Thor
Jedi Council Member
edgitarra said:Thor said:It's like I'm in meta-cognition mode all the time. The mental awareness of what I'm saying, thinking, feeling is always on - busy analysing, comparing, trying to figure things out, etc. While this can have definite benefits in some situations, I often experience it as preventing me from just being present with whatever I'm doing or a barrier between myself and other people. For instance if I'm hanging out with a friend it's can be hard for me to connect to the person because the Awareness Wedge is simply to big, to use the term used in the book.
I am going to quote from the book 2 points that might help:
Any time we reflect upon our thinking processes and knowledge, we are metacognizing. Indeed, most of us do this all day long, though the way we do so generally lacks direction and tends to swerve into fields of endless rumination. To get the most from metacognition, we have to train ourselves to focus its power and forge the discipline necessary to stay focused despite distractions.
If it is considered a tool it must be used in the right way, at the right moments.
And this quote links with this one:
Mindhacker authors Ron and Marty Hale-Evans use the term semantic pause and divide the ability by duration and depth. They use the term tactical pause to describe a low-level and immediate stop, and the term contemplative pause to describe a high-level detachment that allows for greater depth of deliberation before acting. The ability is also sometimes referred to as a cognitive pause, which highlights the fact that we enact the ability in our conscious mind space. It's a type of antithetical thinking that causes a flashing red cognitive stop sign to keep us from taking another step.
Even though you have the book already and read these parts(I guess), I would recommend thinking about what they mean and how they can useful. Just my opinion.
Thanks a lot for your comment, edgitarra.
You're right, I had read the quotes you provided and I recall that while I was reading them I thought that it made sense and was almost obvious. What was less obvious was to take them in and understand how they can be applied to me in my own life. . It's amazing how the mind can create a mental barrier to self application as when you're not aware (and even if you try to be...).
I'm sure that there'll be examples in the rest of the book as to how apply those tools.