach during a storm is the best. The sea - I miss it dearly. Haven't lived near the sea in years.. Sitting in a car, by the sea, with the rain bucketing down..

Another thing is musical instruments, especially acoustic ones made of wood. They look beautiful and to play them is one of the best experiences of life for me. Everything about them makes me happy.

Stationery.. A blank notepad of good proportions, with some nice pens & pencils, always pleasing. A very nice coat or jumper (when living somewhere cold) which fits *perfectly* and has sleeves long enough that you can tuck your hands up inside them.

Old computers (say, from 1993 or earlier) and operating systems - installing and setting up old or obscure computer operating systems, text editors, etc, and configuring them just so.
 
Reading what everyone's specific preferences are and what makes us different from each other can help us find each other though, by getting to know each other better.

That's what I was thinking about as I compiled my list; I was wondering "how many people on the forum will share this thing?". Plus it was really educational just thinking it through and noticing what each different part of my mind was choosing as a favourite thing. We can share so much info and data on this forum, but also we bring our own individualities to the table too, and that's always fun to learn about and discover.

I love listening to old vinyl albums on my record player by candlelight and a really good red wine.

I have an "album day" once each week. And yes, a nice bottle of red wine! I had a Merlot a few weeks back, very nice. The bass-y vibes you get from a good record player is truly unique, just an extra layer of warmth and depth. Good choice!

Another thing is musical instruments, especially acoustic ones made of wood. They look beautiful and to play them is one of the best experiences of life for me. Everything about them makes me happy.

I have 2 keyboards, 2 harmonicas and a journal. I write shambling attempts at songs on a sporadic basis. Yep, my talent is limited but my enthusiasm trumps that in my mind. It's a wonderful outlet for one's creative energies. I often have 2am jams on my rhodes keyboard, just adding reverb, delay and wah-wah effects, and drifting to a completely different place. Truly a favourite thing too. My keyboards have the option to run on AA batteries too, so they remain an outlet if electricity cuts out. I'm mindful that I'm a total "web-head" online most of the day. I love networking, but I increasingly enjoy how jamming music provides oneself with some positive dissociation and productive introspection.
 
Lots of my favourite things have already been mentioned. Do favourite people count, too?:-)

Clean water is another one, plus nice soap, shampoo and toothpaste.
Genuine laughter and joy.
Classical music.
Essential oils.
The first green shoots of my plants or when they start flowering.
Very small children, because they are still so open and spontaneous.
The soil in my garden.
My bicycle.
Good food.
Conversations with friends and strangers.
A clear blue sky and a clear night sky (always breathtaking!).
Sunshine, and sometimes rain and wind.

I will leave it at that. Very nice thread, @SlipNet!
 
Very small children, because they are still so open and spontaneous.

I still marvel at how my young soul got into family life as an infant. At age 2 I was sitting on my butt a lot, playing with dolls and figures. By age 7 I was watching Hammer Horror movies! In 5 years I jumped a lifetime. For a good 3 years I thought Dracula was a real person. Then I read a book on horror by Daniel Farson which explained the roots of this sub-culture. But the mind of a child is awesome, that openness to anything possible. The character isn't formalised by that point, so you still see the individuality of the soul.

A clear blue sky and a clear night sky (always breathtaking!).

Above my house I can spot the Cassiopaea constellation on any clear night. Quite often I pop out for a sly cigarette and enjoy communing with the cosmos for a brief few moments. A night time ritual which humbles the soul. A chance to realise where you are in the grand cosmic play. We're tiny in the great scheme of things, but what we experience and learn is priceless. We've got a front-row seat to the freakshow, and it's down to us how we respond to all this and take notes. Taking notes is what I do. That's why my journal is so valuable; those "where were you?" moments when you consider your thoughts on any given day or big incident. It's really fun to read my immediate responses. I often compare my mind as a 50 year old with, say, my 29 year old or even a 40 year old mind. The changes have been remarkable. Long lessons have slow cooked into my deeper subconscious mind and the learning has been hard-earned.
 
Well, this is really interesting to me because I don’t really know what I like, more so, I think it’s that I don’t realise at the time how much I like it and its importance for me to remember it. I want to blame being a parent and giving away my wants and needs (for the most part) to my kids. But then I remember that no matter how much one’s life is ruled by outward forces (work, family, cleaning, things that have to be done before ‘me’) that I still get the option to find joy, which can be hard to remember when there’s a big bunch of things that need attention. Here are a few things I like.. I’ll add more if I realise I like them…

I would love to be an avid journal writing person, I think it would be the most helpful practice I could pursue, I write to myself in my head but never on paper- why don’t I make myself??? That’s a good question.

There’s a time of day where life is sweetest, it lasts a few minutes - dusk and dawn. I don’t know what it is about those times of day but it feels really serene and peaceful, the birds playing and singing so happily.

I don’t like things so much as I like memories and fantasising (sorry guys, I have to admit I like dissociating, and I’m really good at it, no one there but me and my mind rummaging) I can check out for hours- it’s probably the same reason I (used to) like getting off my tits….

Now I already run out of thinks to like.. is there a things I don’t like list anywhere??
 
Love the list mate, I always enjoy your posts. My favourite things are, I guess, something like the following:

Learning - whether via books, podcasts, videos, this forum...I'm insatiable, limited only by my cognitive horsepower.
Sport - whether watching or participating, sport has brought much joy to my life. I was signed to West Ham between ages 10 & 16, didn't quite make the grade but played non-league and have started and run a couple of successful and decent standard amateur teams. My favourite watch is rugby at the mo. Football is in my blood but I admire the combination of courage and skill displayed by those men.
My business - strange one this in that most of my anxiety results from it, but it gives me meaning and direction and an outlet to serve others. We're in construction management, so there is some great buildings we've played leading roles in developing and I take a lot of pride in that. We've also trained some people from scratch and they have gone onto to be successful, which I'm proud of. Reading Gurdieff was key in re-framing my attitude to work, as done correctly, for me, it becomes Work.
My fiance - I thought a stable long term relationship would elude me but she is a top girl. Lots of banter, great physical connection, and our values and views are aligned.
Cats - awesome awe inspiring creatures. We have lots on our land in Bulgaria that are semi-wild but stay with us and we feed them, I love them. And one indoor cat which I named Charlie (after my father, lol).
Bulgaria - hated it at first, but have grown to love it and the slavic people with whom I live. I've learned a lot about community and honestly from the people there, and God bless them for the lessons man.
The natural beauty of Britain - I am in love with the land, if not the nation. Nothing moves me like the British countryside.
Tobacco - no explanation needed. I smoke either Pueblo or American Spirit, bang on. Oh, and another reason to love Bulgaria is you can smoke everywhere, and everyone smokes!!
Rakia - we make this potent spirit from the grapes that grow on our land. All natural, and goes beautifully with Bulgarian salad and mezze.

Thanks for the positive post, and like you, I've been in a period of elation. Its usually followed by a period of melancholy, but this one has lasted longer than most and I'll take that!!
 
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