Can a house (or a person) really be cursed in such a targeted way

[Nachtweide]

“I have a very personal and unusual question about curses. If there’s already an existing thread on this topic, feel free to point me there.
Especially this year, more and more signs have been piling up that I might actually be under a curse. It probably sounds insane, but the idea of a curse has been lurking in the back of my mind for a very long time.

As a child I already had an extreme, almost panic-level fear of water whenever I couldn’t see the bottom. I always had the feeling that there was an invisible, dangerous world lurking beneath the surface. Later, when I married a Sicilian man and spent every summer by the sea in Sicily, I was probably the only person for miles around who never once went into the water. My reasoning at the time: “So many refugees drown there – I’ll be the one person who ends up face-to-face with a dead body floating by.” When the movie Titanic came out in 1997, something broke open inside me: overwhelming fear, short flashes that felt like memories. Ever since then I’ve been convinced that my water phobia stems from a past life (most likely drowning).


2014 became the real turning point. Quick background: My ex-husband is Sicilian. In his family and circle, belief in black magic and curses is extremely strong and taken completely seriously. I personally witnessed him giving money to an old “witch” on the promenade because he was terrified of being cursed otherwise (his father had once refused and shortly afterward had a serious accident). There were stories of Ouija board sessions where one cousin nearly lost his mind and was allegedly lifted 50 cm off the bed by invisible forces – after that, a “witch” was called to heal him. This kind of thing was completely normal in the entire extended family.


In 2013 I finally reached the point where I knew I could no longer stay married to him. He is a highly malignant narcissist who had drained every last bit of life energy from me over the years. When I told him the marriage was over, one of his cousins urgently warned me never to leave the shared house under any circumstances – otherwise he would “destroy” me and the children. She knew what she was talking about. So I stayed and fought silently. Half a year later he moved out. I resisted all his attempts at manipulation and the pressure from his entire Italian clan. In the end he received only a very small share of the house value. Since then he hates me with a burning passion.


And exactly from 2014 onward an absolutely absurd series of water-related damages began in that very house – starting small, then becoming ever more severe and completely inexplicable. Burst pipes in places that had never had issues before, leaks that even specialists can’t explain, mold, flooding, etc. It never stops. By now it has become so extreme that my eldest son and his family, who live with me in the house, are seriously considering moving out because the constant repairs are no longer manageable. Everyone around me now says: “This isn’t normal anymore – something feels very eerie here.”
Recently I spoke with a friend who has completed shamanic training. Without me prompting her in any particular direction, she said: “This sounds very strongly like a curse or a targeted energetic attack.

I actually consider myself a realist and rational person, but after more than 10 years of nonstop, exclusively water-related disasters, I no longer believe this is coincidence.
So my concrete question is:Can a house (or a person) really be cursed in such a targeted way that it is constantly hit by water damage? And if so – are there serious, effective methods to remove such a curse and cleanse both the house and oneself?
I would be endlessly grateful for personal experiences or recommendations of reputable practitioners who have experience specifically with Sicilian / southern Italian curses.
Thank you so much already for reading this very long post.

 

[AndrewMn]

We live surrounded by an "astral menagerie." I think it's quite possible that there are some people who have been working hard for a long time to attract or use certain negative energies to the detriment of others (and, of course, to the detriment of themselves, but without realizing it). Therefore, this kind of impact is also possible. Unfortunately, I couldn't find the topic, but I know for sure that it was discussed on the forum. When I had a feeling of something unpleasant in the house and had nightmares, I used salt to protect my house. I went around and made a path of salt around the whole house, as well as in front of the threshold. I wiped the window sills with saline solution. Also, it would not be superfluous to light incense sticks based on sandalwood and sage.

 

[axj]

It sounds like the initial fear of water since childhood may be from a karmic memory of drowning in another incarnation. Less likely but possible is that it is a memory and fear passed down from an ancestor.

The bizarre water damage and eerie feeling may be from something like dark magic. It could be relying on something like an egregore or a non-physical being to create the water damage.

Maybe water damage was chosen because water invokes this deep fear. Some of the negative non-physical entities seem pretty good at finding the "darkest spots", fears or weaknesses to induce fear and other negative feelings on which to feed on. Such vampire-like entities can apparently only feed on energies that are as low-vibrating as themselves.

