luke wilson said:
Hey prometeo, I have also been reading you for quite awhile and my impression of you from your writing is confident/sure atleast to the extent of not worrying to much.
Haha
we should work back to back to learn from each other.
:) I asked because I was at the beginning a lot afraid like you, trying to impress, fit, and to not commit a mistake, and I did when I tried to not. Several reasons I would find of why I did write those things, so yeah, I've found that there's no need to feel fear for something that's not relevant, no one is gonna die by a simple mistake, or misunderstanding about others' post.
This is not related to the case, but I think that if I'm an ignorant about something I would like to be aware of it instead of not.
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I refer to you about the emotion felt not about the reasons of it, of course.
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luke wilson said:
And also if am to be further honest, I take disagreement as disapproval as I have to surrender my position ENTIRELY and move over to the other persons position COMPLETELY inorder for the perceived disagreement to stop since if I attempt to argue my point and atleast get to somewhere in the middle - since who is right anyways in such matters where right/wrong don't exist - depending on who is on the other side, things might not end to well for me - so it becomes a matter of, what exactly am I prepared to lose..
Indeed, I did it too, but I won't surrender my opinion, one think I've learn from the folks of this forum is to not surrender my opinion. If I see a disagreement I tell myself "Ok, we'll se", so I think about and so if I'm wrong I am wrong, sometimes it's obvious, and sometimes even if a hundred of people disagree but I can't see the contrary I won't feel that I'm wrong. One good lesson I had is that this forum is not to see who's right or wrong, or who wins or "loses", like this pathological world has programmed us, but to make to each other aware of everything we can, like the eye of RA.
luke wilson said:
Hey prometeo, I have also been reading you for quite awhile and my impression of you from your writing is confident/sure atleast to the extent of not worrying to much.
Haha
we should work back to back to learn from each other.
:) I asked because I was at the beginning a lot afraid like you, trying to impress, fit, and to not commit a mistake, and I did when I tried to not. Several reasons I would find of why I did write those things, so yeah, I've found that there's no need to feel fear for something that's not relevant, no one is gonna die by a simple mistake, or misunderstanding about others' post.
This is not related to the case, but I think that if I'm an ignorant about something I would like to be aware of it instead of not.
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I refer to you about the emotion felt not about the reasons of it, of course.
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luke wilson said:
And also if am to be further honest, I take disagreement as disapproval as I have to surrender my position ENTIRELY and move over to the other persons position COMPLETELY inorder for the perceived disagreement to stop since if I attempt to argue my point and atleast get to somewhere in the middle - since who is right anyways in such matters where right/wrong don't exist - depending on who is on the other side, things might not end to well for me - so it becomes a matter of, what exactly am I prepared to lose..
Indeed, I did it too, but I won't surrender my opinion, one think I've learn from the folks of this forum is to not surrender my opinion. If I see a disagreement I tell myself "Ok, we'll se", so I think about and so if I'm wrong I am wrong, sometimes it's obvious, and sometimes even if a hundred of people disagree but I can't see the contrary I won't feel that I'm wrong. One good lesson I had is that this forum is not to see who's right or wrong, or who wins or "loses", like this pathological world has programmed us, but to make to each other aware of everything we can, like the eye of RA.
luke wilson said:
So in this case I was being accused of being disingenuous, but to my mind I was being genuine. So I have someone who is telling me I am not, what to do? I can say no I am, at which point I will be accused more of god knows what, then if I decide to change it to the other person, then I will all of a sudden validate all the arguments being made against me.. How to get out of such a conundrum? So I shook at anticipation of the sight of the deadly road that lay ahead of me.. I am working on it though. So far I think it comes down to a misunderstanding of the implied values and how they actually work in practise.
Well I think the facts talk by themselves, maybe you are but because of you hooked subjective perception you can't see it, so the best way to get our of such conundrum is to let the ego go away with it's assumptions, so in the case you were right you would have enough tolerance to say "ok you were right" and have patience, wait for whatever person to find his/her that he/she was wrong it that's the case, if not, you need patience to acknowledge your mistake. Take for example the FOTCM and SOTT, that are aware of this problem about medicine and the french laws, lot of people can say SOTT is wrong and blablabla, but that won't change the truth SOTT is presenting.
So maybe yes, all it comes down to a misunderstanding,you know that understanding means an equal capacity of perception on the mental and emotional center? (I know Ouspensky wrote it different), it's hard for the heart indeed, as it is hard for a scientist to go for days to discover something and left his wife a sad and angry, but he need's her as his support as a lot of people need his discoveries, so the wife is a big part of all this. The same with the mental center when see "things" that are unpleasant like fire to the heart center.