There have been several threads made here that explain that our brain loves to find patterns, some have stated that sometimes there could be an underlying message or lesson but usually it's just how our mind works. Our brain finds patterns amongst the countless mountains of information we are subjected to every day, most of which we don't even see.
I'm curious to wonder if you have experienced "objective reality"? I'm only asking because I don't think a comparison can be made when you don't know what you are comparing it to. Also objective reality is:
How Things Really Are
We are using the term objective reality in contrast to subjective reality, which is reality seen through our inner mental filters that are shaped by our past conditioning. Objective reality is how things really are. Although it is possible to perceive objectively, we cannot take in the totality of reality and say anything about it; we can only point to some of its characteristics. So whenever we explore reality in any specific manner, we have to leave out something. For example, when you describe an orange, you cannot say anything about its totality. You have to talk about its color or its taste or its shape. If you want your description to encompass the whole thing -- its color, shape, and taste all together -- you can only say, "orange." It is the same with objective reality. If you want to say anything about it, you have to focus on its specific characteristics.
It would be illogical to assume your own subjective reality is more vast than an infinite universe of infinite expressions. Have you by chance read "The Wave" and ISOTM?