 

[808ravenflox]

“I have a very personal and unusual question about curses. If there’s already an existing thread on this topic, feel free to point me there.
Especially this year, more and more signs have been piling up that I might actually be under a curse. It probably sounds insane, but the idea of a curse has been lurking in the back of my mind for a very long time.

As a child I already had an extreme, almost panic-level fear of water whenever I couldn’t see the bottom. I always had the feeling that there was an invisible, dangerous world lurking beneath the surface. Later, when I married a Sicilian man and spent every summer by the sea in Sicily, I was probably the only person for miles around who never once went into the water. My reasoning at the time: “So many refugees drown there – I’ll be the one person who ends up face-to-face with a dead body floating by.” When the movie Titanic came out in 1997, something broke open inside me: overwhelming fear, short flashes that felt like memories. Ever since then I’ve been convinced that my water phobia stems from a past life (most likely drowning).


2014 became the real turning point. Quick background: My ex-husband is Sicilian. In his family and circle, belief in black magic and curses is extremely strong and taken completely seriously. I personally witnessed him giving money to an old “witch” on the promenade because he was terrified of being cursed otherwise (his father had once refused and shortly afterward had a serious accident). There were stories of Ouija board sessions where one cousin nearly lost his mind and was allegedly lifted 50 cm off the bed by invisible forces – after that, a “witch” was called to heal him. This kind of thing was completely normal in the entire extended family.


In 2013 I finally reached the point where I knew I could no longer stay married to him. He is a highly malignant narcissist who had drained every last bit of life energy from me over the years. When I told him the marriage was over, one of his cousins urgently warned me never to leave the shared house under any circumstances – otherwise he would “destroy” me and the children. She knew what she was talking about. So I stayed and fought silently. Half a year later he moved out. I resisted all his attempts at manipulation and the pressure from his entire Italian clan. In the end he received only a very small share of the house value. Since then he hates me with a burning passion.


And exactly from 2014 onward an absolutely absurd series of water-related damages began in that very house – starting small, then becoming ever more severe and completely inexplicable. Burst pipes in places that had never had issues before, leaks that even specialists can’t explain, mold, flooding, etc. It never stops. By now it has become so extreme that my eldest son and his family, who live with me in the house, are seriously considering moving out because the constant repairs are no longer manageable. Everyone around me now says: “This isn’t normal anymore – something feels very eerie here.”
Recently I spoke with a friend who has completed shamanic training. Without me prompting her in any particular direction, she said: “This sounds very strongly like a curse or a targeted energetic attack.

I actually consider myself a realist and rational person, but after more than 10 years of nonstop, exclusively water-related disasters, I no longer believe this is coincidence.
So my concrete question is:Can a house (or a person) really be cursed in such a targeted way that it is constantly hit by water damage? And if so – are there serious, effective methods to remove such a curse and cleanse both the house and oneself?
I would be endlessly grateful for personal experiences or recommendations of reputable practitioners who have experience specifically with Sicilian / southern Italian curses.
Thank you so much already for reading this very long post.

Knowledge protects.

 

[dmnlksm]

This situation strikes me more as a fear of water carried over from your past lives than as a curse or spell.

For example, I'm not afraid of water, but when I'm in the water, the sight of a ship figure frightens me quite a bit. I'm terrified of large ships. I can explain it as approaching a boat while floating in the water, not as boarding a ship or traveling by ship. I think this is also an effect of a past/previous life.

Also, the water issues you've experienced may indicate problems related to feelings and thoughts you've suppressed within yourself. Perhaps there are certain “excesses” within yourself that you need to discover in relation to all these processes you've described.

As for the curse part... In this universe, anything is possible, so why not? But for some reason, a curse doesn't seem like that kind of situation to me.

 

[Sindy-S.R]

It sounds like the initial fear of water since childhood may be from a karmic memory of drowning in another incarnation. Less likely but possible is that it is a memory and fear passed down from an ancestor.

The bizarre water damage and eerie feeling may be from something like dark magic. It could be relying on something like an egregore or a non-physical being to create the water damage.

