Prayers for Marta

I have prayed for her... the divine cosmic mind perhaps guided to the path with less pain to all those involved.

You and your friend will be in my thoughts zhenqing.
 
That is a lovely way of embracing the sadness in the moment zhenqing and your dream is insightful.
To celebrate life and death for the two are one.

I am sure that with time you will be able to support and comfort her as well.

:)

big hug.


zhenqing said:
Thank you, everyone :hug2: Even though, I feel like it's somehow unfair of me to receive such comforting words from you, while my friend is the one, who is truly suffering.

SeekinTruth said:
My condolences, zhenqing. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your friend and others.
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I hope there will be a time, when I'll be able to comfort her, too.


It wasn't easy to sleep last night, with all those thoughts. But when I've finally fallen asleep, I had an amazing dream. In this dream, my friend's family was preparing for a wake. There was a lot of people, whom I didn't see for a while, like my friend's younger brother and out best friend, who lives in UK. And we were so joyful, all of us. Smiling and telling jokes, like we were carefree teenagers again. I was literally laughing when I woke up, feeling so blissful and content.
I wonder if it was DCM telling me to not be sad, because little Marta's fine, back home and happy. :cry:
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I'm so sorry, zhenqing, my sincere condolences to your friend, her family and you. May little Marta be happy where she is.

zhenqing said:
It wasn't easy to sleep last night, with all those thoughts. But when I've finally fallen asleep, I had an amazing dream. In this dream, my friend's family was preparing for a wake. There was a lot of people, whom I didn't see for a while, like my friend's younger brother and out best friend, who lives in UK. And we were so joyful, all of us. Smiling and telling jokes, like we were carefree teenagers again. I was literally laughing when I woke up, feeling so blissful and content.
I wonder if it was DCM telling me to not be sad, because little Marta's fine, back home and happy. :cry:
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Amazing dream indeed, given the sadness and grief you are feeling. As you say, it could have been DCM, but it could as well be your subconsciousness sending you a message. We know so little about how things work and why, and even less we understand. We feel pain and sorrow, we don't like when our beloved ones have to go away. But having faith that at some level there is free choice and in the grand scheme the Universe is perfect and makes sense, helps a lot. Sometimes, during the darkest hours, we receive a reminder which helps us endure the pain we feel.

Big, warm hugs to you and your friend. :hug2: :hug2:
 
Condolence's zhenqing, and to all concerned in the passing of little Marta. :(
 
We never know how things are gonna develop and it is difficult to discern when a lesson is presented to us, specially in such difficult and painfull experiences. I hope your friend find the necessary force to go through this.
:hug2: to you all.
 
Thank you, everyone, once again.


I attended the funeral this morning. There was a little time before the ceremony, so me and my friend have a chance to talk and she told me about autopsy results. It seems that her daughter was never meant to survive. There was a lot of internal bleeding and water in baby's lungs.... among other things. The Doctors said it was astonishing she even lived that long...

If this was a lesson to my friend, it was truly a difficult and a heartbreaking one, but what saddens me the the most is the fact that she will never see it as such. I know her too well. And we are so very different from each other. To the point that I often feel like we are literally living in two different words. But I understand; she choose one path, I choose another. I've learned to respect her choices even if it's sometimes hard to watch.
It was today.

:(
 
zhenqing said:
Thank you, everyone, once again.


I attended the funeral this morning. There was a little time before the ceremony, so me and my friend have a chance to talk and she told me about autopsy results. It seems that her daughter was never meant to survive. There was a lot of internal bleeding and water in baby's lungs.... among other things. The Doctors said it was astonishing she even lived that long...

If this was a lesson to my friend, it was truly a difficult and a heartbreaking one, but what saddens me the the most is the fact that she will never see it as such. I know her too well. And we are so very different from each other. To the point that I often feel like we are literally living in two different words. But I understand; she choose one path, I choose another. I've learned to respect her choices even if it's sometimes hard to watch.
It was today.

:(
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I feel for you zhenqing, feel better soon :hug2: :hug:
I guess all you can do is remain a good and loyal friend to Marta's mom and maybe in the future, help her overcome this tragedies. Take care!
 
This is a difficult time for you and your friend Zhenging, please have my condolences to you and your friend. :hug2:
 
zhenqing said:
And we are so very different from each other. To the point that I often feel like we are literally living in two different words. But I understand; she choose one path, I choose another. I've learned to respect her choices even if it's sometimes hard to watch.
It was today.

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I know what you mean. I also know lots of people who seem to live in a different world than myself and I think most of the people here have pretty much the same situation regarding many of their friends and family.

Glad you are respecting her choices as this is very often hard to do, but something we must always do our best to do.
 
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