Wife is having serious problems while pregnant-any advice?

Laura said:
Interestingly, as is reported in the book "The Magnesium Miracle", pre-eclampsia is treated with IV magnesium.

I would HIGHLY recommend this book right now because everybody suffers a shortage of magnesium - we need at least 700 mg of it per day - and a pregnant woman is undoubtedly using a lot more during pregnancy.

Yeah, in fact that was the only way I knew about mg, as a safe treatment during pregnancy for hypertensive states, and as an anti-arrhythmic. I'm thinking that what your wife needs right now, is more magnesium.

And it is to say that some take much more folic acid as well, up to 5000µg/d according to specific needs.
 
Hi guys, we've been reading all your helpful posts and discussing the situation. We've decided that she'll only take the blood test tomorrow, not the glucose tolerance test. As Hildegarda put it, there's really no need for the test if one eats healthy already. My wife said that the reasons why she would go through this kind of horrible test would be that a positive result would motivate her more to quit eating all the sweet stuff (she eats very little candy, but occasionally she enjoys some gluten free muffins or salty liquorice), and that if she would know that she has a higher risk for diabetes she would be motivated to lessen the carbs even more. I really don't know what to say to that...

It's apparent that we think differently, I don't need a lab test to motivate me to eat healthy. And we've discussed this in good spirit; I'm not trying to change her attitude nor is it possible for me to do it. But after I expressed my extreme concern about this test tomorrow she agreed to wait with it. She agreed that being in bad shape and having BOTH a blood test and the glucose test would probably make her hospitalized.

Thanks also for the info on magnesium and folic acid. She agreed to increase the dose of magnesium, a little. I've also looked up chlorophyll (thanks Hildegarda) and found out that one of the best sources for iron is Chlorella. Unfortunately it is not recommended during pregnancy because of the high amounts of iodine. Another good source of iron is apparently nettle. I'm going to buy some nettle tomorrow and see if that will help. I'll also re-read parts of The Magnesium Miracle, since we have it.
 
I will add that, as a sufferer of hyperinsulinism all my life, the accelerating heart rate that almost leads to passing out, sounds a lot like too much insulin. Is it accompanied by a cold sweat, a feeling of panic, shakes, that sort of thing? If so, I'd definitely cut out all dairy and all SIMPLE carbs. NOT complex carbs like veggies.
 
Just for your wife's concern about magnesium with pregnancy. I had issues when I was pregnant with my daughter including bleeding and low iron. I was treated with IV magnesium from my 4th month until the week before delivery.
 
Aragorn, in addition to increasing her magnesium intake, your wife might also want to read this:

http://www.sott.net/articles/show/217710-Why-Women-In-China-Do-Not-Get-Breast-Cancer

Why Women In China Do Not Get Breast Cancer

The short answer is: The Chinese do NOT eat dairy products.

I can't emphasize enough that just going gluten free is not enough: one must also go dairy free because the casein in dairy products does things similar to gluten. And just ONE gram can trigger the whole cascade of negative events in the body and can take up to six months to clear.
 
Also recommend this article since your wife may be experiencing insuling resistance/hyperinsulinism:

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/11/12/new-study-predicts-one-in-three-in-us-will-have-diabetes.aspx
 
hello everybody

Monday I visited a member of my man's family, she had her first child a nice and healthy boy, but her delivery was not so peaceful as planned.

In the week-end before she got abdominal pain ,she went to the hospital, the doctor didn't control her blood pressure .At the monitor everything was Ok. she returned home.

She had to wait to her gynecolog until tuesday he was in a congress. Tuesday ,the gynecolog made some tests her water i thing her blood and he controlled her blood pressure (too high) he saw she had

swelling of her face and hands so he decided she had to come to hospital wenesday.

Wenesday the gynecolog prepared her for a natural childbirth but the baby had to be delivered prematurely . she got penicilin she didn't react very good (some allergies I think) The contractions didn't occur

after nine hours the gynecolog decided to make a caesarian to save the baby and the mother Now almost everything is ok .Her blood pressure stays too hign her heart is good , she has headache . After her

delivery when her blood pressure was too high the doctor gives magnesium.

I think the hospital had to diagnose early a preclampsia ,it was really dangerous for her life and the life of her baby.
 
