Sharing personal experiences

[palestine]

Hello @Soul

The original prayer goes as follows:

"The Prayer of the Soul" Translations

"The Prayer of the Soul"

Oh Divine Cosmic Mind
Holy Awareness in All Creation
Carried in the heart
Ruler of the mind
Savior of the Soul
Live in me today
Be my Daily Bread
As I give bread to others
Help me grow in knowledge
Of All Creation
Clear my eyes
That I may See
Clear my ears
That I may hear
Cleanse my heart
That I may know and love
The Holiness of True Existence
Divine Cosmic Mind

That's the official prayer of the forum

You could make variations.

You know, the Universe, if God looks at it, is split in two polarities: the Service To Others and the Service To Self. The planet seems to be a temporary location with more STS than STO.

You know, too, that we are in 3D and that there exists a next "level" of "cognition" (I say "cognition" but there are better words than that) - the 4D. And there is the 5D, a contemplation zone, and the 6th D too. And 7D. All those places exist, and, one day, we can find ourselves there. For now, it's above me, but there is existence at those levels. That's cool. Comforting. That's how I see this: I know it exists - and prayer are one of the few positive thing that we can do and that have ties to those "worlds".

At those places, 4D, 6D, there are non-physical beings. Some are polarized to STO, right?

So, my homemade prayer is to ask for help to the polarity of STO. The idea is to pronounce the words at loud, so that STO can hear you. Or in the head. That's why I got used to specifically say "Oh Service To Other's beings ...". In doing so, I am plainly asking the Service To Others ... if they would have time to help me! ...

"Just in case" ... "If it would be possible, please" ... "because I feel really down... and ...". Be yourself, I would say, and being polite

The Service, at 6D, are in charge of the Universe. They are the architects of things. The care that "things run smoothly" down there. In praying STO, you would kind of seek this responsibility, in the framework of "things" in general, but as a first step that you need help. Later, you can pray when you are feeling good - and this would be a way to "give", to participate.

So, the prayer I am referring to means a position of asking for help, to this "principle"; to this "area"... But you need to form your prayer yourself. That's to tell you the precise aspect of what you would do when praying. So you are kind of free. You should ask, if you find yourself in difficulties. That is something that we need to do.

I mean:

"Oh Service To Others, I find myself in a very difficult situation". "There is that girl that I always liked and there she appears and I almost failed my marriage". "I don't know what to do".
or
"I feel completely lost, unable to align two thoughts in my head about what to do today"
"Can you please help me on that one"

I did not exactly understand the situation you are going through, so the above are ideas. You can adapt. And you know, the Service To Others is higher than me, so I understand that "reverence" may not be too much, as well as humility, when I pray. Apply the idea that you have, yourself, of what a prayer is. Basically: Hello, Please, Thank you., I suppose. STO appreciates when we align ourselves, I believe.

I am again sorry for what you are going through. May others here provide you with some ideas! May the Service To Others help you to get better, and for what you need!

 

[Soul]

Hello @Soul

The original prayer goes as follows:

"The Prayer of the Soul" Translations

"The Prayer of the Soul"

Oh Divine Cosmic Mind
Holy Awareness in All Creation
Carried in the heart
Ruler of the mind
Savior of the Soul
Live in me today
Be my Daily Bread
As I give bread to others
Help me grow in knowledge
Of All Creation
Clear my eyes
That I may See
Clear my ears
That I may hear
Cleanse my heart
That I may know and love
The Holiness of True Existence
Divine Cosmic Mind

That's the official prayer of the forum

You could make variations.

You know, the Universe, if God looks at it, is split in two polarities: the Service To Others and the Service To Self. The planet seems to be a temporary location with more STS than STO.

You know, too, that we are in 3D and that there exists a next "level" of "cognition" (I say "cognition" but there are better words than that) - the 4D. And there is the 5D, a contemplation zone, and the 6th D too. And 7D. All those places exist, and, one day, we can find ourselves there. For now, it's above me, but there is existence at those levels. That's cool. Comforting. That's how I see this: I know it exists - and prayer are one of the few positive thing that we can do and that have ties to those "worlds".

At those places, 4D, 6D, there are non-physical beings. Some are polarized to STO, right?

So, my homemade prayer is to ask for help to the polarity of STO. The idea is to pronounce the words at loud, so that STO can hear you. Or in the head. That's why I got used to specifically say "Oh Service To Other's beings ...". In doing so, I am plainly asking the Service To Others ... if they would have time to help me! ...

"Just in case" ... "If it would be possible, please" ... "because I feel really down... and ...". Be yourself, I would say, and being polite

The Service, at 6D, are in charge of the Universe. They are the architects of things. The care that "things run smoothly" down there. In praying STO, you would kind of seek this responsibility, in the framework of "things" in general, but as a first step that you need help. Later, you can pray when you are feeling good - and this would be a way to "give", to participate.

