May i suggest ?
I believe that there are gays and lesbians -
who do not buy into the hijacked LGBT movement with its strange influence / narratives / push in destroying gender and value of family. Which in my opinion is sheer insanity the way it has gone.
I am gay myself, but I don’t understand anything of what the official LGBT movement is doing now. It makes no sense, nor has it anything to do with what it perhaps once was in the 70s and 80s, trying to get some official respect from society. And well in the 90s it was no more problem in many countries.
Mission accomplished.
Unfortunately from then on - it went downhill faster and faster (i even notice this in the “underground
subculture” myself, where humanity and reality values have dropped like a stone among us gays in the past 16 years. It is extremely sad. Vulture like, greedy and extremely shallow - albeit it appears to be worse in Sweden than for example in Sicily, where you meet a natural decency and respect. There is still a balance left.
In my example - I used the gay
subculture as a reference, from my personal perspective (Stockholm) - because it is more raw and real, and you can watch the tides better for what they are. Kind of like a Pub is more real compared to a fancy restaurant, if you want to understand what is going on.
Once upon a time
I believe that the founders of the Gay and Lesbian movement would turn around in their grave, if they could see what the movement has become today.
In a paradox way I appreciate structures around the center of family. When based in love, common sense, reasoning and a nice portion of mutural respect. And yes, some soft discipline is necessary too. I value families with a mom and a dad, with highest esteem. And being gay in such a family... has that ever really caused a problem ? I don’t think so. Nor does it “spread over the brim”.
A couple percent will always be born gay. No more. No less.
Today’s LGBT and its pushing for destruction of family, gender, and youngsters - under the disguise of freedom, lipstick and lala land - is a blatant lie and illusion, same like Ken & Barbie are ‘real’ compared to life.
So Dude - count me out !!
What i wish to point towards, is - that you may find or make good friends with people from unexpected places coming to aid in this bizarre 3D landscape. And not every gay is born with a brain only sitting between the legs.
A memory of my Grandmother
Now that I am at it - I come to think of a situation when I was a young man around 22. My Grandmother Elfriede once said to her relatives (who were constantly lying and stealing from her)
“I prefer my gay grandson’s ass in my face a thousand time more, than all of you lying vultures around”.
- “You said that for real, Oma ?!??”
- “Yes. Of course !”
She was the only person in my destructive family, who accepted me as gay. For everyone else it was a horrible disease. And in the strangest way of life, I do not know anyone else from my family who gave me true deep sense of straight justice, values and moral (without exaggeration) ... and love.
What a lady...
So you see. Straight and gay can learn from each other. A lot !
But only if both are for real as human beings.