This is among the lines of "it's not where you are that matters, but who you are and what you see." Though, if you happen to visit a church, that can be turned into an opportunity.
I agree with this.
Several years ago, I was traveling with
@Chu for a family visit in Vienna. We entered a church and it was PACKED. This was not long after the most intense periods of "what is a woman" and MGTOW and all that nonsense. When we left the church, I actually wept. Sometimes we tend to think of church-goers as "less than" because they've been brainwashed by evil organized religion! Whoa is me! But in that moment, what I saw was a ton of people filling a church and having mass - people believing in something greater than themselves, participating in a traditional ceremony, etc. Everyone does the best that they can with what they've got...
The churches here in France are usually empty, so this was a pleasant shock. Some of us here also went to Christmas Eve mass last year, and it was quite nice (and pretty full). If nothing else, it was a nice contrast to the turbo-commercialization of Christmas that has invaded Europe from the USA over the past decades. We even have "Black Friday" (pronounced in a thick French accent). It's hilarious/sad.
Anyway, I don't think we should view these things in such a binary way. We have a prayer list, and we pray - in our way. Others do it their way. When I enter a church, I cross myself if there is holy water because that's what I was raised to do, and it symbolizes something important for me - something different than what it meant in the past, but who cares? The intent matters. Others look at me and might see "a good Catholic", but I do it for my own reasons.
Plus, visiting most churches/cathedrals (at least in Europe) is awe-inspiring when you consider the sheer size and scope of the construction alone. So yeah, why not? Maybe we could use more things in our lives that inspire awe (besides bigger and better bombs) - and also that add a bit of humility.