My wife nearly fainted during the lab tests today but somehow managed through it. She declined the glucose test. She will have to wait over a week for the results for the blood test, so there wasn't much help of that right now. Well, we both have lost faith in the 'official' mainstream medicine, so we weren't surprised that they again kept pushing for the beta blocker medication. Now that's another good example of how they only want treat the symptom, not the cause. Plus that it says on the label that it shouldn't be used by individuals who have low blood pressure, which my wife has.

Today she also went to see her acupuncturist. It did help a bit. The Chinese woman also recommended avoiding dairy products. She also recommended eating dates, pregnant women supposedly eat those to elevate their iron levels. So we will try that too. I bought her extra folic acid (800mg) and capsules with stinging nettle. She has agreed to take these, plus more magnesium. Our plan is also to increase her intake of simple carbs and have her eat more veggies, as Laura suggested.

One problem is that she's alone at home with our son half of the week (I work from Monday to Wednesday in another city, 400km away). As we all know, preparing good and healthy food when you're tired and alone isn't the easiest thing to do. I'll have to step up my efforts in preparing veggies and stuff in advance for her.

My wife sends many thanks to all who has given advice here. Maybe she will write a few lines on the forum herself when she feels better. :)
 
Aragorn said:
Our plan is also to increase her intake of simple carbs and have her eat more veggies, as Laura suggested.

Just to clarify, you're supposed to cut out simple carbs and increase complex carbs like veggies.
 
Psyche said:
Aragorn said:
Our plan is also to increase her intake of simple carbs and have her eat more veggies, as Laura suggested.

Just to clarify, you're supposed to cut out simple carbs and increase complex carbs like veggies.

Sorry, my mistake. I meant to say increase the complex carbs and cut out simple carbs...
 
Hildegarda said:
One more thing to try is chlorophyll. For some reason, it really works well in rebuilding blood supply during pregnancy. Up to 12 caps a day if hemoglobin is very low, together with iron and folate supplement. Hopefully your wife improves soon!
I second that... a couple of my books by midwives have suggested liquid chlorophyll (chlorophyllin) for anemia, siting improvements in hematocrits after taking this overnight. (Willa Shaffer, author of Midwifery and Herbs)
Chlorophyll seems to work great for those with iron metabolism challenges (A and B blood types, especially), given that all the supporting nutrients for iron uptake are adequate. My bottle of liquid chlorophyll suggests taking it together with chlorella; which will provide both chlorophyll a and b.

Aragorn said:
I've also looked up chlorophyll (thanks Hildegarda) and found out that one of the best sources for iron is Chlorella. Unfortunately it is not recommended during pregnancy because of the high amounts of iodine. Another good source of iron is apparently nettle. I'm going to buy some nettle tomorrow and see if that will help. I'll also re-read parts of The Magnesium Miracle, since we have it.

As far as the not recommended during pregnancy part... that is totally your call, of course. FWIW.... almost every supplement in my PDR for Nutritional Supplements has that warning, most likely because it would be seen as scientifically unconscionable to test supplements on pregnant women, even naturally occurring ones. I've always felt comfortable with what midwives with herbal knowledge have had to share. Supplementing through herbs is much safer and gentler on the woman's body and growing fetus., OSIT, along with many other herbalists.

I'd like to share what Susan Weed says about Nettles (my most ultimate favorite herb) in "Wise Woman Herbal":

Fresh young nettle is an excellent source of minerals, vitamins and amino acids, protein building blocks. Her superb, bio-active nourishment is readily absorbed by all soft tissue and working fluids: blood, lymph, hormones, and neurotransmitters. This results in increased ease and energy in the operation of the circulatory, immune, endocrine, nervous, and urinary systems. Sister spinster stinging nettle is highly recommended for pregnant and lactating women.

[Nettles] is very high in calcium, magnesium, trace minerals and chlorophyll.... Stinging nettle is high in chromium, cobalt, iron, phosphorus, potassium, zinc, copper, and sulphur as well as the B complex of vitamins, especially thiamine and riboflavin and the carotenes, measured as vitamin A.

Nettle leaves and stalks also supply niacin, protein, manganese, selenium, silicon, tin, vitamin C complex, measured as ascorbic acid and vitamins D and K.

sodium levels in nettle are quite low.