Maybe water damage was chosen because water invokes this deep fear. Some of the negative non-physical entities seem pretty good at finding the "darkest spots", fears or weaknesses to induce fear and other negative feelings on which to feed on. Such vampire-like entities can apparently only feed on energies that are as low-vibrating as themselves.

@Nachtweide, there are many possibilities. This is my opinion based on how I see it now, and I don't know if it's true.

- From a positive point of view, it could be the universe, the divine cosmic mind, your higher self, or something else that is giving you “signs” to face your fears: water and/or your family problems in Sicily, for example (would it be difficult for you to move to another city and be further away from your ex-husband's family?).
Let me give you an example from my own experience. Perhaps if I hadn't analyzed the details of what happened to me last year, the timeline of my life would be very different. I could have died in an accident or been left paralyzed in bed after a traffic accident, for example.
For two and a half years, I drove more than 105 km to get to work.

Post in thread 'The cosmic mind sends many clues, but who is listening?'

Oct 21, 2025

I'd like to describe some events in this thread. I don't know whether to call them synchronicity or a help from The Cosmic Mind.

I'll add this comment first:

I've had many synchronicity events in my life, but the ones I'm going to describe have more material data, to follow a life path that is related to my future.

1* - In 2020, I took a state exam for a job. On the day I had to take the first test, I won €50 in the lottery (I like playing the lottery because I use it as a test for these...

• Sindy-S.R

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- From a negative point of view, as described by @axj, it is very likely that you have been cursed.

In 2007, I went through something similar with a person I worked with in northern Italy.
I'm not 100% sure if my suspicions about this person and what they were doing to me were correct,
but I did something simple thanks to what I had read at that time in the book The Wave by Laura K-J.
I took a relaxing bath in the bathtub and visualized myself turning into a white dragon (I like dragons) and in a mirror, but in your case you could turn into a warrior, an angel, etc.
I concentrated hard and threw a lot of fire at all the evil I felt surrounding me, and I stayed like that for over half an hour. I visualized the mirror as a way of returning the evil I was receiving.
The days passed and everything returned to normal.
This was my style at the time. Now, with more information about the hyperdimensional phenomenon, the first thing I do is observe, observe, observe, like hunters do.
And then I see if I can find a solution, if possible.

I really hope you can solve these problems. I know what you are going through.

 

[Tuulikki]

What a horrible situation Nachtweide. The kind of events you describe must be dragging you and your family down emotionally and physically. I believe that curses can be cast by malignant individuals and your description of your ex-husband seems to match this characterisation. If there is some sort of outside interfence in your life and in particular relating to water and watery things, I am sure there must be individuals who are able to deal with this on your behalf. Do you know anyone with psychic sensitivities who could put you on the path to finding someone?

I can empathise with your fear of water. I do not have an absolute fear of water but I cannot view the ocean without feeling very uncomfortable. Just to stand on the beach makes me feel uneasy, especially if the waves are high. I believe I too must have had a watery death in a past life. Your experiences sound much more dramatic though.

Do you think a past life regression may help to lift the lid on the mystery of your fear of water? It is something I would undergo personally to get some answers. Also did your ex-husband know of your fear of water? Presumably he did. It could be, as others have suggested, some karmic residue which needs to be addressed before looking into the curse angle.

I hope you find some resolution anyway as you sound at the end of your tether....

 

[Magnolia]

are there serious, effective methods to remove such a curse and cleanse both the house and oneself?

While reading new stuff, I continue to read Thomas Hora. He studied religions and philosophy, but as a practicing psychiatrist, he had to translate what he discovered into ideas that can have a material effect on people. He is compassionate, but he is also very harsh, because he considers the role of the victim in the problem. Sometimes understanding my role in a problem makes me laugh with relief; sometimes it scares me; sometimes it shatters me. But it is often where the solution to my problem resides.

