Pressure

Avi

Jedi Council Member
Hi All,

I want to share something bothering me, to release the pressure a bit.

Last Saturday I had an interview for a job and was offered the position. This was excellent in that I have not worked for 2-years now and it is becoming quite a problem. I have hundreds of resumes out there yet this is only the second interview in all that time.

The position would meet my needs though it was falsely advertised. A certain pay scale was advertised, which upon calculating would equate to roughly half of my last salary. In the interview though I discovered that the company offered this "pay" based upon working 50-60 hour weeks and paying overtime, so now it is working twice as hard for half the pay. At an hourly rate though it was 30% of what I previously earned. Still, I was grateful and thought give it a few months, see what happens. The office is 5-minutes from my house and would meet my needs as stated.

Well this was Tuesday, first day of work.

On Wednesday, first thing, arriving 6:30 AM and I am pulled aside and told they are letting me go. :huh: :O

I asked why but the Ops Manager would not say. In discussing I could see his eyes go real big and it seemed like he wanted me to get upset, etc. I was understandably upset but kept my cool in talking to him and merely said "I accept your decision but want to know WHY?" He refused to answer.

So, I left.

It turned out that on Tuesday when I started another lady started that day as well (was not told about her during the interview) and in talking to her it became clear she agreed to accept pay even less than what I reluctantly agreed to. She also mentioned that she recently left Texas "in the middle of the night"with her two children, has an ex-husband and an ex-fiancee, so in a certain sense I feel that her needs are greater than mine and in that respect I am OK with it.

Yet this company is something. A small "environmental management" firm that does landscaping and focuses upon snow and ice management during winter. Clearing streets, parking lots, big corporations, etc. Wal-Mart here local happens to be a client. They also had proposals lying around which I looked through and noticed one to the White House for SIMS (Snow and Ice Management System) - whether they were awarded that contract I do not know, but there was a fishy feeling to it. Like thats not truly what it is about.

This is compounded by the fact that the owner of the company strikes me as a complete and utter liar, extremely narcissistic and based on the feel I got from meeting him would not be surprised at all if he is part of the Scottish Rite here locally. He left me a voice-mail stating he sent an email requesting me to come in for interview, but he never sent that email, so lied, either consciously or unconsciously. Since then I have emailed a couple times requesting him to inform me if he would pay cash or check for the day worked on Tuesday, to which I have received no reply. Its like he is secretive and hiding and wants no paper trail.

I do not know the legality of advertising position as he did and yet basing the advertised annual pay upon working 60-hour weeks, but legal or not it is underhanded and I think they decided to have me and the woman "compete" for the position. She agreed to less money and the job is not rocket science, can easily pick it up in a few days I think.

Well, it turns out, also, that on that first day we were in a training room watching videos (with other people coming and going, talking, distracting attention, but, whatever, your company buddy run it how you want to) and they were listening in on conversations during the day. In fact they "showed" us this by opening the intercom mic at the end of the day so that we were aware they could listen up front when we were in the back.

I never said anything outrageous, which I can be prone to do, :evil:, only commented a bit on HFCS and how I dont drink the stuff, also talked about cutting sugar, wheat, gluten, dairy, etc, etc, in passing conversation.

The other strange thing is that this Ops Manager told me on Saturday he used to be in the Air Force, that the "CIA wanted/recruited him" but he supposedly left and that he regrets that decision. He worked in the Reagan White House and says he met Kissinger.

All that could be purely happenstance, and one way or another it does not matter now I suppose, but I have to say it was quite a shock on Wednesday.

I also feel lied to, in that (1) the pay was falsely advertised; (2) we were listened to without our knowledge or consent (spying) (3) they would NOT state a reason as to WHY!

I guess in the end it is better this way because I do not want to work somewhere that such a lack of trust is ongoing, but, the blow and pressure are intense now.

Thus endeth the rant!

kind regards,
 
Hi Herakles. Well sounds like it probably IS better you don't work for such a company, even though you need the work. Hope you can find a better job soon. :)

In the meantime, breathe the stress away. Probably a good idea to increase pipe breathing as needed.
 
I'm sorry you had to go through this Herakles.

I had something similar happen when one company pulled a bait and switch. I figured if they would treat people like that right off the bat, who knows what else they would do so I didn't take the job. The manager looked surprised and asked me why. I told her that what they were telling me now wasn't what the ad said. I couldn't believe that she was surprised someone would actually stand up for themselves! Go figure.