So, the prayer I am referring to means a position of asking for help, to this "principle"; to this "area"... But you need to form your prayer yourself. That's to tell you the precise aspect of what you would do when praying. So you are kind of free. You should ask, if you find yourself in difficulties. That is something that we need to do.

I mean:

"Oh Service To Others, I find myself in a very difficult situation". "There is that girl that I always liked and there she appears and I almost failed my marriage". "I don't know what to do".
or
"I feel completely lost, unable to align two thoughts in my head about what to do today"
"Can you please help me on that one"

I did not exactly understand the situation you are going through, so the above are ideas. You can adapt. And you know, the Service To Others is higher than me, so I understand that "reverence" may not be too much, as well as humility, when I pray. Apply the idea that you have, yourself, of what a prayer is. Basically: Hello, Please, Thank you., I suppose. STO appreciates when we align ourselves, I believe.

I am again sorry for what you are going through. May others here provide you with some ideas! May the Service To Others help you to get better, and for what you need!

Thank you Palestine for all your efforts, your precious time and guidance. I don't have better words to appreciate you. This is a very big service you have played. God knows! Stay blessed.

 

[Nienna]

The planet seems to be a temporary location with more STS than STO.

This planet here in 3D is all STS. There are STO candidates, but we are all STS or we wouldn't be here.

At those places, 4D, 6D, there are non-physical beings

4D beings are variable physicality. They are physical beings that can become non-physical at times when they put their minds to it. 5D and 6D are non-physical beings.

That's all according to the Cs, of course.

 

[palestine]

This planet here in 3D is all STS. There are STO candidates, but we are all STS or we wouldn't be here.

4D beings are variable physicality. They are physical beings that can become non-physical at times when they put their minds to it. 5D and 6D are non-physical beings.

That's all according to the Cs, of course.

Thank you! My belief was that 4D beings were firstly first non-physical, and would then become physical at will. It seems to be the opposite way: 4D people's mode of being as primarily "physical" (most of the time?).

 

[Nienna]

Thank you! My belief was that 4D beings were firstly first non-physical, and would then become physical at will. It seems to be the opposite way: 4D people's mode of being as primarily "physical" (most of the time?).

There is much in the sessions about this. Here's one that I hope helps:

Session 26 April 2025

(Approaching Infinity) In the past you have said, "There is variability of physicality on 4th density, but not lack of physicality." But later on, when Laura asked if in 4D, "There is no materiality unless you will it to be so," you answered, "Close." Does variable physicality for 4D beings include the option of having no physicality at all?

A: In some advanced beings. Just as some advanced beings in 3D can manifest unusual abilities.

Q: (Approaching Infinity) Is it different for STS and STO?

A: Not really.

Q: (L) So you can be advanced as a really nasty STS being as well as being really advanced as an STO being on fourth density. Is that it?

A: Yes

Q: (Niall) 4D is a big place.

(Joe) They talk about variability... What Approaching Infinity is asking about, the variability of physicality... It always seemed to me that you take 3D beings who go to 4D or are newly arrived to 4D and they've just spent 309,000 years in a physical body. The idea that they would immediately or very quickly be capable or at home or comfortable with a purely non-physical state... It would most likely be something that would be a gradual process that you learn as part of 4D, but as a newly graduated or newly arrived 3D being, you're probably going to be 3D. You're going to be stuck in the 3D...

(L) You're going to be still mostly kind of 3D.

(Joe) That's what you're used to, right? You're not really that good at the...

A: Yes

Q: (L) So there's not like a sharp division or a moment where one minute you're 3D, and the next you're raptured into being a light being. So there's no such thing as that.

A: Yes

Q: (Chu) Well, not long ago they said you could be in 4D and not even notice it. So...

 

[palestine]

There is much in the sessions about this. Here's one that I hope helps:

Session 26 April 2025

Thank you, this is very interesting. Since the time, getting in touch with the material made me less "wishing" for possessing so-called "supernatural abilities", and lead me to approach those matters in a more natural way. A bit like "around, there are [sometimes] 4D beings, phenomenons, etc..." - and rather than absolutely willing to "get a piece of the cake", as I would do, time ago, I am learning to appreciate the Universe being at peace with itself, with all things as they should/need. I am rather in awe and respectful for people/beings who are more "advanced" (let's say), and never "jealous", or "absolutely eager to equate them".

This provides me with a relative peace of mind, and a better alignment with "what is".

So thank you for the precisions, the matter of the physicality of 4D wasn't clear for me, and it required me to read the session to clarify some aspects! This is very interesting! What a burden 4D STO must have, and what a responsibility! This looks cool, too. I am sure that I met 4D STO beings, one day. STS too, can be.