Of course, the 'general' is not always transferable to the 'specific.' Each situation, each experience and each individual is unique. So his general statements about an issue may or may not hold relevance to one unique situation. Nonetheless, he does write about voodoo, curses, hypnotism, and water problems in several of his books. Below is an excerpt from two of them. I apologize for the length.

from Beyond the Dream (re: voodoo and hypnotism, Psalm 91, Paul's letter on Love)

Other phenomena worthy of consideration are witchcraft, voodoo, black magic, hypnotism, cursing, and so on. Since all thoughts - valid and invalid ones - seem to represent energy, they can transmute themselves and create phenomena. For instance, voodoo is perhaps the best known system where, in the context of religious superstition, certain destructive thoughts are suggested to individuals, or expressed about individuals either in their presence or their absence. These thoughts often manifest themselves in some tragedy concerning those individuals........so powerful is a voodoo curse upon those who believe in it.

Voodoo, cursing, witchcraft, and hypnotism each have power and impact on people as long as they believe in it, or on people who disbelieve it. If we believe that a curse has power, we are vulnerable. But if we disbelieve it, we are vulnerable as well. To believe or to disbelieve is the same. In both instances we are involved in struggling against a power. When we disbelieve in something, we are fighting against believing in it; therefore we are honoring it as a power.

There are two interesting relevant lines in the Bible which say: "But I say unto you, that ye resist not evil" (Mt 5:39) ... "but overcome evil with good" (Rom 12:21), which means if we are resisting evil, we are honoring it as a power. But if we understand that only the good of God is real and has power, then we do not get involved with evil either in a positive or a negative way.

………people can be adversely affected if we entertain evil thoughts about them. This is called malicious hypnotism, and hypnotism seems to work either through direct contact or through indirection. For instance, if it is directed toward someone’s possession and if that individual is not sufficiently spiritually minded, then that possession can be destroyed. We are all very susceptible to hypnotism as long as we are materially minded. But if we are spiritually minded, then hypnotism has no effect on us. It is important to recall here a remark Albert Einstein once made: "Arrows of hate (‘fiery darts’) have been shot at me many times, but they never touched me because they came from a world with which I have nothing in common." What did he mean? Where was he dwelling that these arrows of hate couldn’t reach him? He was dwelling above and beyond interaction thinking [interpersonal/relationship thinking], in the land of spiritual consciousness. An ancient Chinese proverb says: "A poisoned arrow can find no place to lodge itself in an enlightened man."

Love and spiritual mindedness, far from being just religious clichés, have great existential value. Not only are they blessings for us and others around us, but they make us invulnerable to malicious hypnotism.

Most of us have seen hypnotists work in a theater in front of an audience. They often start hypnotizing a whole crowd, and a certain number of people will immediately respond to their suggestions. These people are more susceptible than others; the others may also be susceptible but to a lesser degree. This indicates that it is not the power of the hypnotist which is at play here, but individual susceptibility of those who believe — consciously or unconsciously — in the so-called "mind-power" of the hypnotist.

Following are some of the factors which render us particularly susceptible to hypnotism: pride, vanity, ambition, lust, greed, envy, jealousy, materialism, admiration, contempt, malice, sowing of dissension. The only protection from all these is increasing spiritual mindedness. Jesus said: "In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world" (John 16:33), which means that we have to rise above the petty narrow-mindedness of interaction thinking which characterizes the world of the unenlightened materialist.

There are several statements in the Bible which point to protection against malicious hypnotism. One is: "Your life is hid with Christ in God" (Col 3:3). Anyone who can understand this line will realize that one who is hid with Christ in God is out of the reach of all malicious intentions and is protected. In the Old Testament we have the ninety-first Psalm, which says: "He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.... He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shalt be thy shield and buckler.... Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation; There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.... Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day; nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday" (Psalm 91:1, 4, 9, 10, 5, 6).

from Dialogues (re: prayer and the meaning of problems)

