simulator birth
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Re: stimulator birth
hahaha the only way to survive that pain is because your brain know that it is because new life is emerging ;) ... women literary scream "I am going to die" and that is literary how you feel, you feel like your whole body is going to fall apart, and there is nothing you can do about that, , and you can regularly hear doctor saying, "don't worry you will not." ... and pain is all you feel for hours, until the moment you see the baby, at that moment you forget everything, as othervise no one will have more than one kid ;) ...
hahaha the only way to survive that pain is because your brain know that it is because new life is emerging ;) ... women literary scream "I am going to die" and that is literary how you feel, you feel like your whole body is going to fall apart, and there is nothing you can do about that, , and you can regularly hear doctor saying, "don't worry you will not." ... and pain is all you feel for hours, until the moment you see the baby, at that moment you forget everything, as othervise no one will have more than one kid ;) ...
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Laura said:
I obviously did some how ;) ... but of course not completely, I remember the intense, and the fear I had for the 2nd delivery and all after, as for the 1st you have no idea, but obviously remembering is not on the same way as the other pains, as for the others, like fire, hit, or I don't know, we usually tend to avoid situation that will cause it again. Maybe there is a biological reason for that? But also it is very individual. I remeber how each of us in the hospital had different experiences before and after delivery.
But this video was so funny, I don't thikn that man can have simulated that feeling 100% ...
Miss.K
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Hehe that's funny.
Usually women say it hurts like hell, but my mother said that it was more like if you tie a rope to a truck and try to drag it uphill, than normal pain.
Once I talked to a woman that had been really surprised because it didn't hurt more than having her period.
I have a sister who is a midwife, and she uses hypnosis with really good results (the most difficult births were always given to her by the hospital) She once told me about a couple were sent her way after the wife had been in terrible pain for 2 days, and my sister explained to her exactly what muscle she had to relax instead of tensing, (tensing that muscle made it hard for the baby to get out and hurt like hell) and also used her hypnosis, and the pain stopped and the baby came, and the husband were furious with the hospital for not having told them that from the start, but it is a technique my sister has invented so nobody else knows about it (it was too weird for the hospital to want to know about)
Usually women say it hurts like hell, but my mother said that it was more like if you tie a rope to a truck and try to drag it uphill, than normal pain.
Once I talked to a woman that had been really surprised because it didn't hurt more than having her period.
I have a sister who is a midwife, and she uses hypnosis with really good results (the most difficult births were always given to her by the hospital) She once told me about a couple were sent her way after the wife had been in terrible pain for 2 days, and my sister explained to her exactly what muscle she had to relax instead of tensing, (tensing that muscle made it hard for the baby to get out and hurt like hell) and also used her hypnosis, and the pain stopped and the baby came, and the husband were furious with the hospital for not having told them that from the start, but it is a technique my sister has invented so nobody else knows about it (it was too weird for the hospital to want to know about)
Trobar
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Hello Casper,
I would be very interested in learning who the "experts" are that claim birth is "one of the strongest pain that one can feel in life". I have birthed three children and clearly remember the pain experienced following the third birth by cesarean section (major abdominal surgery). However, the two prior births were 'natural', in that they were drug free and I felt only what I would describe as VERY manageable discomfort. I did not feel anything remotely close to pain. Having written that, I will share that I am a retired midwife.
My recollections of my own individual birth experiences are of course subjective and should not serve as any kind of proof in favor of - or against the belief that birth is always painful.
I do not agree with the so called "experts" that birth is "one of the strongest pain that one can feel in life". My midwifery education in the United States was provided by midwives that only attend home births or birth center births and this is how I practiced midwifery. A large part of my clinical training was provided by Jamaican midwives at Victoria Jubilee Hospital in Kingston, Jamaica. During my clinical training in Jamaica, I witnessed a large volume of non medicated natural births in a hospital setting. I do not remember even one case of a mother screaming in pain. There were many mothers who experienced great discomfort with the contractions. There were also mothers who did not experience any discomfort whatsoever and there were many individual and differing experiences in between. I'll never forget one lovely mother who sang a soft and soothing song the entire time she was in labor.
