update :
we are still here , the process is slow and hart breaking to watch and try to support. i know its my duty but you can imagine....
at this stage my mom sometimes open her eyes and tries to talk , and we cant understand what she is saying (we expected this stage together) .
only thing i could suggest her is to contact us (my and my brother) in dreams. (she did visit her friends and sister)
i from my end recite her the prayer of the soul and play her some books about the other side, i also many times told her what i learned ... sometimes i feel she would tell me to FO already :)
i guess i will only know if this was the correct way when CS's will get my question some day.
take care,
with love,
Adam