Sounds reasonable to me, on the whole. I think there may be some exceptions. Let me throw an example into the pot, though it's about a man. In the Thomas Sowell biography documentary that came out in the last year or so, he tells the story of his childhood. From his perspective as an old man, he looks back at one experience that he says was essential to his development as a thinker. He grew up poor, went to a bad school, etc. But he was lucky in that an older acquaintance saw something in him and suggested he go to another school (or something to that effect). At least according to Sowell, he doesn't think his life would have turned out the same if not for that intervention from someone who saw something in him.
I think it's probably true that those with the most drive will follow the path no matter what the obstacles. Maybe the same would have been true for Sowell? But at the same time, I think there have probably been cases of men and women where circumstances (e.g., living and working on a farm in the middle of nowhere, no education prospects whatsoever, no rich mentors, etc.) did greatly block their full potential from manifesting. Of course, they could still have been the best they could given the circumstances - a wise old farmer, for example. But given access to more educational opportunity, maybe that wise old farmer would've been the next Copernicus?
Or maybe not? If we want to be fatalistic, maybe everyone is exactly where they are supposed to be. If the circumstances seem too oppressive for potential to actualize, maybe that's just another lesson, and next time around, that experience will be put to good use. And maybe, like Sowell, those who really need it WILL encounter a person to guide them on the path, even if it is just one tiny step.
It's an interesting story, and forgive me for digress a bit. Many times I have been thinking about these seemingly fortuitous events that change our lives dramatically. In my case, after a lot of recapitulations, I have managed to isolate at least 3 of them that are truly remarkable.
The first of these occurred when I was 16 years old and finishing high school. It was an absolutely trivial event for an external witness, but with a VERY deep impact on my life. The point is that at the end of the last year of high school I had not passed all the courses because in one of them (geography, my nemesis) I had done very badly and, as the teacher did not like me at all, I had taken the stupid decision of not taking the last exam that would allow me to finish not only that course but also the high school.
I know it may seem a minor matter, but if I did not finish school I would not have been able to go to university and continue on the road to becoming independent from my parents (it was the social model of what a young person should do in those days). God knows what my plans would be, but I have the memory that without studying or working I would have had no choice but to follow in the footsteps of my older brother (who also had not finished school and lived a bohemian life at my parents' expense).
When it seemed that I had already made my choice and one day before the school year closed and my chances of finishing high school on time were definitely gone, something unusual happened. While I was at school (it was the meeting point with my friends), as I was going down a staircase that led to the exit of the building (probably to leave and never come back) I crossed paths with the geography teacher (I insist, he was not a very well-liked teacher, he was one of those who enjoyed bulling his students). I tried not to let him see me, but he came up to me, called me by my first name (weird) and asked me nicely: why didn't you come to take the exam? (which by the way had been several days ago). I don't know what stupid lie I answered, but he started to insist that I should take the exam and that if I was willing he would take a special exam (just for me) the following day.... He insisted so much that that afternoon I started studying like crazy and the next day I went and passed, not only the exam, but also the high school. It is difficult for me to explain what I felt at that time. On the one hand it was like a feeling of freedom, as if thousands of possibilities were opening up before me, but on the other hand (and this was a much deeper feeling) I had a feeling much more difficult to describe, it was like a warm embrace or a maternal caress, as if someone/something was taking care of me, which by the way developed in me a deep feeling of gratitude. After 33 years I can still feel that.
Anyway, sorry if the story got long and boring, but what I was trying to illustrate is that such life-changing events, although some may see them as "luck" that some have and others do not, IMHO are premeditated acts of help that are put in our way because we are in a position to take advantage of them in terms of our learning cycle,.... whether we take them or not, is another story.
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