Question: In the kingdom of God is everybody equal?
Dr. Hora: In the kingdom of God there is no equality whatsoever.
Question: Individuality?
Dr. Hora: That's right. Everyone is a precious, unique individual expression of God's infinite goodness. And there is no way that one could be compared with another, or measured against another. Take for instance a maple tree. A maple tree has millions of leaves, and every leaf is different from all the others. There are no two leaves alike among millions of leaves. How are we going to measure which maple leaf is superior or inferior, or more important or less important than the others? It is ridiculous, when you think of it. There is absolutely no equality, and that's a glorious freedom. The whole idea of equality is existentially invalid. Every individual is an expression of God. Naive people assume that equality means justice. Equality is not justice, love is justice. The Christly justice is as follows: "Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you" (Mt 5:44). Some may think this is impractical and even absurd.
Comment: It is hard to see that this does not mean being a doormat, a masochist, or self-destructive. When you say this, I immediately see myself as a victim of abuse.
Comment: I guess when people are destructive toward us we can pray for them because we can imagine the burden they are carrying.
Dr. Hora: You just said that one can console oneself with the thought of how miserably the aggressor must feel. That's not the point.
Comment: If we accept the proposition that nothing comes into experience uninvited, then we realize that persecution and victimization are tailor-made problems for our edification. And if one can discern the meaning of what seems to be, there is great potential for growth.
Dr. Hora: What is this process called? It is prayer. That is what Jesus meant when he said: "Pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you." Here we have to consider a very important point: We cannot use God to solve our problems for us. In prayer we use our problems to come closer to God. Our problems are opportunities which show us where we have to come closer to God. There is great value and comfort in understanding that our problems are tailor-made lessons to teach us what we need to know. If we don't understand this, we can find prayer very frustrating. We often make the mistake of trying to use God to serve us. If we could do that, we would be greater than God, and God would be our servant. It is frequently assumed that in prayer we tell God what he should do; but of course, this does not work. Problems are telling us what we need to know in order to come into better alignment with the divine Principle, with the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus. And then the problems disappear. Sometimes a problem can be a turning point in one's life if it is healed through understanding its meaning. One can actually be reborn of the Spirit in this manner. Every problem is tailor-made and has a purpose. The purpose is to bring us closer to God. And if we are willing to come closer to God, more in line with divine Principle, not only does the problem disappear but we have ascended to a higher level of spiritual consciousness and we have been greatly blessed.
Question: Is it possible to lose the understanding which we have gained?
Dr. Hora: It is possible to deceive ourselves into believing that we already know when we don't really know. Once we have really understood a problem, that problem will never recur. There may arise other problems which, in turn, would indicate other areas of thought which need to be brought in line with divine reality. Life is a school where we are given problems to solve.

 

[Wandering Star]

(...)

It is important to recall here a remark Albert Einstein once made: "Arrows of hate (‘fiery darts’) have been shot at me many times, but they never touched me because they came from a world with which I have nothing in common."

(...)

This phrase provided by Magnolia may be the key.

The land must have what is necessary for what is sent to take root and develop.

What comes from a world that has nothing to do with me will probably pass me by or go somewhere else where it will find resonance.

If you know anything about the people around you (everyone in general), you know that they will almost always have a bad thought towards you.

That's how it is, it's their nature.

Understanding this will already be progress.

On occasion my wife has told me that so-and-so hates me and is going to curse me, so I reply to my wife: "Let them wait their turn in the queue.!"

However, it comes from a world to which I do not belong.

The fear of this, of that..., comes from this world.

And finally, all are lessons, right?

It's funny how often the evil that is sent your way makes you stronger, more aware..., less of this world.

I hope my idea was clear.

 

[Kika]

I actually consider myself a realist and rational person, but after more than 10 years of nonstop, exclusively water-related disasters, I no longer believe this is coincidence.
So my concrete question is:Can a house (or a person) really be cursed in such a targeted way that it is constantly hit by water damage? And if so – are there serious, effective methods to remove such a curse and cleanse both the house and oneself?
I would be endlessly grateful for personal experiences or recommendations of reputable practitioners who have experience specifically with Sicilian / southern Italian curses.
Thank you so much already for reading this very long post.

Hi Nachtweide,
When I was a little girl (under 6 years old) my grandmother - went (and I went with her) to the field to dig up vegetables, which we grew for the winter. Around the house we grew flowers and some vegetables for everyday use, and larger quantities in a field that was outside the village.
Grandma started digging and right at the beginning of the plot, when she turned the soil, a whole chicken egg appeared. Grandma "dead-cold" (read: completely without any reaction) broke the egg, covered it with soil and continued digging.

I was not happy with the development of events, because everything I knew about chickens did not match the situation I saw. Chickens did not go that far outside the village and their yards, and they especially did not bury their eggs 10-15 centimeters into the ground.

