Stalk Your Stalker

adam7117

Jedi Council Member
FOTCM Member
I like this article very much, mainly due to the past personal experiences with stalkers.

Apart from what this article is talking about, there is one more thing that psychopaths and stalkers cannot bear – their total exposure to the world at large.

They roam the background in the darkness of occlusion and double-bound talk. They want to make you look bad in the eyes of others, effectively isolating you from the social network that can provide you with assistance. And it is you who is at fault – you will be a victim for as long as you like it.

Not being afraid to be open about self, the deep emotional content that dwells within is one way to shield from a stalking psychopath. They simply will not be able to hook you up on their games which are based in shame, pity and lack of self-confidence. Seeking external validation is the prime directive of a psychopath. If you do it to yourself, you will become food to them.

Observing them for a long time is essential too. Once you wake up to the games and see the reality of the interaction for what it is – expect a breakdown, a painful stab in the heart and realisation of self inadequacy – and then openly talk about these inadequacies to all you can. Don’t suffer in silence – the bubble will burst once you share your experiences with others.

Then once you truly see and have the shielding restored – confront the stalker. Once usually does the trick if done properly. “I see right through you. I know what you have been doing – there is no more to be said. And I have already shared it with everyone that cared to know the true you – the others that chose to believe your lies are immaterial to me. I love me.ᾠ

Then walk away for good.
 
Hi Adam 7117,

exactly however in my experience they still do not admit anything and then if they are very close in your life they strive to do further psychological damage to you so i found it better to work on my escape plan whilst simply not allowing any other person in my life where similar behaviors is displayed. And you are dead right about being open with people, but i chose people to speak to people who would support me in a way i found comfortable whilst following my own course to its conclusion, as if you are listening to a load of should do's from well meaning friends elsewhere as well you have double the challenges -)

Warm Regards Julie
 
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