As a native English speaker, I really despise the whole masculine/feminine thing. It makes it really hard to speak a language like French or Spanish fluently.
On the other hand, I have noticed that some non-English speakers have a heckuva time speaking English due to all the exceptions. When you think about it, English in any accent is a ridiculous language. Of course, native English speakers think it's the cat's pajamas because that's their native tongue!
What's REALLY interesting to me though is how different people understand/learn other languages.
Take two Americans: The first one can learn French fairly easily. The second can't learn French to save his life, and really struggles with it.
Then take two French chaps: The first can learn English quickly and speak it very well, while the second never seems to get it right.
It seems to me that most people CANNOT learn a second language easily.
Then there is the example of the woman who came from Spain, has lived in France for decades, and yet still speaks French with a fairly serious Spanish accent. Another person in the same situation will speak French like a true French woman after all those years.
I just wonder what it is about our brains that makes it so that learning a second language is so hard for some, and so easy for others. And then, why do some people never lose their foreign accent even if they speak their new language "fluently", and some do? I do not think it's simply a question of "how much work you put into it".
In the end, it seems to me that this whole language thing was custom designed to keep people divided, especially considering that the inhabitants of most countries believe their particular flavor of language to be "the best". It's not just language vs. language, but cultural baggage vs. cultural baggage. Makes me wonder if our brains weren't "modified" to make second-language-learning difficult for most people.