Euthanasia?

It is very hard to say good bye to our animals companions but I will never accept to see my dog suffer. I will try to cure her with medicines, if it is necessary even if I don't like medicines. And if her case is without an issue I will take the responsibility to help her to leave. I know this decision is one of the most difficult decisions in our lives, when we love animals. And also this decision is very personal. But in my mind, personally, and I have some animals companions, I know when the moment will arrive I will be ready to help them and specially to help them in stopping the sufferance.

My friend, this love that you have with your dog does not stop here. It is a love that continues, because it is an eternal love. And one day another animal companion will appear in your live and you will be able to love again, and again and again.

Loreta
 
I know this decision is one of the most difficult decisions in our lives, when we love animals. And also this decision is very personal.

Oh yes it is , actually that was most difficult decision in my life. Still , I cannot get rid of a thought that maybe , I mean maybe there could be more done , and I could spare (aka not order to kill) my dogs life.
 
Slow Motion Mary,

If you do decide to go the route of euthanasia (nice polite word for killing), spend the extra bucks and make sure a qualified vet does it and be there, witness and make sure your beloved companion is floated down slowly, gotten nice and high, calm and mellow and then given the fatal solution.

I say this because a botched killing could be painful and personally I believe we all have souls and ones final departure, the actual separation part of the soul from the body, if not done properly can lead to next life problems.

I don't know how else to explain it.

I was in nursing for a few years an quit because, at times, I could feel the soul leave the shell/body and my last patient was a four year old little girl who was in remission from Leukemia.

I have noticed/felt that most souls depart peacefully, they simply lift off - when it is the designated time.

As I have witnessed two "euthanasias", because they were both done by a qualified vet that knew what he was doing, they were both very peaceful deaths.

The souls departed quickly and with no I don't know what words to use, there was no struggling, no bad feeling, no clinging - just a smooth and tranqual lift off.

Please do not attempt a mercy kill on your own unless you are a MD, Vet or qualified medical person who really knows how to perform this.

If the animal is still young, not in pain, and simply a nuisance, that is no excuse. Train, train, train. Sign up for training classes, spend the bucks and bring in a qualified animal trainer - my youngest son is austistic and trains ours for free and he is quite good. A old animal can be taught new stuff.

Euthanasia shold only be when there is no other solution, and done as a kindnesss to end suffereing, in my humble opinion.
 
Waterbearer, the little guy is so attracted to me, I just have to figure out "why?" and work from there. I agree about mercy killings, but you have to understand that transportation to a vet or having a vet come out is not always feasible depending on the animal. Anyway, at a future time I'll let you know how Yang and I are doing. :hug:
 
Slow Motion Mary said:
. While I was thinking about this, my husband and I went for a walk and my older dog accompanied us as well as the cat in question, Yang. He follows me like a dog! My other cats are fixed, so I decided I would have him fixed and then "wait it out" regarding his behavior. I sure don't want to euthanise him simply due to behavior, but I have never encountered such behavior before. Having said that, does anyone have any suggestion on how to proceed?

Hi Slow Motion Mary, sounds like Yang is quite a handful. ;)

He's treating you like he would another cat that's encroaching or competing for territory, and it sounds like he likes you well enough, he's just not sure where your territory and his meet up. I think getting him fixed and working with him every day would go along way to gentling out the behavior.

Cats need interaction and play time just as dogs do. Once Yang is fixed it would be good if you could set times to play with him to get him used to the notion. I think if you did this with a laser pointer or feather toy, he'd get used to that and quit attacking you in the garden, and jumping on your back etc. Structured interaction, like you'd give a dog, would be an avenue to try. He may attack you because he wants to play, and a mature male can get rough if he isn't fixed.

He may be past the imprinting stage, but its clear to me from what you've said that Yang's decided you're his Person. He doesn't sound to me like a menace as much as he's just being a cat. :hug:
 
Gimpy said:
Slow Motion Mary said:
. While I was thinking about this, my husband and I went for a walk and my older dog accompanied us as well as the cat in question, Yang. He follows me like a dog! My other cats are fixed, so I decided I would have him fixed and then "wait it out" regarding his behavior. I sure don't want to euthanise him simply due to behavior, but I have never encountered such behavior before. Having said that, does anyone have any suggestion on how to proceed?