I have a question, please: it has been said that lizards, for instance, had troubles for staying in 3D. Does this apply to, let's say, "basic" / common 4D STS? Does this exclusively apply to extremely STS polarized 4D beings? In other words, if it's STS, it would be more difficult.

 

[nortkee]

I'd like to echo/expand on what T.C. said -- you say you are trying to figure out a way out "without crushing someone's emotions."

If you are in a constant state of feeling "bad" about this, you can pretty much guarantee so is your wife, and so is the woman for whom you have complicated feelings.

I have been in a somewhat similar situation, and I can tell you from my own experience that honesty was the only way forward. Honesty with myself, first and foremost, and then honesty with those with whom I was entangled after I reflected on what was truly best for me.

You cannot decide what's best for others. You can only know what is best for yourself. And "best" doesn't necessarily mean what is physically pleasing or fun, it means what aligns most with your own morals and purpose.

Once you know that, you must take steps to align your actions accordingly. Those steps are going to hurt, yes, but you're already in a state of pain, simply due to living out of alignment. Once you are truly honest with yourself and begin making changes that support your spiritual wellbeing, you will be grateful for the pain that helped guide you back onto the best path.

My biggest piece of advice is to not avoid the course of action you KNOW is "right" out of this fear of hurting others. As T.C. said, this is basically just selfishness disguised in concern for others' feelings. If you have felt unhappy for 20 years, so has your wife. The most selfless thing you could possibly do in this situation is to tell it like it is. Not in an accusatory way, not with a laundry list of resentments, but just -- the truth. Start at, "I am not happy with the way things are," and see where it takes you.

I truly wish you well!

 

[Wandering Star]

I have a question, please: it has been said that lizards, for instance, had troubles for staying in 3D. Does this apply to, let's say, "basic" / common 4D STS? Does this exclusively apply to extremely STS polarized 4D beings? In other words, if it's STS, it would be more difficult.

My idea about this is that 4D STS being contractile in its energy field, suffer when exposed to the environment with a very very low intensity of the electromagnetic field, and they don't like it.

4D STO, on the other hand, can work well in realms of low electromagnetic field due to the different configuration of its being (expansive, relief from constriction).

According to Ra in fourth density the paths separate and the STS and STO realms are mutually exclusive, each with its own positive or negative configuration of the energy field.

This is my suspicion about the matter.

 

[Soul]

I'd like to echo/expand on what T.C. said -- you say you are trying to figure out a way out "without crushing someone's emotions."

If you are in a constant state of feeling "bad" about this, you can pretty much guarantee so is your wife, and so is the woman for whom you have complicated feelings.

I have been in a somewhat similar situation, and I can tell you from my own experience that honesty was the only way forward. Honesty with myself, first and foremost, and then honesty with those with whom I was entangled after I reflected on what was truly best for me.

You cannot decide what's best for others. You can only know what is best for yourself. And "best" doesn't necessarily mean what is physically pleasing or fun, it means what aligns most with your own morals and purpose.

Once you know that, you must take steps to align your actions accordingly. Those steps are going to hurt, yes, but you're already in a state of pain, simply due to living out of alignment. Once you are truly honest with yourself and begin making changes that support your spiritual wellbeing, you will be grateful for the pain that helped guide you back onto the best path.

My biggest piece of advice is to not avoid the course of action you KNOW is "right" out of this fear of hurting others. As T.C. said, this is basically just selfishness disguised in concern for others' feelings. If you have felt unhappy for 20 years, so has your wife. The most selfless thing you could possibly do in this situation is to tell it like it is. Not in an accusatory way, not with a laundry list of resentments, but just -- the truth. Start at, "I am not happy with the way things are," and see where it takes you.

I truly wish you well!

Hello Nortkee. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences. I took some time imagining how you could have been feeling then. Its interesting to learn that today you can look back at that mess. Its no more and gone. You are free. From the time I shared my situation on this platform I feel relieved. Its like I have just opened my door out of this. I feel happier. I think its more like confession of sin so to say. You people here have helped me to stand on my feet. I don't fear to defend my course now. Palestine's encouragements to pray also helped me to consider opening up to the sto(universe) for assistance. I don't think am alone any longer.
Thanks Nortkee thanks all.

 

[T.C.]

I have a question, please: it has been said that lizards, for instance, had troubles for staying in 3D. Does this apply to, let's say, "basic" / common 4D STS? Does this exclusively apply to extremely STS polarized 4D beings? In other words, if it's STS, it would be more difficult.

Regardless of strength of polarity, the way I picture it is it’s like a human wanting to swim with fish. You can hold your breath or use scuba equipment, but you can’t stay under the water forever.

 

[nature]

the journey organised by my wife. We arrived midnight and booked a single room at the hotel. This was the beginning of all the emotional attachment although we did not have any sexual relationship for two nights in that hotel.

I hope you'll all find a peacefull issue.
A question : Has your wife organised also the hotel booking?