So I asked grandma where this egg in the ground came from.
- Maybe it was brought in with manure - said my Stoic grandmother (the more I think about her, the more I think she deserves this name)
- Then it would have broken a long time ago, during plowing and milling and it would have been dirty, and this egg is pure white - I continue to bother.
Grandma saw that I was not giving up, she stopped and told me seriously.
- This egg was buried by someone who wants some evil. Eggs are a medium for "coper" (witchcraft / curses). Probably someone is envious of good vegetables. (Here I must mention that with my grandmother it was not; Throw it in the ground, so what God forbid. With her it was: do it like this, because..., she had the knowledge of what and how to do it.)
-Then you broke the egg to destroy the "coper" (evil intention) - I am interested in more.
- No, I broke it to fertilize the soil.
- So how do we undo the curse then? What do we have to do?
- Nothing! Now listen to me carefully: These things only affect those who believe in them! (Here I add, only those who are synchronized, or in resonance (in the language of waves).
Who do you think did it?
- I don't care. That's not my problem. That's the problem of the one who did it. The devil will already charge for the service requested.

This is my experience with curses and curse reversals and I've stuck to it my whole life. (Of course, everything was fine with the vegetables).

As a child I already had an extreme, almost panic-level fear of water whenever I couldn’t see the bottom. I always had the feeling that there was an invisible, dangerous world lurking beneath the surface. Later, when I married a Sicilian man and spent every summer by the sea in Sicily, I was probably the only person for miles around who never once went into the water. My reasoning at the time: “So many refugees drown there – I’ll be the one person who ends up face-to-face with a dead body floating by.” When the movie Titanic came out in 1997, something broke open inside me: overwhelming fear, short flashes that felt like memories. Ever since then I’ve been convinced that my water phobia stems from a past life (most likely drowning).

I agree, Your fear/phobia of water is yours alone. They are your feelings/horses (from the chariot analogy).
You will have to learn how to control them.

2014 became the real turning point. Quick background: My ex-husband is Sicilian. In his family and circle, belief in black magic and curses is extremely strong and taken completely seriously. I personally witnessed him giving money to an old “witch” on the promenade because he was terrified of being cursed otherwise (his father had once refused and shortly afterward had a serious accident). There were stories of Ouija board sessions where one cousin nearly lost his mind and was allegedly lifted 50 cm off the bed by invisible forces – after that, a “witch” was called to heal him. This kind of thing was completely normal in the entire extended family.

This looks like pure grooming to me (creating synchronization or tuning into resonance.)

And exactly from 2014 onward an absolutely absurd series of water-related damages began in that very house – starting small, then becoming ever more severe and completely inexplicable. Burst pipes in places that had never had issues before, leaks that even specialists can’t explain, mold, flooding, etc. It never stops. By now it has become so extreme that my eldest son and his family, who live with me in the house, are seriously considering moving out because the constant repairs are no longer manageable.

Regarding the house and the faults.
Look, having your own house is a great pleasure but also a great worry, not to say a bottomless pit.
Our reality/physicality is such that if energy is not invested (either as work or its substitute – money) things move towards entropy or simply decay/decomposition.
Since the house is in Sicily, my assumption is that it is not a new building, but possibly a restored antique. So with the appearance of the first faults in the plumbing, I would already have in my mind the possibility of an unwanted but necessary investment, replacing the entire plumbing installation. If you are lucky, the pipes are made of iron (this is not sarcasm, because they used to install lead pipes) and they have probably rotted/rusted.

Unless... you gave a new meaning to these faults and turned them "into smoke detectors". In other words; Every time my ex or someone from his family thinks/says something bad about me, a fault will occur.

Not useful at all from my perspective;

1. You remain in a negative resonant relationship.
2. An expensive source of information (you're better off throwing beans, or tarot), if you want to maintain that kind of connection.
3. You are responsible for the situation, not the curse.

 

[Martina]

Although I believe in paranormal, if you live in older house, such things are normal, there are lots of reasons for bursting pipes.

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Also, after so many years your former in-laws probably don't have such mental power to send hate towards you daily, you should move on too and have a happy life without them on your mind. You can visualize cord cutting with them and a protection for yourself and son. If you want to sell the house and buy a new one check the market well because since all that increased percipitation, lot's of houses might have mold problems.