Hi Slow Motion Mary, sounds like Yang is quite a handful. ;)

He's treating you like he would another cat that's encroaching or competing for territory, and it sounds like he likes you well enough, he's just not sure where your territory and his meet up. I think getting him fixed and working with him every day would go along way to gentling out the behavior.

Cats need interaction and play time just as dogs do. Once Yang is fixed it would be good if you could set times to play with him to get him used to the notion. I think if you did this with a laser pointer or feather toy, he'd get used to that and quit attacking you in the garden, and jumping on your back etc. Structured interaction, like you'd give a dog, would be an avenue to try. He may attack you because he wants to play, and a mature male can get rough if he isn't fixed.

He may be past the imprinting stage, but its clear to me from what you've said that Yang's decided you're his Person. He doesn't sound to me like a menace as much as he's just being a cat. :hug:

Thank you! He's so unlike any other cat I've had! As you can see, I was really conflicted about this and plan to follow up as you and Waterbearer suggest. :D
 
To: Slow Motion Mary

Is Yang a Tortoise cat (multi-color brown and black and what-not)??? Because my little one (Ursula) is the exact same way!! I can't tell you how many scars I have because of her. Just when some heal, she leaps again on my back when I am not looking and sinks 'em in to get a grip. It's only that she wants a better vantage point, but it HURTS! The only thing you don't mention is the wailing. If Ursula wants something she will wail like it is her life if we don't provide it. What I have observed is that she does NOTHING halfway. Emotions, gymnastics, cuddling, etc. She feels it all fully and expresses it to the fullest. If we leave something hanging (clothes, curtain, whatever) she will climb up that thing and meow like she's saying, "Look at me!! Look at me!!" She can be infuriating, but she is also part of the family. I am certain she will calm down someday, but I couldn't help but comment because you seemed to be describing our precious kitty!!!!!
 
ironjam628 said:
To: Slow Motion Mary

Is Yang a Tortoise cat (multi-color brown and black and what-not)??? Because my little one (Ursula) is the exact same way!! I can't tell you how many scars I have because of her. Just when some heal, she leaps again on my back when I am not looking and sinks 'em in to get a grip. It's only that she wants a better vantage point, but it HURTS! The only thing you don't mention is the wailing. If Ursula wants something she will wail like it is her life if we don't provide it. What I have observed is that she does NOTHING halfway. Emotions, gymnastics, cuddling, etc. She feels it all fully and expresses it to the fullest. If we leave something hanging (clothes, curtain, whatever) she will climb up that thing and meow like she's saying, "Look at me!! Look at me!!" She can be infuriating, but she is also part of the family. I am certain she will calm down someday, but I couldn't help but comment because you seemed to be describing our precious kitty!!!!!

Yang's not a tortoise-shell, but I have one that is and she's more like what I'm used to, hence my conflict. Yang is one of five cats and none of the other cats I have now or have ever had behave like Yang. Yang is sort of yellowish-buff stripe with white and very long fur. Very beautiful cat! He's not vocal at all, which for a male surprised me. I've been giving him more attention than the other cats because he seems to need it. Last time I worked in the garden he was much more respectful. Maybe all that craziness was attention-seeking behavior, like a child. Maybe you have an attention-seeking cat, too!
 
With all respect to those that find euthanasia a dignified death and an act of kindness toward pets, I have to say that personally, I'm vertically opposed to it.
In my mind, the life and death of every creature are full of meaning we can't possibly know in depth.
We really have no idea whether the pain a dog or a human is suffering in this life is karmic and whether it is there for a reason that we will never find out, in this lifetime. Considering this, then assuming the place of god/nature and disposing of animals to spare them the pain is putting too much value on our own judgment of what is desirable and what isn't.

