Hi Moksha
moksha said:
Lorraine said:
I tend to agree with Laura. Our cat used to love lying on top of me. At first I thought it was cute. Then I began to notice a funny churning feeling in my stomach when she lay on me. It was unpleasant and I felt she was drawing energy out of me. My husband enjoys these moments with her, but I have stopped encouraging Kitty. I’ve even told my husband to be careful not to let her draw his energy, but of course he thinks the idea is crazy....
Lorraine, it would be interesting to see if you started having this realization AFTER you read/heard Laura's comments or BEFORE? If AFTER, then I wonder how much suggestion is playing a part - ie. do you think you really recognize some feeding going on, or do you feel that way because it was suggested so by a higher 'authority'...
Personally, I've not noticed this aspect - i'll pay more attention to this (but it's so hard when you love your pets so much :) and I guess that applies to people/things as well.
No I was not influenced by Laura’s comment as you’re suggesting.
Laura said:
An even creepier thought is that the cat is feeding on the energy or even acting as a conduit.
However, I could relate to her comment through my own experience and the article saying Oscar was aloof.
I’ve been doing reiki for 10 years and am familiar with the feeling of giving and receiving energy, so when I started to experience the weird tingling, churning circular feeling in my stomach with Kitty, it was too uncomfortable to ignore. I wasn’t aware of this feeling before I started reiki and nobody else in my family feels this. Maybe she is squashing my internal organs and they’re protesting loudly. :/ However, after reading the Wave Series about 2 years ago I thought there might be something in it and I wasn’t overreacting.
I’m not saying that every pet owner should worry about this. I can see I have probably upset many a cat owner by bringing this up.
Kitty is aloof and only comes to us on her terms. Maybe this is her way of interacting with us when she’s low and needs her cuddles. I also don’t reject giving her cuddles on my lap etc but not on my tummy.
One thing that she does demand from me is just when I start getting ready for bed she’ll run into the bedroom ahead of me and lay down (at the foot of the bed) and wait for me to give her a brushing session. If I ignore her (cause I’m tired), she’ll give me a swipe with her paw as I’m passing to let me know that she is waiting.
I’ve also noticed another fascinating aspect of energy interaction with our cat and visitors. I’m sure that all pet owners have noticed from time to time their pets favour a certain room, chair or even a mat, to sleep on. This may vary during the year, season to season, depending I guess on the warmth of the room in winter etc, etc.
Well, when we have visitors and they sit on Kitty’s favourite chair at that time, she can either be put off sleeping there completely for a long time or she may like, let us say, the energy of the visitor and will go and lie on that particular chair afterwards. As though she is soaking up the remaining residue of the person.
My daughter’s boyfriend usually brings his backpack when he comes to visit us. Kitty loves sitting on it. (She probably likes his sweat ;) ) She will stroke her chin and neck against it and generally get quite carried away. When the boyfriend sits in a chair she will walk around his legs marking him and sit on the chair afterwards. I never know who she will favour. The boyfriend is great by the way. :)