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Children are so vunerable. I dont even trust the charitys anymore. I heard something about the main one in England a year or two ago, and there was a massive discussion on a survivor forum over it. Apparently the charity in question hired a man to be chairman (Or a suitably high position) that had been involved in a mass cover-up of child abuse, while working in a government position.
Then on facebook the other day, whilst reading a post on a adult survivor group network, i noticed an American child abuse prevention charity.
The picture on their profile was so sexualized it was unreal. A women wearing incredibly short skirt/blouse/12 inch high heels, with child knelt at her knees with his hand on her thigh. Incredible really. I mean.... who in their right mind would think that was damn appropriate?! Yet, no adult survivors thought anything of it, yet they are supposed to be sensitive to stuff like this. Gobsmacking really.
I know that personally the more i read on this subject, the more powerless it makes me. I know very well (from my own experience as a baby/toddler) that abuse happens in allsorts of ways, and is far more rife than most people believe. But... i also know theres little i can do about it.
I prefer to concentrate on things i can change, but im not sure if this is unhealthy dissociation. But if i allow the negative stuff to drag me down that much, that im unable to contribute (I aim on volunteering at a childrens hospice) then im not serving others like i could be. Id love to know where the balance is between awareness/denial.
Then on facebook the other day, whilst reading a post on a adult survivor group network, i noticed an American child abuse prevention charity.
The picture on their profile was so sexualized it was unreal. A women wearing incredibly short skirt/blouse/12 inch high heels, with child knelt at her knees with his hand on her thigh. Incredible really. I mean.... who in their right mind would think that was damn appropriate?! Yet, no adult survivors thought anything of it, yet they are supposed to be sensitive to stuff like this. Gobsmacking really.
I know that personally the more i read on this subject, the more powerless it makes me. I know very well (from my own experience as a baby/toddler) that abuse happens in allsorts of ways, and is far more rife than most people believe. But... i also know theres little i can do about it.
I prefer to concentrate on things i can change, but im not sure if this is unhealthy dissociation. But if i allow the negative stuff to drag me down that much, that im unable to contribute (I aim on volunteering at a childrens hospice) then im not serving others like i could be. Id love to know where the balance is between awareness/denial.