Thinking that we spare the animal, while suffering ourselves for its loss, I find misguided as well.
It could be the projection of our own pain and death that we see in an old animal, and because we can't cope with it we put it down to avoid witnessing something that is indeed too much to handle.
Afterall, we have no choice whether we will lose or not a sick and dying pet, we Will lose it, so crowning euthanasia with discarding our own emotions of loss in favour of the animal has no real base. What we chose to 'lose' is the pain of watching nature at work and managing to find the strength to be there through the process.

My opinion only comes from personal experience and contemplation, I honestly hope it's not insulting to anyone. I've always had pets that were akin to family for me and they were blessed with old age, natural and swift deaths. All of them except one cat that suffered for one week and I was by his side night and day. It tore me apart at the time but I chose to share his suffering instead of ridding him of it. I don't find that heartless, I find it to be in compliance with the workings of life, even when they are too tough to handle.

Last December, a relative of mine went through a long and painful death. She's been asking for mercy and death and kept feeling she was a burdain to everyone she loved. It was a very hard situation and it made me contemplate even further on the reason for what we call suffering or lack of dignity in death (always and only talking about suffering that comes naturally and never induced!)
I concluded that maybe, it is a last act of liberating the soul from materiality consciously. It could be that through a difficult death the animal or the human have one last chance to clear up the clinging to second/third density. This is of course just a theory with little value but I'm convinced that nothing in existence in meaningless. Afterall, if all there is, is lessons, then death regardless of the shape and form it comes, is a lesson itself. Disrupting the process could deprive an entity from its ultimate lesson.
 
Eva wrote:
With all respect to those that find euthanasia a dignified death and an act of kindness toward pets, I have to say that personally, I'm vertically opposed to it.
In my mind, the life and death of every creature are full of meaning we can't possibly know in depth.
We really have no idea whether the pain a dog or a human is suffering in this life is karmic and whether it is there for a reason that we will never find out, in this lifetime. Considering this, then assuming the place of god/nature and disposing of animals to spare them the pain is putting too much value on our own judgment of what is desirable and what isn't.

Thinking that we spare the animal, while suffering ourselves for its loss, I find misguided as well.
It could be the projection of our own pain and death that we see in an old animal, and because we can't cope with it we put it down to avoid witnessing something that is indeed too much to handle.
Afterall, we have no choice whether we will lose or not a sick and dying pet, we Will lose it, so crowning euthanasia with discarding our own emotions of loss in favour of the animal has no real base. What we chose to 'lose' is the pain of watching nature at work and managing to find the strength to be there through the process.

My opinion only comes from personal experience and contemplation, I honestly hope it's not insulting to anyone. I've always had pets that were akin to family for me and they were blessed with old age, natural and swift deaths. All of them except one cat that suffered for one week and I was by his side night and day. It tore me apart at the time but I chose to share his suffering instead of ridding him of it. I don't find that heartless, I find it to be in compliance with the workings of life, even when they are too tough to handle.

Last December, a relative of mine went through a long and painful death. She's been asking for mercy and death and kept feeling she was a burdain to everyone she loved. It was a very hard situation and it made me contemplate even further on the reason for what we call suffering or lack of dignity in death (always and only talking about suffering that comes naturally and never induced!)
I concluded that maybe, it is a last act of liberating the soul from materiality consciously. It could be that through a difficult death the animal or the human have one last chance to clear up the clinging to second/third density. This is of course just a theory with little value but I'm convinced that nothing in existence in meaningless. Afterall, if all there is, is lessons, then death regardless of the shape and form it comes, is a lesson itself. Disrupting the process could deprive an entity from its ultimate lesson.

