Gandalf said:
Hi Dirk,
Welcome to our forum.
We recommend all new members to post an introduction in the Newbies section telling us a bit about themselves, how they found the cass material, and how much of the work here they have read.
You can have a look through that board to see how others have done it.
Thanks Gandalf. Will do.
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You seem utterly certain that your take on this is the correct one, and other views need your input in order to become correct.
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What would you suggest? Should a child have contact with his parents against his will? Should books like Atlas Shrugged be banned? I would say let people decide for themselves and if they live by the philosophy of Ayn Rand for a few years, or even their entire lifes. It's their choice. Hopefully they will read a book or two, or fifty more and see the limitations of the philosophy.
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I can only presume that you don't have children
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That's right.
[quote author=hitherto]
, as your statements in the above doesn't take into consideration parental love, worrying for ones offspring, or fear for their choices in life.
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I can imagine this to be a great struggle and yes, I realize, every parent will have to deal with this. However realize this: parental love means emotional dependence in many instances, worrying about ones offspring communicates to the child that he/she is weak and this will make him or her insecure and hold the child back. One of the greatest gifts a parent can give their child is to believe in them unconditionally. Lastly fear of their choices in life: again, very understandable, but none of their business.
That said, I believe development of consciousness in the children, can aid parents in this process.
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This is the experience of every parent, and it serves no purpose to talk about detachment from ones children and their choices.
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Yes, but it is the experience of a 3D, STS parent. Which almost every parent is. They see children as part of themselves (and not of the whole). I don’t know if detachment is the answer. It is, partly. Doing the work is the answer. Become so strong and confident, and STO yourself, that you can give (and I don’t mean take) and do what is necessary, so that one does not have to worry in a 3D STS sense. Many parents ‘give’ love where it isn’t ask for, that is however, taking, as the C’s also express very clearly. Otherwise parents will push their children away.
[quote author=hitherto]
The sheeple are always the first ones to pick up on a new prophet, and the most inclined to worship the thoughts and ideas of their hero uncritically. For people of this sort, someone like Ayn Rand is not the right person to emulate, as her thinking focuses on something that is unattainable from the start for most of them - economic and intellectual indepence that doesn't hinder other people's progress.
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Ok, so what should be done? Ban the book?
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There is a reason why Ayn Rand has been seen as the strong peoples advocate - it's because her thoughts sound true to people who wish that everybody else could be just as strong and nice as themselves. Rands only solution as I see it is to ask of all people to be better than they are, and history tells us that this doen't work. You have to work with what excists.
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I agree.
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It seems to me to boil down to what kind of world you want to live in:
"Every man for himself" or "One for all and all for one".
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The second one, of course. However, that is not reality. Think about the prisoners dilemma. If you sacrifice yourself for the
other, where the other doesn’t do it for you, you get screwed. So this doesn’t work at present. Most people who want to ‘do
good’ should forget about that for a while and go for themselves, e.g. build a big business (or whatever is their purpose), become really influential and then go ‘do good’ again. At that point the whole game has changed and the psychopaths and diehard egoists seem to have a lot less control. Only if good men become influential and strong themselves first, we can eventually move to a ‘one for all and all for one’ world, otherwise the bad people will forever be in power.
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The key word in that sentence is 'conscious' - Gurdjieff has a very specific meaning of the word, one you seem to be missing.
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What am I missing? My interpretation is: work on oneself first, wake up and see what you have to do in your own life. After that another realm may open up. Before that, don’t even think about ‘doing good’, because you will probably bring more damage than do any good.