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Archaea
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Interesting video Buddy, thanks for sharing. And thanks for the comments everybody, and thanks for the faith sitting, I guess it would be wise not to get my account deleted and maybe just take some time to process some of this stuff and read the Sott articles Andromeda suggested.
A few things though, I don't think of myself as an angry person. The people I live with now seem to speak forcefully, even yell, to get things their way, they don't seem to be to keen on discussing things sometimes. I usually react passively and just end up doing what they want, I don't feel like I have the energy to argue. I could move, but the house is close to work, and it's a good place for the dog, and they're pretty relaxed people usually and they don't make my life difficult. Point is I might be suppressing my anger there.
Another thing is that a few years ago I was given rat poison, twice. The first guy put it in some pasta and gave it to me when I was staying at his house. I felt a funny feeling in my stomach during the night and in the morning he told me he poisoned it, I said "I know," I didn't think it would hurt me, Then we went for a bike ride and I was so thirsty and I spewed up quite a fair bit onto the bike path. We agreed that he should go on ahead while I had a rest. Eventually I figured I had to get up and keep going to get some water, otherwise I'd be in trouble.
The second time I was staying at another guy's house, and in the morning I asked for a glass of water, he said he'd get it for me and I drank it. Then we went down to the park to have some sausages. The guy who gave me the water said "don't worry, we have the antidote," like it would help, I think he may have been a little worried. I spewed like 50 times, I kept drinking water from the tap and spewing. That night I had the same funny feeling in my stomach.
So I think this may be part of the reason for my attention seeking behavior. Ironically I've been keeping this to myself because I didn't think I needed the attention, but I think I haven't been giving my emotions validation and that has been causing them to come up in unhealthy ways. Also I don't think it's a good idea to do anything with too much physical contact because of this.
Another thing is, it seems to me that some of this stuff comes down to theory of mind. Understanding how people are going to react, physically, mentally and emotionally in certain situations. The narratives that I create and run in my brain hamper my ability to utilize my theory of mind, which means I can easily fall into the trap of internal considering.
A few things though, I don't think of myself as an angry person. The people I live with now seem to speak forcefully, even yell, to get things their way, they don't seem to be to keen on discussing things sometimes. I usually react passively and just end up doing what they want, I don't feel like I have the energy to argue. I could move, but the house is close to work, and it's a good place for the dog, and they're pretty relaxed people usually and they don't make my life difficult. Point is I might be suppressing my anger there.
Another thing is that a few years ago I was given rat poison, twice. The first guy put it in some pasta and gave it to me when I was staying at his house. I felt a funny feeling in my stomach during the night and in the morning he told me he poisoned it, I said "I know," I didn't think it would hurt me, Then we went for a bike ride and I was so thirsty and I spewed up quite a fair bit onto the bike path. We agreed that he should go on ahead while I had a rest. Eventually I figured I had to get up and keep going to get some water, otherwise I'd be in trouble.
The second time I was staying at another guy's house, and in the morning I asked for a glass of water, he said he'd get it for me and I drank it. Then we went down to the park to have some sausages. The guy who gave me the water said "don't worry, we have the antidote," like it would help, I think he may have been a little worried. I spewed like 50 times, I kept drinking water from the tap and spewing. That night I had the same funny feeling in my stomach.
So I think this may be part of the reason for my attention seeking behavior. Ironically I've been keeping this to myself because I didn't think I needed the attention, but I think I haven't been giving my emotions validation and that has been causing them to come up in unhealthy ways. Also I don't think it's a good idea to do anything with too much physical contact because of this.
Another thing is, it seems to me that some of this stuff comes down to theory of mind. Understanding how people are going to react, physically, mentally and emotionally in certain situations. The narratives that I create and run in my brain hamper my ability to utilize my theory of mind, which means I can easily fall into the trap of internal considering.