Lola is gone ..

Yes Gandalf, I would often think about the little prince and the fox, even before this happened. There is something bigger hidden in our relationships with them, as well as with people in our lives, which does not meet the eye.. but silently happens in our hearts. The time we pass with them and strange and strong connections which simply ‘occurs’, without as acknowledging it rationally. It becomes so very clear when they are gone, all that love becomes so pure and distinguished while everything else fades away.
Thank you Gandalf, Yupo, Gawan, Truth Seeker , Ocean, Dirgni for your soothing words. It seems little bit more 'bearable' when there is this compassion and understanding showed like you did, I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. Wish you all the best fellow forum friends, may this kindness return to you as you so generously offered it...
 
Sorry for the loss of your great friend Rima. Lola will always be in your thoughts and it's a real blessing you've shared that special bond together :hug2:
 
Hello Rima, the bond between our animals is mighty strong for some, and the fact that you came back for Lola those years ago was a very special thing you did - Lola was joyed/loved. As difficult as it presently is, your memories of Lola may in time always be remembered by this special connection you had and fill you with joy each time Lola is thought of. :hug2:

Thank you for the photo, such a lovely companion.
 
SeekinTruth said:
So very sorry for your loss, Rima. All the wonderful experiences you shared with Lola will always be there, and in the end all living things must die (at least the body), even though it's so hard on those left to grieve. Take care of yourself and take heart in the love you shared with Lola. :hug2:
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Sorry to hear about the loss of Lola, Rima :hug2: As mentioned by ST, all living beings will have to leave this physical world eventually. Most important is cherishing the good memories and love that you shared with Lola, as they live forever in your heart. Take care, and time will be a great healer.
 
Rima, our 2D friends enrich our lives and surely leave paw prints on our souls. It's great have had them to share our lives with. I'm sorry for your loss, take care. :hug2:
 
Thank you Thebull, voyager, Mr. Cyan :hug2:
Yes love will remain, tenderness, beautiful memories. And lessons too... What were the lessons? That this tender furry beings can give sometimes much more that we think. I thought that I was saving her... Maybe she saved me? Maybe we both saved each other (makes sense even more). Whatever we give, remains. And when we give, we also receive... as C's would say.

I can see it more clearly now.. It is a real blessing to have them with us. Even when they are gone.
Paw prints on our soul... You said that very nicely 3D Student.
Thank you.
 
Sincere condolences from me as well, Rima. Your Lola seemed to have been a wonderful companion to you (and you to her) - thank you for sharing the beautiful pic of her. It must be a very great loss. But I am also sure, that as long as you carry the memory of her within your heart she will stay with you in some way.

Take care :flowers: :hug2:
 
Rima said:
Thank you Thebull, voyager, Mr. Cyan :hug2:
Yes love will remain, tenderness, beautiful memories. And lessons too... What were the lessons? That this tender furry beings can give sometimes much more that we think. I thought that I was saving her... Maybe she saved me? Maybe we both saved each other (makes sense even more). Whatever we give, remains. And when we give, we also receive... as C's would say.

I can see it more clearly now.. It is a real blessing to have them with us. Even when they are gone.
Paw prints on our soul... You said that very nicely 3D Student.
Thank you.
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I also understand what you are going through, Rima and I send you more :hug2: Yes, all the emotions, experiences and interactions with our doggies remain within us forever in a special place in our hearts.

When I read this story a long time ago, I thought it was SO true:

A DOG'S PURPOSE (FROM A 6-YEAR OLD)

http://www.vetwest.com.au/pet-library/a-dogs-purpose-from-a-6-year-old

Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolf hound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, 'I know why.'
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.

He said, 'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life - - like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The Six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.'

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:

When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy..
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.
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Hi Rima,

I'm truly sorry for your loss. Losing a trusted friend is tough and should be acknowledged.

When my Cat died a few years ago, I was devastated and had someone laugh in my face when I told them…

They just didn't understand the love that I felt for my little friend and how heartbroken I was… :cry:

So, my deepest condolences.

Best,

L.

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Alana that was so beautiful and true:

When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy..
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.
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And I suspects that there are more that could be added.
Ninas I understand you and I am sorry for your Cat. Many years ago I lost a very loving cat, and before I took Lola I had another ..It was sudden, like now with Lola. I remembered for many years after, the pain I have felt then. I have also noticed that some people, mostly ones that never had a pet, reacted lightly when I told them about it. I could see that they could not relate to it at all. Better not to talk about animals to them.. they can not understand.
I am very grateful for your words Alana and ninas.

Maybe sometimes they return to us in some other shape and form ...
 
Dear Rima.Lola`s Love never gone.It is going to be the link between you and her beyond this 3D.I really sure than Lola was your best teacher,many lessons you will keep in your heart as treasure.

:hug2:
 
It seems like Lola was very lucky to have befriended you, and you obviously both changed each other's lives for the better. I've lost a few pets in my life. My first family dog died when I was 15 and we had her since I was 1, so I knew her half my life and grew up with her. She was an amazing companion. And in 2012 one of my cats passed away from cancer. I still miss her. All I can say is rejoice in your memories together, and honor her by moving on and finding happiness. Perhaps by finding another dog in need and helping it out the way you helped Lola. You obviously made the last few years of her life the best she could have had, so you should be proud of that.

Stay strong! <3
 
You have my sincerest condolences with the loss of your friend and companion.

I've crossed paths with many wonderful and special animals and as Shakespeare said, parting is such sweet sorrow.
 
Rima,
I could see that they could not relate to it at all. Better not to talk about animals to them. they can not understand.
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You are right, and it is their loss because they will never experience the comfort and joy and lessons that loving a pet can provide us.
Such a beautiful face--thank you for sharing her picture with us. So sorry for your loss.
I am with you in your grief.
It looks like today is day I should help my eighteen year old cat, Barbie, release her spirit from a body that is clearly becoming distressing to her.
She hasn't eaten for days and up until today has been content to drink some water and sleep most of the time, but now she is restless and is beginning to move weakly
around the house from place to place. Two days ago her vet said there was nothing to do and that it was her time, so we gave her some fluid for comfort and
I brought her home to hold her a while and prepare myself. I don't want to impede on her natural process, but I also don't want to wait until she panics and is
in a lot of discomfort.
Thank you for sharing your love for Lola. Sorry to intrude on your discussion.
 
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