I'm sure you'll find something that better suits your needs and honors your spirit. :)
 
Herakles, I commend you on keeping your cool. I have the utmost respect for you & your attitude.!.!.! I don't think I would have handled the situation as well as you have. I know I wouldn't have... First thing that came to my mind is to take boss man out back and rub his face in the dirt. Teach that school yard bully how it feels. Yep, I most likely would've had an emotional discharge. Sad is this world that there are so many snakes out there, (sounds like a good book), but seems those people with no consideration, feeling & empathy seem to be in charge, for the moment. I know... Easy to say, Chin Up. But dang it, persevere and stay the course for those people will get what they give, eventually. And you will be known by your fruits. I have a feeling that you leave lasting impressions on those you come into contact with. This networking hopefully will be of benefit to you. I pray for your success.
 
Herakles, I second Al Today with the congrats on keeping your cool. I'm sorry to hear about this, especially in these tough times, but frankly, I'm kinda glad you're out of that situation. :)
 
Thank-you all for your kind comments. Funny thing is that leaving that morning I kinda knew, had a hunch. In fact remember when the thought entered my mind and thought it was strange. As I left the driveway a big lightning bolt struck illuminating the early morning sky in a pinkish crackly glow. In the moment it signified battle to me, something I am no stranger to.
 
Hi Herakles,

I'm sorry that you lost your job, it seemed that your boss was really greedily/cheap and wanted to pay the least amount for the position. I think you are better off then having that job because of the way your boss treated you, it would of created a lot more stress on you . About the monitoring of the workers, I use to work at a Subway and they also let us know that they are watching/listing to us, I guess to make us scared so we wont steal or make sure that we work "hard" enough to keep the job. Have faith in the universe (I also have trouble with this, but I keep reminding myself) and I'm sure she will supply you with the money/job, that you neeed. Heres some quotes from the Cs.

[quote author=Cassiopaeans]

"When one worries first about money, the trap is set. When one pursues one’s passion, all else falls into place. What you do not yet allow yourself to understand is that this principle never, ever fails. But you certainly are not alone. The 4th density STS programmers relish the thought." Cs

"money flows from unexpected sources" Cs


[/quote]

I hope it helps. :)
 
Infiniteness said:
I think you are better off then having that job because of the way your boss treated you, it would of created a lot more stress on you

Yep, I think you dodged a bullet, though I completely understand the shock and discomfort of it.
 
anart said:
Infiniteness said:
I think you are better off then having that job because of the way your boss treated you, it would of created a lot more stress on you

Yep, I think you dodged a bullet, though I completely understand the shock and discomfort of it.

Yeah, sounds like you're better off outta there, in the long run. Growth can be painful, though! To look on the positive side, who knows what opportunities the universe will now offer you?
 
Not to worry Herakles. I think you can always win in these kinds of situations by adopting an inner attitude that's more in alignment with your inner essence that yearns to be inwardly free and not a slave to the personality which is more concerned with it’s outer survival and can be motivated by it’s desire for rewards and fear of punishment.

The impression I get from having similar experiences to the one you just described is that there is a choice to be made at the juncture point in these kinds of situations and the universe may be testing us to make the proper choices and choose the proper inner attitude. Either the attitude is an “essence attitude” that is upwardly directed towards inner freedom and which works to transform our inner state and free us (momentarily) from our external conditioning where it's more possible to choose new attitudes that’s more in alignment with our conscience and objective understanding of the nature of the world, or it could be a personality attitude that's more conditioned and forms its attitudes pretty much mostly on its need for survival and influences coming from the world and surrounding environment.

So I’ve found that in these kinds of situations there is only one way to go and that is up! It’s like there’s a lesson going on or something like that and we must make payment for this lesson with our old fixed attitudes regarding ourselves, the world and how we relate to it. Then maybe the outer will change when the inner world changes. It might be something like that.
 
Hi Herakles,
I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but think you did the right thing leaving this place. Hope you will have a better opportunity soon.

I was myself in such a situation some months ago. I've been offered a job paying 50% more than my current one. We agreed the salary with the boss, but I asked for a draft of the contract before leaving my current job. It came that the boss traveled abroad and the man in charge during his absence put amuch lower salary in the contract draft, even lower than my current pay. So I told him that I couldn't accept. He called me back to say that it was an error, that it was corrected and I should come and see the new one, but I replied I could not join them as they didn't keep their words. The guy couldn't believe that I would refuse the offer for this reason. When the boss came back, he called me again and told me that I should change my decison as it was an error, but I told him that IMO, such relations are based on trust and since I couldn't trust them, I couldn't join.
The guy ended being put out of the company by the boss!

So keep on breathing and have faith on the universe.
 
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