Reflections on a life of high strangeness

[Oxajil]

I have regrets. There are SO many things I wish I'd been able to talk with Dad about, but I always remained mindful of boundaries, external consideration etc. But we have always been a tight-knit family, I'm sure he's feeling relief and love on 5d now.

Yeah, sometimes we can't share things out of external consideration. Maybe it'll help to write him a letter or to talk to him out loud or in your mind. I'm sure he'll receive the message

 

[Anamarija]

@SlipNet, I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

[SlipNet]

Yeah, sometimes we can't share things out of external consideration. Maybe it'll help to write him a letter or to talk to him out loud or in your mind. I'm sure he'll receive the message

I'll be having a period of "conversational prayer" tonight, where I'll be saying those words that were left unsaid in life. Obviously I won't be spilling my guts, I'll be tactful and respectful.

 

[SlipNet]

Just a wee message and then I'll sign off for tonight. Bless your hearts guys for the well-wishes. It's during times like these that you truly feel the love in life. Based on what I've experienced in the last 24 hrs I feel confident that Dad has transitioned smoothly in to 5d life, and has hopefully overcome his spiritual doubts, which I know he experienced in later years. He turned away from his Catholic background after reading about paepdophile scandals in the church; now, I think he's aware that "the One is the One", and that we are all loved under the watchful eye of the Divine Cosmic Mind. Blessings and love to you all.

 

[Lilou]

My condolences on the loss of your father, @SlipNet . May he RIP.

 

[Asa]

Man, I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. May he transition smoothly and find peace in the next place. I hope you find your way through what lies ahead.

 

[Darek]

I'm sorry to hear that. Hang in there SlipNet

 

[T.C.]

Sorry to hear about your dad’s passing, SlipNet. It’s a good thing that he didn’t have to suffer too much.

Take your time. We’re here whenever you need us

 

[Mililea]

I am sorry for your loss. May he have a smooth transition.

 

[Phlebas]

Condolences to you and your family, SlipNet. May he rest in peace

 

[Konstantin]

My deepest condolences SlipNet. I hope he will have a smooth and peaceful transition.
Take care of yourself and your family.

 

[Nienna]

My condolences, SlipNet, on the loss of your father. It is always so hard to lose someone we love so much.

I'll be having a period of "conversational prayer" tonight, where I'll be saying those words that were left unsaid in life. Obviously I won't be spilling my guts, I'll be tactful and respectful.

I am glad you are doing this. It helps to say the things we never did and wished we would have.

Hoping you father is at peace and ready to move on to the lessons that follow.

 

[Arwenn]

I’m so sorry for your loss @SlipNet, my deepest condolences to you and your family. May your father transition smoothly and be at peace now. I second expressing all the things you didn’t get to say to your dad in person, I’d like to think that on some level he is able to sense it.

 

[Jones]

So sorry for the loss of your beloved dad, SlipNet.

Politically and philosophically we were very different, but we bonded over our love of football and sport in general.

I have regrets. There are SO many things I wish I'd been able to talk with Dad about, but I always remained mindful of boundaries, external consideration etc. But we have always been a tight-knit family, I'm sure he's feeling relief and love on 5d now.

I think that is an example of loving him to the best of your ability under the circumstances, and like you indicate not the easiest thing to do. As others indicate, there is still time for those conversations through writing and prayer now that he may be in a more open state to hear you.

Thinking of you and your family

 

[manitoban]

I'm sorry for your loss @SlipNet , my condolences to you. Take care and big hug to you.