Question about going to church.

[melatonin]

Hi melatonin, and thank you for sharing. I'm sorry to hear of your situation. Your words resonated as 3D life can feel inescapable sometimes and the desire to do good in the world may seem elusive. I cruised a few church parking lots and just never made it out of my parked car. Had a similar issue as you mentioned, "...i want to live truthfully as possible and to not be insincere, and i could never fully believe a mainstream religion." Then I tried out an weekend walking group, a pottery class at a local museum, and volunteering at a municipal garden pruning rose bushes and weeding. I'm no extrovert, and sometimes I don't say much more than "good morning, nice to see you all" and "see you next time, glad to help". But I sincerely mean it, and did get to experience collective purpose and community. Try, explore - ROOTING FOR YOU

Thanks Polly for your kind words.

I was wondering if my desire to be so authentic is a stumbling block in itself, especially when the only authentic thing (at this point for me) is "the work" and growing my self observation. I'm hoping this growing perspective might remove some road-blocks I have from socialising. I too am an introvert, or I think I am. I think the more I learn about myself, the more I'm finding it hard to define myself, which feels contradictory. Working with flowers and plants would be very theraputic if I could be around others in a safe environment.

 

[melatonin]

A Church could be an easier way to integrate into your surrounding community. A way to get to know the people that live closer to you. If you feel you aren't able to be your sincere and complete self in a church setting; then see if a park near where you live conduct 'A Stand in the Park' event- if not; consider beginning to organise A Stand in the Park events at your local park to begin attracting similar minded people.



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Thanks for your reply. I'd like to start a group of some sort, but I'm not in the mental place at the moment to do something like that unfortunately. :(

 

[melatonin]

Try it out and see!

At some point, that's exactly what I have to do.

 

[melatonin]

Another possibility: websites like meetup.com offer a lot of groups where people organize in-person meetups on different topics or hobbies. I think it is more popular in English-speaking countries and in or close to larger cities.

Another possibility: websites like meetup.com offer a lot of groups where people organize in-person meetups on different topics or hobbies. I think it is more popular in English-speaking countries and in or close to larger cities.

Thanks for your reply. Meet-up is a good option for sure. :)