I think you have some valid questions and present a rational counter argument for some cases, but, as always, the devil is in the details. As with so many other polar arguments, there is usually a third position to consider when examining the situation. An older animal who appears to be going through the natural death process where internal systems begin shutting down (usually kidneys first), stops eating and drinking, ending with labored breathing and some last convulsions, is not likely feeling the pain we can imagine while watching our beloved pets die. This is a process that I agree is likely best left alone. On the other hand, to watch a horse writhing on the ground suffering in excruciating pain with a twisted gut, which for one reason or another nothing can be done, and to let it continue to suffer for hours, sometimes times days, when you can relieve that suffering with a bullet or a call to the vet, is nothing short of cruel and self centered. Or, to let your dog, diagnosed with bone cancer--an especially painful sort of cancer, suffer through its last weeks in agony when you could help it reach its inevitable destiny a little quicker, is NOT in IMO, acting an STO manner. Each situation needs to be evaluated with knowledge of the animal's condition, prognosis, and pain level; your means to intervene in a compassionate manner, your experience and wisdom in these types of situations or those of a trusted acquaintance, common sense, and your knowledge of yourself and your intentions, while putting the best interests of the animal first.

I suspect much of the suffering 2D experiences on this Earth exists to give us opportunities to learn to make the right choices that will benefit our soul growth, the animal's, and the Universe--all is lessons.
shellycheval
 
Eva and Shellycheval, both good points. I feel nothing is really black and white, there are many shades of gray. Every situation, though it may "seem" similar, is unique due to personality, history, etc., and if action becomes necessary, hopefully it is an action based on intelligence and compassion. Most people are very "attached" to their animals and the subject of euthanasia is a tough one. Conversely, how many people consciously wonder about every ant they step on, or every mosquito they swat? Aren't they are all denizens of second density and entitled to our compassion? Or is it just the denizens to whom we have a personal "attachment"?
 
shellycheval said:
Each situation needs to be evaluated with knowledge of the animal's condition, prognosis, and pain level; your means to intervene in a compassionate manner, your experience and wisdom in these types of situations or those of a trusted acquaintance, common sense, and your knowledge of yourself and your intentions, while putting the best interests of the animal first.

I think so, if an animal is suffering with no end, and there is no way we can help them heal, arguing that this suffering is needed for them is closer to a thwarted rationalization that to an act of conscience, in the end what difference people of consciense is their hability to empathise with others suffering, evaluate the situation and act accordingly.

If we were to accept this rationalization then there is no point in trying to help anyone, in any situation, no matter what, because that suffering will be "full of meaning".
 
shellycheval said:
On the other hand, to watch a horse writhing on the ground suffering in excruciating pain with a twisted gut, which for one reason or another nothing can be done, and to let it continue to suffer for hours, sometimes times days, when you can relieve that suffering with a bullet or a call to the vet, is nothing short of cruel and self centered. Or, to let your dog, diagnosed with bone cancer--an especially painful sort of cancer, suffer through its last weeks in agony when you could help it reach its inevitable destiny a little quicker, is NOT in IMO, acting an STO manner.

I would not think twice shellycheval, I would use that bullet or make that phonecall if the pain was indeed excruciating and nothing else could be done. The only difference here between my trail of thought and yours is that I would not dare attribute my action as STO. Service to who? The body that is in pain yes, what about the soul? Am I absolutely certain that what I do is in service to that soul? Am I so sure that nature made a mistake putting that animal in pain and I'm here to correct it for the better? I will take the most appropriate action for my level of understanding ie. terminate the animal , but I can never be sure if that was a totally selfless action that benefitted the animal in a deeper level, despite it appearing clearly beneficial in 3D thinking.

Yet, I had something else in mind and I do apologise for treating the subject of euthanasia based mainly on my view of it which is that of old or suffering from terminal disease animals with no means of 'getting better' but with a few days/weeks/months left to live. I'm sorry but I see nothing selfless in having an animal be your companion untill it grows old and can't contain itself. Growing old is natural and I suspect it's a blessing we shouldn't look away from. The western society shuns old age and disintegration of the body with such zeal that penetrates every facet of our lives and I think euthanasia - when used as a normal conclusion for very old pets - is one facet of that tendency.
My point was that under no circumstances do I see any logical argument to spare an entity from old age and the natural suffering that comes with death.

