Should let go

[Menna]

Last night I had a dream. I was dancing with a female at the lounge/club I work at. As we were dancing I was holding her hand and when we were done dancing she started to walk away but I stayed put holding her hand. Her hand stayed in mine but her arm started to unravel like a slinky and she moved farther away but I was still holding on. I believe it is clear that I need to let go of something. Maybe my want for a female partner even thought its a want maybe its not a need not my destiny. If it happens it happens...Any other interpretations of this dream? or am I on the right track?

 

[Zadius Sky]

Hi Menna. Here's my "thoughts" on your dream.

The dance could mean "harmony" or "balance" within yourself or certain aspects of yourself. Since you are dancing with a female partner, it could mean intimacy or a union between you and a feminine aspect of yourself (since in our dreams, people can be certain aspects of ourselves). I don't mean "intimacy" as in a sexual term, but more like a connection between the two of yous. That "connection" is also evident when you are holding hands with her.

Perhaps, you didn't want to lose connection with that aspect of yourself since you're still holding her hand as she's walking away? What made her move away from you? Was there something in your life recently that could brought this out? Something like neglecting the expression of your feminine aspect?

Just some thoughts. My .02 cent.

 

[Menna]

Didn't look at it this way...Thanks for the new perspective

I have become more emotional lately. If I see something touching when im alone or hear music that has good meaning I will start to tear up. I guess that is my feminine side that has surfaced over the past 6-12 months. Maybe me neglecting my feminine aspect my entire life and trying to hide it because of social programing. I have done this.

What has happened recently is that I have started talking to a girl in Florida and I live in NY. I am jumping to the conclusion that I shouldn't spend much mental energy or think about it to much and let her go in that aspect...This is the most recent female thing that has come into my life

Thinking about another vivid dream I had about 15 months ago I remember I was in the woods and I was looking through the trees and saw an army coming I perceived it as danger and I remember I turned and ran away and could feel the leaves under my feet as I ran.

Anart commented that maybe I was not careful getting into a situation. I am pretty sure what that situation was and I didn't run from it and I paid for it. I should of ran

Maybe in dream we or I should look at what I do not others and try to decifer the dreams based on my actions