Just came across an interesting passage right at the end of chapter 13 which is about rheumatoid arthritis. This is one of my manifestations of stress though it is well controlled with diet and SOME "environment management". The main thing I did to help myself was learn how to say "no" (which precipitated divorce from my first husband as a by-product - that's what sometimes happens) and certainly, my practice of breathing exercises was helpful to bring about releases which is why this passage is so interesting.
Gabor is talking about a guy with Ankylosing spondylitis; toward the end, there is this exchange between him and the patient:
Does it ever!
Gabor is talking about a guy with Ankylosing spondylitis; toward the end, there is this exchange between him and the patient:
"I have an advantage over others in terms of expressing anger. I have a command of the language. I never shout at anybody. I don't have to shout because I can put words right through you just by controlling my breathing. One of the good things about AS is that it freezes your ribs, so your ribs are locked in front and back." Robert explains that when people become upset and lose control of their angry responses, they breathe in a very shallow fashion, using the muscles between the ribs to inflate the chest cavity and thus to draw air into the lungs. Because of his AS, he is unable to do that.
"In order to have a stronger voice and more control over the way you speak, you have to breathe with your diaphragm. You don't breathe there - you breathe shallowly and your ribs move in and out. My gut goes up and down because I have to breathe with my diaphragm. There's much more muscle control in the diaphragm than there is over the top of the ribs." It also affords better emotional control and ensures improved oxygen supply to the thinking parts of the brain.
"Before, I had to work at it. As my ribs froze up, I didn't have any choice."
"That's most interesting. Teachers of yogic breathing are always telling us to breathe using the diaphragm. That's the healthy thing to do. Your AS forced you to do that."
"It gives me the power of clarity. You can tell if most people are angry because they shout at you. That's the way, verbally, they can express that they're angry. With my breathing the way it is, I have to speak in shorter sentences, and I can clip words and project my voice rather than yell. Controlling your breathing allows you to control your temper and your anger - and by controlling I mean using it to get to where you want to go."
As Robert spoke, I was struck by the uncanny ability of nature to teach through adult disease lessons that, in a better world, should be learned in childhood and in health.
One study pointed to the intriguing possibility that even the painful inflammation of rheumatoid arthritis could serve a protective function; joint tenderness was significantly related to a decrease in stressful events one week later. "The results have important clinical implications," the researchers concluded. "The dynamic interplay between social-conflict events and joint pain describe a homeostatic system in which negative social interaction is regulated through worsening of the disease."
In other words, the flare-up of disease forced patients into avoiding stressful interactions. The body says no.
Does it ever!