Following my clinical training, I was blessed with the opportunity to attend many home and birth center births in the United States. My experience as a midwife demonstrated that each birth is unique and they are not all painful. As an advocate of informed choices I required my midwifery clients to attend weekly instruction that I provided. My clients were taught that pregnancy and birth is not an illness and does not always require medical intervention. The most important information I provided was that very frequently an informed and educated mother will have a birth that does not require pain medication. I had many clients who did not experience any pain at all.
It can be amusing to speculate in the realm of 'what if' when it comes to imagining a man dealing with pregnancy and birth. However, their bodies are not equipped with the inner pharmacy of chemicals necessary to cope with the birth of a child. I will speculate here and write that if men had the reproductive system of a woman . . . and if they had the capacity to produce the same hormones as women, many of these men could and would experience a painless birth. :)
I would be very interested in learning who the "experts" are that claim birth is "one of the strongest pain that one can feel in life". I have birthed three children and clearly remember the pain experienced following the third birth by cesarean section (major abdominal surgery). However, the two prior births were 'natural', in that they were drug free and I felt only what I would describe as VERY manageable discomfort. I did not feel anything remotely close to pain. Having written that, I will share that I am a retired midwife.
My recollections of my own individual birth experiences are of course subjective and should not serve as any kind of proof in favor of - or against the belief that birth is always painful.
I do not agree with the so called "experts" that birth is "one of the strongest pain that one can feel in life". My midwifery education in the United States was provided by midwives that only attend home births or birth center births and this is how I practiced midwifery. A large part of my clinical training was provided by Jamaican midwives at Victoria Jubilee Hospital in Kingston, Jamaica. During my clinical training in Jamaica, I witnessed a large volume of non medicated natural births in a hospital setting. I do not remember even one case of a mother screaming in pain. There were many mothers who experienced great discomfort with the contractions. There were also mothers who did not experience any discomfort whatsoever and there were many individual and differing experiences in between. I'll never forget one lovely mother who sang a soft and soothing song the entire time she was in labor.
Following my clinical training, I was blessed with the opportunity to attend many home and birth center births in the United States. My experience as a midwife demonstrated that each birth is unique and they are not all painful. As an advocate of informed choices I required my midwifery clients to attend weekly instruction that I provided. My clients were taught that pregnancy and birth is not an illness and does not always require medical intervention. The most important information I provided was that very frequently an informed and educated mother will have a birth that does not require pain medication. I had many clients who did not experience any pain at all.
It can be amusing to speculate in the realm of 'what if' when it comes to imagining a man dealing with pregnancy and birth. However, their bodies are not equipped with the inner pharmacy of chemicals necessary to cope with the birth of a child. I will speculate here and write that if men had the reproductive system of a woman . . . and if they had the capacity to produce the same hormones as women, many of these men could and would experience a painless birth. :)
http://orgasmicbirth.com/about/what-is-orgasmic-birth/
bellydancing has been a great help as it teaches to isolate muscles
indeed birth does not have to be that painful I have had 4 drugfree homebirths ,the last(at age 39) was 25min 2nd stage and I slept through 1st stage ...pain out of 10 about 3 ,I have endured far worse pain with other illnesses
bellydancing has been a great help as it teaches to isolate muscles
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I can say that my experience with Cesarean section, as my 3rd birth, was afterwards more painfull and less comfortable than my 2 previous drugfree natural births. I was expecting that it will be much easier, but it is not. It took me much longer to recover, and I can still feel from time to time the scarf. Now from my experience I will recommend to any women to go for natural drugfree birth, as from my experience I think it makes stronger bound with the kid, and more natural recovery of the body.
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Obviously we can see from others, that each person have quite opposite experiences ... :) ... I enjoyed pregnancies very much indeed, while I know many who had terrible time with sickens and all other physical probelms.
Nancy2feathers
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Miss.K said:
My mom gave birth to me under hypnosis 59 years ago. She said she felt no pain and there were no complications. It's really not a newly discovered technique. My mom also had surgeries while being under hypnosis, with no anesthesia, also many years ago in the USA.
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