I've been thinking about this a lot since I asked this question.... And came to the conclusion that it's absolutely not okay if someone didn't ask it. Because everything is lessons and I don't want to be the one to interfere with other people's lessons and then blame them for not being allowed to live through them. If praying would do any good at all in this case. I think you only support the "other" side.
Since I was very agitated that day, I still turned to the divine cosmic spirit before I went to sleep and "chatted" a bit about how I was doing with it and in the end thanked him for "offering" my husband and I these lessons and allowing us to learn from them. And sometimes we don't even know in advance what one situation or another is important for, at first it may seem scary or bad. But in the end, something completely different comes out of it.
I was really worried for two days whether everything will go well after his vaccination, but he had only a slight fever and was simply exhausted. Even if something had happened, I couldn't have helped it. I could only have given my best. As I had done in advance. I think that's all we can do. What is important IMO is that we act no matter what when asked. That was a good lesson... Thanks ...
And no, I have never met anyone who has made such a 180 degree turn....