Andromeda said:
whitecoast said:
Personally I think the whole event showed a lack of strategic enclosure and external consideration. I get that you thought it was funny and wanted to share it with other like-minded people; no harm there. But why agitate vegetarians unnecessarily by sharing a sardonic joke that really just triggers emotional defense? If you read the vegetarian myth, you should know how emotionally invested and identified with their moral stance they are. That kind of thing needs to be confronted with cold, hard facts. Not something sarcastic. That you plugged PBPM and veg myth below indicates you were open to a discussion on it. But you appended them to what a vegetarian would construe as a personal attack on their values, which would just make them close up and not listen to anything you say.
The cross-purposes for the post kind of ruined much of the latter interaction, IMO. Since you said you have a bunch of random people you don't really know on fb, have you considered using friend lists for selective sharing to improve enclosure? If someone's a bonehead, I'd usually just unsubscribe from their inane newsfeed, since there's still a small chance they'd be interested in cometary or Palestinian info I share. At least, that's what I would do.
I don't really see it that way. The type of vegetarians who responded fanatically and were unwilling to discuss the issue were pretty obviously so far up their own backsides that there was nothing to be done but weed them out and save discussion energy for others who might actually listen to anything. If we followed the logic above, we wouldn't post very much at all because someone out there is likely to have their feathers ruffled by one thing or another. People are emotionally invested in all sorts of things and I feel that it's better to agitate them than to walk on eggshells.
I agree. The "sarcastic" pic was posted by many forum members on here and I actually shared it from a forum member. There are many more of these "funny" pics shared by us on FB. As Andromeda said, if I'd go by your logic I wouldn't really post anything at all because someone always seems to get triggered about all kinds of topics.
I actually like Guardian's "strategy". ;) It's what I've been doing as well.
For example around election time, I got some messages from people asking me to "stop the Obama bashing because Romney must not win". Well, I did exact the opposite and posted more of Obama's lies and fallacies, mostly SOTT articles and pics with his hypocritical and contradictory statements. On top of that I even wrote an article where I quoted those individuals (not by name) based on FB interactions to illustrate the denial and wishful thinking of Obama supporters: http://www.sott.net/article/252684-Voting-Cognitive-Dissonance-and-Fear-of-the-Unknown
Then, last week, a couple of people commented on some graphic pics of the Palestinian victims of the recent attacks by Israel, stating that it was too graphic and "negative" and it would push people away. Well, I posted even more pics of that kind explaining that is has nothing to do with "negativity" but is simply reality as it is. Perceval also made a good comment about that issue and there was a good discussion about it on one of the FB threads.
Same with the vegetarian topic. The day after all the attacks of vegetarians on that "funny" pic I posted lots of links with articles/videos about that topic based on science and facts.
All of that weeded out more people and they just delete themselves while the sincere ones actually took in the information.
FB for me is about spreading awareness and information and there are people who take in the information even if it challenges their current beliefs at first. There are many people who believed in lies and were triggered at first, but the sincere ones actually started to read SOTT more often, bought Laura's books and some even joined the forum. I'd have no idea who to put on a "selected friends" list because most people have "sacred cows" and get triggered about certain topics eventually, even if they seem to be "on the same page" first. And what's the point of sharing information with people who are already aware of that information?
Here's something I wrote from another thread relating to this topic: http://cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php/topic,29702.0.html
Fwiw, I'm very outspoken on FB. However I only post information on my own wall and don't push info on other people's wall (I used to do that and attracted much unnecessary attack because I wasn't externally considerate). Occasionally someone has an issue with what I post on my wall and tries to engage in "discussion". In the past I have wasted much energy and time trying to make that other person "see" when it happens. Now I just keep it short, address the logical fallacies and simply post more facts and info to give the lie what it deserves: the truth. For the most part the individual doesn't even read it and is not sincere but just wants to hear himself/herself talk. I also really don't care if someone deletes me when I "scratch" them a bit with what I write. Sometimes those discussions are good to separate the wheat from the chaff (not that wheat is any good, but you get the point) and I have to delete/block some "friends". I usually then post this "disclaimer" and move on:
When getting into "discussions", I’ve found that some people engage in at least one of the following:
- don’t read the all links/information and resources provided or just skim over it.
- do “selective reading”and have “selected hearing”.
- do not address what has been ACTUALLY said. In other words, many people “talk” without “listening” first.
- make quick assumptions and hasty conclusions
- twist words around and read into words something else than what they actually mean.
- engage in ad hominem attacks, straw man/red herring arguments
- are not aware of their own conditioning (for example national identification), tunnel vision and how it results in lack of critical thinking, lack of objectivity and logical fallacies.
There is also the "silent" and "hidden" reader, so you never know who reads your posts. You can reach people you are not even aware that you are reaching them because they never comment or press like but are still open and curious. The discussions can also be beneficial for the ones on the "side line" and I also learn from them in terms of how to communicate better, being externally considerate and so on. I get messages occasionally from people thanking me about all the info I post but who I don't see online much or ever share/like what I post. Sometimes even friends I have locally (who I never thought would even consider what I post) tell me in person how much they learn from my posts and wish they "had the balls" to be so outspoken. I tell them that it's not about "having balls" but just acting on your conscience and I simply ask them for example: "how would you feel and what would you do if it was your child that is being killed/injured in Gaza?"
I feel much anger as of late, especially with what is going on in Gaza, but it's righteous anger and I try to channel it creatively as Gurdjieff wrote about it too. Actually much of my writings and videos were triggered by other people's complacency and posting disinformation and keeping an objective eye on the world. Reading SOTT daily helps with that. So it's "fuel" to speak up more but still learning in terms of "external consideration" and "strategic enclosure". It's a fine line at times to truly be "externally considerate" but still speaking out even if it's not what the other person "likes" to hear.
As I said above, many of my blogs and the videos I made with de-tached were "inspired" by such FB discussions, pointing out the fallacies and disinformation in more depth. So, in the end, these interactions are also good lessons to help me become more informed about what I'm trying to say. My article http://www.sott.net/article/248735-2012-Collective-Awakening-or-End-of-the-World was also inspired by a FB discussion where some people got triggered, especially "psychedelic guru" Daniel Pinchbeck. I was thinking, how can I write a piece to summarize all the myths about 2012 and the topics that are being ignored or ridiculed as I've seen it on FB so many times?
Even Zoya's recent excellent article http://www.sott.net/article/253772-An-Israeli-speaks-out-against-the-crimes-of-her-government was based on a FB interaction, where she posted what is now the intro of the article as a FB status update. Some very ignorant person called her out on that and justified Israel's right to defend itself. Other forum members and myself chimed in and challenged him on his comment, also providing facts. Zoya then took the opportunity to write this article and integrated some of the information we shared as well. Would Zoya have written the article if that person wouldn't have challenged her on that? I don't know, maybe yes or no. However, I think the comment by him has inspired her on some level to write that piece, because there are many Israelis who think like him. In other words, these "discussions" and people's triggers are also a good insight into how other people think and view the world, hence we can address these issues in more depth and give the lies what they deserve: the truth. At least, these are my 2 cents...