And it seems, to me, that there is more fussing and petty annoyance going on than I can recall at any other time. That is subjective, of course and I could be wrong. (LOL, we'll see how many "oh you're so totally wrong about that" this comment generates! LOL!)
Well, maybe I'm being subjective, but it appears to be so to myself, also.
Regarding the drop in members, I have one data point to note: In Oct of 2021, the sessions went from being conducted by those physically present (5-11 people approx?) and changed to a Zoom format with around 150 added participants. The Jan 2023 session has about 100 added on Zoom. So, a good question to ask: was there a qualitative change in the sessions due to the added Zooming participants? This, of course, assumes that the Sessions are THE major "draw" for members. IDK, just floating this out there in case there is a correlation between the two (drop in members and new session format).
When I read here and am engaged with individuals or groups online, I pick up a lot more than what is said thru words...When someone speaks (or for me, in this case writes) there is another conversation or messsge going on/happening behind it. So, the way I perceive includes more than what is on the surface of any interaction.
Since the inclusion of the large numbers of Zoom participants, I get a different feel when reading these sessions...It is a lot of noisy interference and is irritating to my sensing. I'm describing this the best way I can, which I realize might be taken wrong from what I'm attempting to communicate.
The thought occurred to me that this might have something to do with the Dunbar theory of numbers. The implication of this theory is that people only have enough emotional bandwidth for a certain number of friends and acquaintances....And that perhaps I go into overload when the number present at the sessions (including zoomers) gets really large...like 150 ppl! I'm wondering if this happens to other more 'sensitive' members too? It's a stretch but it might explain the 'irritation' I experience when reading sessions, since the addition of members thru zoom...
https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20191001-dunbars-number-why-we-can-only-maintain-150-relationships?ocid=ww.social.link.facebook&t=Dunbar's number: Why we can only maintain 150 relationships
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Dunbar's number: Why we can only maintain 150 relationships
"According to British anthropologist Robin Dunbar, the “magic number” is 150. Dunbar became convinced that there was a ratio between brain sizes and group sizes through his studies of non-human primates. This ratio was mapped out using neuroimaging and observation of time spent on grooming, an important social behaviour of primates. Dunbar concluded that the size, relative to the body, of the neocortex – the part of the brain associated with cognition and language – is linked to the size of a cohesive social group. This ratio limits how much complexity a social system can handle.
Dunbar and his colleagues applied this basic principle to humans, examining historical, anthropological and contemporary psychological data about group sizes, including how big groups get before they split off or collapse. They found remarkable consistency around the number 150.
According to Dunbar and many researchers he influenced, this rule of 150 remains true for early hunter-gatherer societies as well as a surprising array of modern groupings: offices, communes, factories, residential campsites, military organisations, 11th Century English villages, even
Christmas card lists. Exceed 150, and a network is unlikely to last long or cohere well."