cubbex said:
Oh yeah, if not why would they want violence?? But an adult won't go out and harm others because has seen it in a videogame, it should be retarded or something like that to do it, and a child may do it without thinking about it.
Hubby and I had an interesting discussion with my niece once, in regard to video games. We were discussing video game violence, and my Hubby mentioned that he thought that the really violent games should be age restricted to adults over 21 years old. My niece agreed, stating that she had played "Grand Theft Auto" a few times at a friends house, and it made her so angry, she said she did want to ram someone with a car.
She also related that other people she knew, after playing such games, tended to be cruel, and find cruelty funny, even going so far as to laugh at the news, or make fun of anyone fallen on hard times.
We were discussing how teens and young adults' nervous systems were still in an adjustment from puberty, and not quite fixed perception wise to Reality and the cause/effect of actions. In my niece's case, she heartily agreed, and it appeared to unnerve her a bit. (We were also discussing her two brothers and, to her, their infuriating behavior and judgementalism).
It bothers me how so many teens and young adults are insulated from the real world to the point that, once they are on their own, they cannot cope with Life: the building and management of a household, paying bills, and basic life skills. My sister's children are this way, and as bad as it appears to others, its not a situation Hubby and I want to interfere in...and we are both thankful that, once it was clear that I couldn't get pregnant without extreme measures, we said "Ok" to the Universe and did not force the issue with adoption.
Kind of off topic at the end here, sorry...