PhoenixToEmber
Jedi Council Member
As many on the forum probably know by now, I'm a substitute teacher in Elizabeth, NJ. Today I was covering for a 7th grade math teacher and I had to rebuke a kid who made a joke toward a Muslim girl wearing a hijab that she "had bombs". I got very angry and sternly told him I don't want to hear racist and prejudice stuff like that in my class, and if I hear it again he's going straight to the principal - he tried to explain it off as something from a video game or something, and I said, "I don't care where it's from, I don't want to hear it." Earlier, one of the girls told me that the Muslim girl knew the supposed bomber (who was a resident of Elizabeth) or someone who was related to him - I can't recall exactly what she said - and I thought "boy, I hope she's not getting judged or picked on." And lo and behold, this incident happened shortly after.
After the period ended and the kids were leaving, the Muslim girl came up to me and said, "Thanks for sticking up for me." I told her I don't tolerate that kind of crap, and that if anyone else says anything like that to her again to find me and let me know. The fact that she came up to me made me realize that there's a very real pressure on her, and that this was definitely not the first time something like this was said to her.
It's really frightening to see xenophobia at work, leaking into young minds and bubbling up as seemingly lighthearted jokes among kids. I don't think the boy really understood the gravity of a joke like that, and how serious it really is. What's scary is I foresaw these kinds of things escalating as soon as I heard about the bomb incident at the Elizabeth Train Station (a place I frequent every single week) and that the man accused of it and the NYC incident was a resident here.
Just thought I should share this story with the forum. It's been on my mind all day today since it happened.
After the period ended and the kids were leaving, the Muslim girl came up to me and said, "Thanks for sticking up for me." I told her I don't tolerate that kind of crap, and that if anyone else says anything like that to her again to find me and let me know. The fact that she came up to me made me realize that there's a very real pressure on her, and that this was definitely not the first time something like this was said to her.
It's really frightening to see xenophobia at work, leaking into young minds and bubbling up as seemingly lighthearted jokes among kids. I don't think the boy really understood the gravity of a joke like that, and how serious it really is. What's scary is I foresaw these kinds of things escalating as soon as I heard about the bomb incident at the Elizabeth Train Station (a place I frequent every single week) and that the man accused of it and the NYC incident was a resident here.
Just thought I should share this story with the forum. It's been on my mind all day today since it happened.