 

[Lyndi]

Targeted Energetic Attack is what it sounds like to me, not so much a curse. These attacks can come through disgruntled, hostile people or there are other sources and I don't really know the mechanism but it's non-beneficial energy.

I like what Andrew Mn wrote above.

We live surrounded by an "astral menagerie."

I have a clairvoyant friend, we worked on a really positive project some years ago and I'd be having these sudden weakness, gloom, fear, my physical and mental energy would collapse, and so on. To begin with I felt like I could actually die, I hadn't been aware that all negativity didn't come from within, or at least not directly, maybe circuitously, with more self-knowledge needed as protective armour. I learned to counteract it in various ways. The transcripts contain suggestions for counteracting, including above all, remaining positive no matter what. My friend would say, "We're getting flack, we must be over the target (the creative project we were working on)."

An aside, the Bach Flower remedy that most fit the situation, in part, and was quite helpful in those times, was Mustard. Other Bach remedies for fear and hopelessness also helped somewhat. The Bach Centre quick description of Mustard:

Mustard is the remedy for deep gloom and depression that descends for no apparent reason out of a clear blue sky.

I would say 'congratulations, you're over some target, doing something helpful, expanding and sharing your knowledge'. I know it's hard, it's a nuisance, it's draining. It's repetitive, it causes fights, it knocks you down, it damages your health left unremediated. Doesn't feel like that much fun, but it's all lessons! Lessons are fun.... right? Right.

Adding here a forum thread from 2006 I just found when searching for the recommendations in other forum threads on the what to do about 'attacks'. Much interesting discussion on the subject of this thread!

Curses, Negative Energy and Attacks Endured.

And P.S. I've not posted much for months here overwhelmed with daily events plus posting here brings on non-beneficial frequencies, I'm supposed to keep my mouth shut like all good Canadians (NOT). At least that's how I experience it. And for most of this year I've had so much I'm responsible for that I just steered clear of taking provocative steps... But the light is dawning.

 

[Nachtweide]

We live surrounded by an "astral menagerie." I think it's quite possible that there are some people who have been working hard for a long time to attract or use certain negative energies to the detriment of others (and, of course, to the detriment of themselves, but without realizing it). Therefore, this kind of impact is also possible. Unfortunately, I couldn't find the topic, but I know for sure that it was discussed on the forum. When I had a feeling of something unpleasant in the house and had nightmares, I used salt to protect my house. I went around and made a path of salt around the whole house, as well as in front of the threshold. I wiped the window sills with saline solution. Also, it would not be superfluous to light incense sticks based on sandalwood and sage.

Earlier this year, at some point I had this strong inner conviction that something completely unusual was happening to me and my life. There wasn’t a single minute of peace – one chaos followed the next. At first it was just my own feeling, but eventually people around me started confirming it too: they also felt that the sheer number of events was no longer normal.
Today I was given the contact details of a woman who specializes in curses from Mediterranean countries
I clearly remember that in this family we talked a lot about the malocchio – the evil eye – the belief that envy or hostile energy can bring bad luck. Every single one of us wore a corno amulet for protection. There was a deep-seated fear of the evil eye in the family. I also noticed back then how often people spoke about curses, and that there was someone here in Germany who, according to family lore, could both cast and remove such curses.
When my husband moved out, the negative energy lingered in the house for a very long time. I did a thorough smudging ritual back then to cleanse the place.
For the past eight years, my eldest son has been living in my house with his two small children, and my ex-husband comes to visit regularly now.
He completely avoids any eye contact with me, and I have the strong feeling that he is actually afraid to look me in the eyes.
Back then, when I first met his parents, I had the same strange sensation: nobody dared to look his father in the eyes. There was some unspoken meaning behind it that I didn’t understand at the time.
At some point I very clearly felt the energies in my house shift once again – this time back toward the negative. Everyone living here has changed as well. It’s hard to put into words, but it feels as though he has an enormous influence on all the residents. Since then there have been quite serious conflicts and rifts within the family, and the overall energy in the house feels very aggressive and oppressive.

I will definitely do another deep smudging soon and also work with salt to try to clear the atmosphere again.