As I began to Love Myself (Charlie Chaplin)

This is the right thread at the right time :) Thank you for sharing, Perceval and everyone who participated.

luke wilson said:
In light of this, I propose a hypothesis about everything we have to do to become STO or evolve.

We already live in worry before we come to the Work. It's the mechanical way of life. Ok, we start to take control, we start to work on ourselves in the hope of achieving the impossible. Ok, clue no.1. The impossible - nobody tells you this, but it really is the impossible. It is impossible because we carry countless assumptions that arent really rooted in objective reality. Classic example, our idea of time.

You work, work beyond belief. Days go by, no real change. You accumulate knowledge, days go by, still no discernible change in our being despite being able to maneuver in our reality better and in a more healthy way.

One day comes, when all this work with no discernible change in our state of being, makes you angry and you realise, all this was designed to make you surrender your worry about the future, the past and all that. You dont just realise that, you realise the futility of all that down to your bones(this realisation permeates your whole being to the point of fusion where you become inseparable from it) and in that moment you start living in the NOW and throw the past and the future out the window. To others it might appear like, you gave up, or threw in the towel. But to the universe, you've learnt to love yourself and at that moment you achieve the impossible which in an ironic turn of events, wasnt so impossible after all.
as I began to love myself, I got closer and closer to freedom, until one day, I was out the door and into a new world.
I wonder if its basically the same state Ken Wilber describes.

[quote author=ken wilber]
Genuine Insight (7:50)

Genuine insight is the revealing of the divine nature within us. Through this insight we realize the immortal truth of pure, receptive consciousness at the center of all sentient beings. As a consequence of this direct experience any sincere practitioner sees clearly the contrast between the true nature of spirit and the transitory nature of ego. Once this view is known, we spontaneously intuit an internal awareness of freedom, no matter what thoughts, emotions, or feelings arise in ordinary consciousness. If the insight is genuine the practitioner of Hollow Bones Zen also experiences a subtle and highly unreasonable sense of joy that flows from this pure receptive consciousness throughout his or her heart, mind, and body.

Before we experience genuine insight we look out with our physical eyes and believe the world is only as we think it to be. Obsessed with ego consciousness and the seemingly endless cycles of concepts and emotional reactions produced by this form of knowledge, we perceive nothing extraordinary about the world. Our awareness is unable to pierce the veil of ego, and so we might feel autonomous, but also alone, a part of the surrounding world, yet somehow alienated from it. In a futile attempt to overcome our deep sense of doubt, anxiety, and fear, we shift from one unfulfilling belief system to the next.

Once we have honestly experienced genuine insight we look out through these same physical eyes, but we are now aware of the pure, silent nature of consciousness within. Our anxiety, fear and doubt slowly fall away, supplanted by unreasonable delight and joy. We experience others as our ourselves, feeling connected and in communion with all sentient beings. We still notice the hope, fears and delusions of the ego without being governed by these misguided forces. All of this occurs-- not in some abstract idealistic fashion-- but in a simple, direct and undeniable form of knowledge. This is the process of awakening to our inherent nature, what we call “Buddha mind.”[/quote] http://www.kenwilber.com/blog/show/535

He is the author of books like "Eros, Cosmos, Logos" presenting his w(holistic) approach called integral theory, which is based on zen concepts combined with modern, scientific approaches. For me it was the first book dealing with (w)holistic ideas. You might say reading this stuff is an early milestone in my work. Unfortunately his words are not that beautiful and not that simple compared to this thread, rather technical. He appears to be a little bit lost in the intellect, limited by his technical terms but still: basically he is heading into the same direction, or so it seems. Sometimes he reminds me of Ouspensky. I have often wondered why people like him haven't allready contacted the sott-team, since they have so much in common. But maybe he is just too identified with his own approach, that makes him blind to further steps. Maybe he hasn't defeated his second enemy: 'clarity' (according to 'The Teachings of Don Juan'). Maybe he is too isolated or maybe he went astray somewhere in the process. The funny thing is that I found this network to be truly integral, something this man seems to have missed so far.
 
Ahh...How my being needed the wonderful expressions and reminders that I have found here today!!! Thank you!
 
I came back to this thread to see how far I've progressed along the lines of loving myself. I think I am getting there. The part that especially like is:

As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.

Today I call it “SIMPLICITY“.

Which sounds like just doing the daily tasks before us. And it reminded me of these two from The Art of Manliness thread:

Resolution

Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.

Industry

Lose no time. Be always employed in something useful. Cut off all unnecessary actions.

A little self-compassion and self-acceptance goes a long way I think. No need for perfection.
 
I came back to this thread to see how far I've progressed along the lines of loving myself. I think I am getting there.

That is good to hear 3D Student.

It really is a wonderful poem, thanks for sharing Perceval. I am going to print it out and reflect on my own progress too. Funny how we tend to come across information that is really meaningful when we most need it. Serendipity perhaps?

Judging by the responses of the latest Cs sessions, a lot of folk are struggling at this time, and feel under attack as Laura has too. Maybe it is reverberating down the line in a sense. I have certainly felt it recently; feeling very vulnerable, self-doubt kicking in, having extremely vivid dreams, some psychic-like insights too even. Even though we each have our own 'stuff' to sort out, programs etc, and therefore have to accept responsibility for self; we are also part of something so much bigger than ourselves - this group/new reality we are creating. That is a good reminder too and incentive I feel to help us in these challenging times.

There is a good section in the Life is Religion booklet on Protecting Psychic Hygiene.

Laura mentioned something on the latest Cs session that I found inspiring:

Better to get to work hard to balance the scales and maybe improve the present somehow. And yeah, I've buried myself in work while going through this.

As I understand it, this means keep working, maintaining the effort, do what 'it' doesn't want essentially. I have felt like this before, and deluded myself at the time to "be kind to myself" and just chill for a few weeks and let it pass. All that resulted was stagnation and very nearly falling asleep again - 'it' wanting to take the easier path.

Anyway, finding this poem has really lifted me. Better to just keep the momentum going, to 'love myself' - and network about it. :)
 
3D Student said:
I came back to this thread to see how far I've progressed along the lines of loving myself. I think I am getting there. The part that especially like is:

As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.

Today I call it “SIMPLICITY“.

Which sounds like just doing the daily tasks before us. And it reminded me of these two from The Art of Manliness thread:

Resolution

Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.

Industry

Lose no time. Be always employed in something useful. Cut off all unnecessary actions.

A little self-compassion and self-acceptance goes a long way I think. No need for perfection.

Glad to hear you're making progress 3D student. Self-compassion is useful, as long as it doesn't lead to self-indulgence, which it can. I think it might be better to having compassion for others who are struggling, and part of that compassion would be trying to help them, as long as they are asking. Whatever you give to others, you receive/become yourself, as a general rule. That is, apparently, the way the subconscious works.
 
Charlie Chaplin is best known today as a comedian who starred in silent films,but , he was writing songs,too.

Incredible Poem Written By Charlie Chaplin

"As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”.

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “MATURITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know “THAT IS LIFE”!"

Link:
http://mashariazgitonga.blogspot.hr/2016/05/charlie-chaplins-incredible-poem-on.html
 
Thanks for posting this casper. I had come across this before, but never realised who had authored it. It is beautiful.
 
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