Any advice for my father?

[irjO]

Sorry to hear of your father's illness IADF, the good thing is he is trying the orthomolecular medicine, something you can help him with.

I wish your father well and look after yourself too.

I wish your father well too! I hope everything get better! keep us inform :)

 

[Leonarda]

Sorry to hear of your father's illness IADF, the good thing is he is trying the orthomolecular medicine, something you can help him with.

I wish your father well and look after yourself too.

I wish your father well too! I hope everything get better! keep us inform :)

I send you too a hug from the other side of the Atlantic ocean

 

[l apprenti de forgeron]

Thank you Lindenlea, irjo and Leonarda. It is very comforting feel your support.

 

[Leadr1]

Dear i can not give you any advise about it but give you a hope and courage to have a big heart. You father will get health again very soon.

 

[Zadius Sky]

Dear i can not give you any advise about it but give you a hope and courage to have a big heart. You father will get health again very soon.

Hi Leadr1,

Seeing that this is your first post, so I would like to welcome you to the forum. We ask that all new forum members introduce themselves in the Newbies section. Nothing personal, just a little bit about yourself and how you found the forum. If you are unsure of what to write, take a look at how others on the board have done it.

:)

 

[Arwenn]

Well, my father has gone to 3 sessions of orthomolecular medicine, and his doctor confirmed that he will rise the dose of vitamin C. My father says that he feels better, so this is something to emphasize. He is also trying to adapt to a paleo diet. I gave him many SOTT articles on diet, but still has a hard time for changing this. And obviously because, as Laura said, is not a diet but a lifestyle. Now my father, that is a doctor too, is convinced that cancer is, principally, a metabolic disease. Regrets not to have known this a long time ago.
I have some hope but he is hopeless. It's horrible to say, but he already warned me that if the pain increased again he will kill himself. I think the physical pain he feels are not so great as the moral, and his pride prefers the suicide than be killed by a disease. He is also very scared. Everything is pretty sad.
While all this happens, I heard that his current partner is pregnant. Life is very strange.

I too am sorry to hear about your father's illness, l apprenti de forgeron.

I tink it's great that he realizes that cancer is a metabolic disease, & that diet is important (especially because being a doctor he would have been subjected to the cancer dogma of the medical establishment). And at least he is trying Paleo & orthomolecular. It's a great start! One of the series of videos on the Jeff Volek thread talks about cancer cells having insulin-like receptors that just love sugar. So getting him off sugar and carbs is definitely a gret idea.

You could also consider Bach Rescue remedy for the stress that you are both going through. This video by Gabor Mate is great, & emphasises the fact that stress is detrimental, and suppressing things only leads to disease.

Take care of yourself, and keep us updated.

 

[l apprenti de forgeron]

Finally my father passed away today. He attempted suicide, but the serum fell of his arm as he slept (maybe his dogs have been involved with that). A medical colleague assisted him to end his suffering, later in the hospital.
In recent times the liver tumors were gone, and had reduced the ones in the lungs. But in the pelvic area and the large intestine, the opposite. In the last scan that they did in the morning, they saw that was flow restricted and complete obstruction. It was clear why he complaints and suffering.
Just over two weeks ago her daughter born. And I think that if he endured so much was to see her. His physical suffering ended
You believe it would be good idea to buy some candles, write something as a kind of "indicators" of what his soul must do?. I do not know how to guide a dead loved one.
A cycle is completed. I no longer have father. I hope to see him again "someday" beyond time. Luckily we were able to say goodbye to each other.
His decision about that his physical body be cremated will be respected, and his ashes scattered in the river, in the club of all his life.
His name was Ricardo, or Richard, and was a good person with many flaws. But really a good man with good heart, good friend, worker and breadwinner of his family.

 

[Lilou]

I'm so sorry for your loss, l apprenti de forgeron. And so sorry to hear how Ricardo suffered. It is bittersweet, a new baby and the loss of your father in a short time. I hope he had a smooth transition and glad he was able to see his daughter. As for a candle and doing a small ritual, if it helps you find closure, then it is worthwhile. My guess is he was well prepared to go toward the light and found his way in Godspeed. Love his heart. May he rest in peace.

 

[H-KQGE]

I'm so sorry to hear this l apprenti de forgeron. I must say that although this news is sad, I am glad that your father's suffering has now ended. I can't imagine the mental, emotional, & physical pain he must have been under; & your pain too. Sometimes we forget the difficulty that the survivors face themselves, especially when it is someone that they care about. Hang in there. If he hung on to see the birth of a new child then it sounds like family was very important to him. I hope that this cycle, a new soul exiting this world & a new one entering, will be significant, a positive symbol even at this time, the most difficult period in our history that we are facing.

It's good that you had a relationship with him where you could see his good heart & support for his family, despite any flaws. From the outside looking in, I will choose to view his passing, coupled with the new arrival, as a positive. I think that we all wish to see all of our loved ones from different lives again, if we hold reincarnation & the seven densities to be true, any validity to these concepts will make it so. Thank you for sharing.

 

[Kaigen]

My sincere condolences l apprenti de forgeron for your loss. Wish your father quick passage to the light and you strength .

 

[stardust]

You believe it would be good idea to buy some candles, write something as a kind of "indicators" of what his soul must do?. I do not know how to guide a dead loved one.

Sorry for your father. If you fear that his soul have some trouble to find his new way, you can do all you think could help him.
When my companion was in coma (with an anavoidable death at the end), I remember having kept a candle lighting all the time, and tell him that he could leave in peace, and not to worry for those who stay on this earth. If you feel the need to tell him some words you'd like to tell him, (something you'd not the time to tell when his was here) you can always (in writing, or prayer i.e., or preparing an beautiful eulogy for his funeral if you fell enough strong to make it- I know it is not easy.). I had also played some music my companion had loved.

Take time for you too, and take care about you.

 

[Chu]

You did all you could, and as sad as it is, he seems to have been able to choose when to go after meeting his daughter, being able to say goodbye to you, and stop suffering. I agree with others. If you feel you can help, you can write or talk to him, telling him not to be afraid of going into the light, because there he will meet other loved ones. Or whatever you feel could help him. But perhaps he's already done it, since he chose to go.

Take good care of yourself too!

May Ricardo rest in peace.

 

[RedFox]

My condolences to you and your family l apprenti de forgeron. May Ricardo find peace, and wishing you all the strength needed for everyone to move past this difficult time.

 

[truth seeker]

My condolences, l apprenti de forgeron.

 

[Arwenn]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss, l apprenti de forgeron. You did what you could, maybe as suggested above light some candles, and consider writing or keeping a journal to help process the grief and loss.
Take care