Brenda86
Jedi Master
I know this is an old thread, but I always find it interesting when people use hygiene as a reason to circumcise a male infant, citing lower rates of UTIs but fail to mention that even UNcircumcised males will see many fewer UTIs throughout their lifetime than females.
I suppose by failing to mention this fact many people can continue to justify the slight hygienic benefit, as most people are already appalled by female genital cutting and so do not like to hear the comparisons. If you were to tell someone who circumcised their son that you are cutting your daughter because it will reduce her rate of UTIs, they will balk at you for your barbarism and yet they've done the very same thing to their son! It blows my mind!
Luckily, boy or girl, I've already had this conversation with my partner and we will NOT be circumcising a son if that is what we have this time. My heart sinks thinking about little babies being subjected to such a painful thing at such a tender age - and in the US its almost immediately after the already traumatic birth process when the baby needs warmth, milk, and love - not to have a piece of its body cut off!!
I already know many family members on my partner's side are going to have a lot to say about it. I may try to explain, but more likely, as I doubt they will really be ready/willing to hear it, I will just tell them, "My research has led me to believe that the benefits do not outweigh the risks." and if anything further is said, "It's my child and my decision. End of discussion."
I suppose by failing to mention this fact many people can continue to justify the slight hygienic benefit, as most people are already appalled by female genital cutting and so do not like to hear the comparisons. If you were to tell someone who circumcised their son that you are cutting your daughter because it will reduce her rate of UTIs, they will balk at you for your barbarism and yet they've done the very same thing to their son! It blows my mind!
Luckily, boy or girl, I've already had this conversation with my partner and we will NOT be circumcising a son if that is what we have this time. My heart sinks thinking about little babies being subjected to such a painful thing at such a tender age - and in the US its almost immediately after the already traumatic birth process when the baby needs warmth, milk, and love - not to have a piece of its body cut off!!
I already know many family members on my partner's side are going to have a lot to say about it. I may try to explain, but more likely, as I doubt they will really be ready/willing to hear it, I will just tell them, "My research has led me to believe that the benefits do not outweigh the risks." and if anything further is said, "It's my child and my decision. End of discussion."