Hello, glad to hear you are in Turkey - I am a big fan of Baris Manco but I've never had the chance to visit your country. I hope that I will be able to, one day, because the Ottoman empire must surely have been developping very very unique positive specs.
And I suppose this was also a kind effort on your part for balancing the possible imbalance in my approach :))
Yes, this is it. It is as well hard to formulate, and after one day I have something in mind that I could tell you, without "going into my personal details"
But first, let me salute your sincerity and straight speech
After all it's not completely unrelated. In addition I am happy to share about me and to learn that I am corresponding with a Turkish person. Just great. Well, the whole point - with sincerity - is "where I am is full of psychos and it's quite a tensed rope all the time. I have been made to walk inside this, then find a way through. I had to let go off many many things and such process required me to be intransigeant in term of personal preferences. When I read your post there is a little something that I notice and that I believe I can express myself about, because I had to face soemthing similar along the way".
You have been expressing the following:
My focus on 7D might be involving an over-reliance on deductive reasoning, perhaps; i.e., a potential imbalance
There is a little something relating to this that is not to be treated with niceties. You check about it if you feel it rings right. But I have been through something and I could swear that what I see is familiar. So I am telling you. The idea is that when you are doing the above, there is a slight unwanted "turning towards the self". You would be a bit accapared with your stuff and would miss somehow a bit of the panorama. As a strategy, we may want to decrease a bit something, in order to get the head more out of the water so to speak.
At some point in my trajectory, I had to let go off "theory learning" (just for a little while) and focus on being. Here, on the forum, we have safety nets, and we can enjoy the atmosphere of learning with less noise. Me, I did not have that chance. But the result is like a paesant who would go to New-York and interact with people [with a good hearth]. First, the paesant would spot in a fraction of second what is missing in the very urban people, and he would know a bit the how's & why's. Less contact with nature, less fresh air, for example (he would tell a new friend: "man, try to go to the countryside you will see how good it would do to you. You cannot see it because you have been staying that long here"). I feel like that paesant who would come to town and reading your post I am like "hmmm wait a minute, didn't I see this somewhere?!".
Could be... Check if there is something around the lines you stated ("a too high over-reliance etc") and that you have the feeling that you are "creating your own bubble". As a matter of strategy, you may want to just decrease a bit of it, and the counter-effect would be a lessening of "fog". That's some fog that we cannot see. Remaining too long in a personal bubble makes so that we cannot see some walls being erected around ourselves. Others can see and tell ourselves "hmm I see some restriction there and it
could be...".
Since you have been amazingly introspective and that highly honest so as to write something down - AND - that you gave me a confirmation of it as being "probable":
My focus on 7D might be involving an over-reliance on deductive reasoning, perhaps; i.e., a potential imbalance
A responsible way factoring in "love", would be to reflect such positive & sincere introspective skill. I hope that it has been okay that I expressed my thoughts about what I believed I saw, with you; it's for this reason only.
Let me salute you, Turkish friend.
