Voluntarism said:can someone explain, why its not allowed to give a clue?
how does it disturb the forum here, if people in germany want to network far out of here?
The main reason is for your own and other members protection and nothing personal. Because the main goal of this forum is to network openly with many eyes available and not far out of here, which is contradictory of the work of the forum. As it in the past could be seen (see link below) that some people took personal contacts as advantage to steer and use other people. In for example a situation which just involves two people, you are never save of negative feedback loops or feeding situations, because nobody can see oneself clearly objectively without the wider network.
Forum Personal Messages and Predators