Frequent use of nourishing sister stinging nettle (as infusion or cooked green [YUUUUM!] ) along with Wise Woman ways is recommended for those wanting to stabilize blood sugar, reset metabolic circuits to normalize weight, reduce fatigue and exhaustion, restore adrenal potency to lessen allergic and menopausal problems, and eliminate chronic headaches. Nettle is also a powerful preventive for those with hereditary susceptibility to rheumatic complaints.

Two cups of nettle infusion daily nourish and stabilize energy in the reproductive/hormonal systems, build nutrient-rich blood and expand the cells' capacity to metabolize nutrients.

Many midwives suggest regular use of nettle infusions during the last trimester of pregnancy to add a plentiful supply of vitamin K and iron to the blood. [The same dosage] will noticeably improve the quantity and quality of many women's breast milk. Three or more cups of the infusion weekly will provide optimum bio-active minerals, especially calcium, vitamins, and proteins to nourish you and ensure nutrient-rich milk.

I could go on and on about Nettles... best green ever! IMO
I'll just add, in lieu of not having any fresh greens, you can also use the infusion as a soup base, gravy base, as well as tea.
Raspberry leaf is a great herb for pregnancy and combining with Nettle, and also helps tame Nettle's somewhat strong taste.
 
We use quite a lot of butter in our cooking.

Just a small suggestion. Wouldn't it be better to use Coconut oil instead of butter for cooking ??
I switched to coconut oil completely recently and I am very glad i did it :D Tastes great :)
Also consitency is similar to butter
 
drygol said:
We use quite a lot of butter in our cooking.

Just a small suggestion. Wouldn't it be better to use Coconut oil instead of butter for cooking ??
I switched to coconut oil completely recently and I am very glad i did it :D Tastes great :)
Also consitency is similar to butter

Not any better, really, just a matter of preference. I don't like the coconut oil because it leaves a cloying feeling/taste in my mouth.
 
We are still quite concerned about my wife's condition. She's been through some more lab tests and an EKG. One of the results were that she has sinus tachycardia and sinus arrhythmia. I've understood that both of those are common during pregnancy, but lately she has had these attacks even during the night when she's sleeping. So, it makes life very difficult for her. Sometimes the attack comes after she has eaten, but sometimes just 'out of the blue'. The episode with her heart beating very fast lasts usually from 30min to an hour. During this she gets very pale and her lips turn white. She has also tried the beta blocker medicine during these attacks, but that doesn't seem to help much. She's quit dairy completely, so that's not an issue anymore.

Her folate levels were good, but her iron reservoir (don't know the right term) was low: the number of this was 22. I've understood that this should be between 50-100 or so. She's been taking daily extra magnesium (about 300mg a day), folic acid (800mcg), Solgar VM-75 multivitamin, Fish oil capsule (1000mg), nettle tee and tablets, and the iron supplement Maltofer. According to her latest lab test her hemoglobin is now 108. So there's a slight rise from the previous measurement (105).

Tomorrow she's going to get an EKG-wristband (don't know the right term), which she has to wear 24h. During attacks she's supposed to push this button. On Friday they will call about the results, if there's any - the doctor told that if they don't find any alarming they will not call at all! How nice of them...

One thing that has helped a little during these attacks is Reiki treatment. I've spoken to my teacher about this and he has instructed the most beneficial hand positions. Actually, tomorrow my wife is having an appointment with my teacher, so she'll get the best Reiki treatment around :-)

It seems that this thing is just something my wife will have to endure until the baby is delivered, but I truly wish there would be something we could do to make things easier for her. We have a friend in Germany who is very good at homeopathy, she has sent some homeopathic medicine which should calm down the nervous system. I hope this will come in the mail tomorrow.
 
Has she cut out all simple carbs? Sticking to plenty of softly cooked veggies and meats? She should maybe try the Vegetable Broth, too. Does she lie on her left side to relieve pressure on the hepatic portal vein?

It may just simply take some time of building back up for the unpleasant symptoms to stop. But I do think that keeping a close eye on everything is absolutely necessary. Be wary of pharmaceuticals, but DO do non-invasive tests so you can have some idea of what is going on in order to do your own research on the situation.

I'll never forget, with my first pregnancy, I was having leg cramps and the doctor prescribed quinine! All I needed was magnesium!
 
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