QueenVee said:
Sigh. I really have no desire for this kind of personalized conflict, but rather than "walk away" (as I usually do when it descends to this), I will TRY to clarify what I actually DID say vs what you perceive me to have said -- even though I probably will inevitably cause further "offence" by doing so:
This is quite interesting. Rather than clarify, or even learn, you walk away. Why is that? Is your cup that full?
beau said:
It won't be done by pessimistically claiming that the sleeping masses are incapable of waking up and thus their is no purpose in trying.
qv said:
Again, I did not say that AT ALL. I respectfully suggest that you re-read my posts and quote what I ACTUALLY SAID, rather than rely on your paraphrase of what you chose to read into them.
This, again, is twisting. It could easily be said that you did, actually, imply what Beau inferred by stating what you stated. Another interpretation is certainly possible, but it would require either a gargantuan amount of creative thinking, or a 'critical correction' of what you had written. Beau was not, and is not, 'paraphrasing' - he is taking you at your word. You seem to rather resent being taken at your word and being held accountable for what you write here.
qv said:
Talk about "twisting". You invent a position that I never took and then attack it.
Nope, that never happened.
qv said:
That's not a useful discussion, it's a waste of time.
No, that is simply taking you at your word and holding you responsible for what you write.
qv said:
That's why I walk away when it gets to this point. I have no desire, and see no point, to my spending time defending a position that I never took and/or endlessly trying to reiterate what I did say vs what I didn't say. I really don't know what else to tell you.
Now, this is quite telling indeed. You see no point in communicating. You see no point in addressing questions addressed to you based on nothing other than what you have written. You see no point in feedback that doesn't match your own self impression. You see no point in a conversation - especially when it addresses what you have written and what that reveals about you. Would you prefer to 'hold court' - to speak and not be spoken to? You see, the most valuable thing about this forum is that, occasionally, it can offer an objective veiw of what one is really thinking - not a 'position you never took' - but a mirror to reflect exactly what one is saying and how one is saying it.
The true measure of a person is often found in how they react to this reflection. For, oh, I think the third time, I'll ask you - are you familiar with the work of G.I. Gurdjieff?
qv said:
Since I'll probably be banned now (which is a shame), just let me say how much I've enjoyed my interactions on this board. And I apologize if I perceived this forum to be something other than what it is.
Again, quite telling and suggestive and manipulative - what did you, oh queen, 'perceive this forum to be'? Has this forum fallen woefully short of your expectations since it did not bolster your own subjective self-impression? Just curious, because this latest post of yours blows the earlier ones out of the water - fwiw.