OK, if you will remain polite, I will tell you what I know. Which is not much. These lights just happen. They just appear. I did not will them to come. (Altho sometimes I do now). Since I have been almost totally on my own with this phenom I have dealt with in my own way. For a long time I just ignored it. We all ignore it for we all have the capability.
I sort of tried to run tests to see if a light came when I had a good idea (!). Or when I felt strong emotion. Then there is the cross-referencing of what colours are they displaying, etc. and whether that would have meaning.
I have drawn no solid conclusions. But there enough for me to think that it has to be a combination of both thought and good emotion. That state being present within one at the same time. Like when you are thinking that the kid needs a touque because it is going to be cold. Caring prompts the thought and they are both one.
The hynotherapy was quite revealing. The issue was to find out what the lights were/are. I was regressed to the lifetime when I first saw the lights. Without going in to a lot of detail, during a difficult lifetime in Early Middle Ages, Scotland, I learned and was granted the gift of 'second sight'.
The lights are the Communicators and/or Connectors. These are the two words that came to me. So use the Tapioca Pudding picture, the kernels, lights actually, affect all the pudding and all the light swarms and this is how things connect. Like paint mixing in to water. Now change the kernels to little comets. That is more what I saw under hynosis. And the last info I got, in hypnosis, about the connectors was that our planet Earth sphere was losing ours. Lots less lights in the pudding. I felt profoundly sad without knowing really why.
In daily life, anyone can see the white dots that swim around in between here and the sky. Usually all I see are them and like pinpricks of starlight that wink on and off, maybe 20 - 30 times a day. Sometimes more, sometimes less. If I am under heavy emotional stress I hardly see any.
For you guys who think communication with them is really odd, well so do I! For me it feels like looking for a blink response in a coma patient. I just tried communication out of boredom, trial and error, to see if I could get a response. I have always known that they are 'alive' or conscious at some level, or something.
This part is what will really make you choke on your cereal ; (God I love these anonymous forums!) They (the lights) definitely have a sense of humour. When I have a good thought/emotion that is funny, or absurd, ironic laff/chuckle type idea, a light often comes on, often a largish one.
I am not trying to convince anyone of anything. Choose your own Road. I am telling you what I see. That is all. I am happy to have the opportunity to discuss it. I've tried to describe the pictures I see as best I can. Do what you will with the information, but we are all connected, it is all the same pudding.
Peace