Oh boy those were the days, or at least that is what i believed. I remember I had notion that games really did help me in many ways. Looking back now at the time that I spend playing them uf...that is really lot of time wasted. Back on that notion that games really help me, yeah now I can laugh to that idea, but at the time it was real to me, or as I said it at least that is what I believed. As many did point out here playing games is nothing but big black hole of time, many like to give games lot of positive aspects, but really we only delude ourselves with that kind of thinking (if I can call it even thinking in real sense, more of like emotional thinking).
People often say to me that (I had that same altitude toward games couple years ago) games really help them with their motoric skills, enhance them and so, reflexes got better and one particular thing, that games help them understand some life important things. But let me just pierce that bubble of yours, that thing about motoric and reflexes, well as it turns out Parkour did for me same thing in 5 month that games did in 5 years, so if games have that effect is really poor one. As far as goes that "important things", well here how I describe it.
We allways as every organism like pleasant things, and games really did their role in that field, giving us not what we need but what we always want, and there is where whole games problem gets in to the spotlight. One more thing is our believing that somehow by its self games help us understand things about ourselves and world. I won't deny that there is that aspect where some games have reference to biology, physics etc. and tempt me into doing more serious research. But even that was only showing me what I already was in me, what I wanted, and only when I went into research about those things I learned. So at best some games were catalyst for something inside me that already was waiting for the outside incentive to give it momentum. Yeah that only shows how I was easily influenced by outside, or I needed outside initiative for start something.
It's like someone tries to test you, tempt you with something, if there isn't anything within you, some force that wants that, that won't be a temptation only when there is some force that wants that with what we are being tested we fall on that temptation. So it really boils down on what is with in us that keeps us succumb to that temptation.
And now many years later I don't need games to go and do the research in those fields, I just do it because I want to understand (not that is guarantied he he). So in some aspect I can understand when someone says games "help" them, but then as it turns out they spend all time on playing games and not actually doing things they say games help them to "learn". So as it turns out even that aspect is used in games only to keeps us playing and playing and playing (keeps us in believing that we actually learn and have understanding on thing just by playing games)....