Ana said:
I think so, if an animal is suffering with no end, and there is no way we can help them heal, arguing that this suffering is needed for them is closer to a thwarted rationalization that to an act of conscience, in the end what difference people of consciense is their hability to empathise with others suffering, evaluate the situation and act accordingly.

If we were to accept this rationalization then there is no point in trying to help anyone, in any situation, no matter what, because that suffering will be "full of meaning".

There is a point in helping everyone in every situation that we can discern for what it really is and intervene for the benefit of that person or animal. Maybe I impose limits on my level of understanding when I analyse things so much, but it feels safer than becoming a self-appointed angel of death when no such is needed.

Six years ago I was walking my dog and found a tiny grey griffon-terrier roaming the streets alone. She had a huge tree branch tangled in her fur and she was dehydrated - it was a very hot August. I took her and went to every nearby house to ask if someone knew her owners. When that failed, I took her home and to my surprise after she had some water and food she wouldn't let anyone touch her again, she was biting like crazy!
Next day I took her to my vet who -after a LOT of fuss- managed to examine her and he said she was too old and her body was full of tumours. She was in a lot of pain hence the biting and not accepting anyone to touch her. The only rational choice was to kill her. I went to a couple more vets and also to the state organisation for stray animals to ask for more opinions, and everyone told me the only thing left to do was euthanasia because she was too old, her cancer was everywhere in her body and she was in terrible pain. The vet at the state organisation was wearing a white robe spattered in blood as he was saying that and he added the smart remark "It's not worth it, just buy a new one". I guess that did it... I had my vet operate on her to remove the bigger tumours and now, after 6 years she lives a happy life with my mother.
Strangely enough, the smaller tumours subsided and were not even palpable after one year of simple, happy life, with no extra medication whatsoever. After the operation she experienced no pain -other than the first couple of weeks that she was indeed in a very bad shape- and to our surprise this 'old' dog was running and playing like a pup.
I can't describe the benefit both the dog and my mother are enjoying from their companionship. Yet, this was a contrary choice to every vet's professional opinion, but it was based on my understanding that one cannot deal death for anyone's 'benefit' so I exhausted my other options. Of course, this is nothing but one example among the millions of different examples that could support both arguments, yet for me its value lays on exhausting every option imaginable before concluding that to kill someone is for their benefit.
 
Eva said:
There is a point in helping everyone in every situation that we can discern for what it really is and intervene for the benefit of that person or animal. Maybe I impose limits on my level of understanding when I analyse things so much, but it feels safer than becoming a self-appointed angel of death when no such is needed.

Is there a possibility that you are not analizing things here but imposing hypothetical formulas when dealing with the current reality.
In fact don't you think it is precisely self-appointed to assume that maybe the animal soul "deserves it" because of karmic circunstances or "for a reason that we will never find out". For whom is it safer?

Also remember it is not about Euthanasia yes or not, it is about studying the specific situation and care assuming responsability, without a predisposed mind towards anything in particular. At least that's how I see it.

Glad to know you decided to operate the dog and try to help her despite the vet's "professional opinion" and that she is living now with your mother happily. :)
 
Today I let the Vet do euthanasia on my beloved companion, my precious wonderful one, my Cat Şeker. It was a very hard decision. Then I buried her on a beautiful hill in country outside of Istanbul. She is gone now.

I am so sorry. I miss her so much and I know I allways will.

There was nothing I could do. She was 11 years old, so not very old actually. She had cancer for 1 year and had 2 operations for tumor removal(March 2010 , September 2010). She was OK after the operations but I knew this was only temporarily.

And for the last ten days she could hardly breathe. Her x-ray revealed that she could use only a little part of her lungs. Vet gave some antibiotics and some other drugs too but these helped only to relief her respiration a little. She couldn't feed herself, absolutely no appetite. I fed her with an injector but even this was like a torture to her. And She was mostly throwing up what she ate.

She is gone now and the house is so empty without her.

I once shared her photos here on the forum :

http://cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=13594.msg118635#msg118635

And this song always reminds me of her (because of the title especially).


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61qEzmlw1vM
 
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