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In "The Pleiadian Book" of Barbara Marciniak, one can read :
This topic could seem too simple, but we have to control the expressions of negative emotions, don't we ? So supervising/controling is/could sometimes be in conflict with the necessity of experimenting ?
I wonder how valid of this source ? Can we understand our emotions while experimenting them (without distance) ? Comments ?Feeling is what connects you to your humanity. Feeling is what connects you to your emotions. Emotions are connecting you in this realm of existence to your spiritual body.
What we are saying is that emotions, feelings, are the key to being alive in this reality.
Many realities exist without emotions. If you want to deny the emotional self in this lifetime then you had best just realize you have hung it up. Because if you are not going to be part of an emotional self then you are never going to make the game that we are talking about. You will simply be one of the masses who watches television and feels like she is a victim over and over and over again.
If you are feeling pain within your emotional body, ask yourself why you believe this pain is there and what purpose the pain serves and why do you choose to create pain through emotions. Why is it not your choice to create joy? All is choice. We need to remind you of this.
Most humans are afraid of the emotional center, the feeling center. They are afraid to feel. Trust your feelings no matter what they [are]. Trust that they lead you to something, the way that you feel brings you a realization.
You all want to be in life and be removed from it at the same time. "Let me just be here and be a powerful person but I don't want to feel or participate too much in it because it hurts too much and then I will get sucked down."
[When] you are not afraid of feeling and you are moving past judgment and you are allowing yourself to feel all the ways that you feel and you move through it, you will come to a tremendous breakthrough because you will be able to ride feeling into other realities.
[Some of you] are afraid to feel in this reality so you will not even participate in this reality, let alone ride into other realities.
If you wish to have an acceleration, dive into something that brings up feeling. Stop skirting the issue so that you can think you are in control. Dive in the middle then see if you are in control.
It's not that you don't know how to feel. You are afraid of your feelings. You don't know what to do with them when you have them. They bring up a sense of powerlessness within you. You associate feeling with, "Oh, no, I blew it." You have a boundary of belief system that when something comes up that is emotional, that brings pain or feeling or anger to you that that is not good. It is time to stop tip-toeing around things. Stop avoiding your
emotions.
QUESTION: I have a fear that when I get into my emotions and let them flow that I will become less centered.
PLEIADIANS: Do you understand that because you have a fear of something it keeps you from experiencing it because you put up that wall that says, "If I go there it is bad." You put the brakes on so you don't go there. In actuality, sometimes the greatest thing is to simply say, "What the heck, I will go there." Then deal with being there while you are there and not worrying about being centered while you are in the feeling center.
That is wanting to take control into that situation again. Of course, you will strive to be centered within the feeling center. But if you intend to go into the feeling center and always just be centered, you are not giving yourself the range of movement that is needed to ride the emotions that knock down boundaries and belief systems. You can make an intention to go into the feeling center and that you learn how to be centered there while you explore all of the opportunities of the feeling center. Not to say, "And I am going to be centered there." Then it sounds as if you won't allow yourself any movement within it.
Strive to have eventually a centeredness. A centeredness does not mean that things don't fluctuate. It means that you allow things to fluctuate. When the you allow things to fluctuate. When the boat is ready to tip over or when it is calm water, you allow it. You ride it. Then you get out of the event, whatever the ride was, a calm ride or a rough ride.
Anger serves a purpose. All of you want to get finished with it. You want to sweep it under the rug. You want to act as if it is no good. You act as if it is rotten vegetables. Throw it out. Bury it back in the garden. There is no purpose to it.
What we are intending to emphasize is that there is a purpose to fear and there is a purpose to anger. If people would allow themselves to express, to experience their fears, which may lead to the expression of anger, they would learn something. Those of you who want desperately to avoid fear and anger and make a huge issue not to confront it and who are really afraid of it, you have something great to learn through these techniques and you are simply afraid to experience it.
Most of the time you are wanting to be accepted. You feel, "No one will like me if I do this or if I feel this way." And you don't give yourself permission to have certain feelings. That is where the anger comes from. You make the anger because you make the judgments
about what you can and cannot do.
If you do not give yourself permission to feel, you cannot learn. You can have good things in your life if you do not feel. It is not a very fulfilling existence. Feeling connects you with life.
We will say to you, enjoy yourselves during this time of transition. There are many wonderful discoveries to be had. We trust that you will gather all of them for yourself.
This topic could seem too simple, but we have to control the expressions of negative emotions, don't we ? So supervising/controling is/could sometimes be in conflict with the necessity of experimenting ?