So, it seems that it might be possible to assist in altering reality by undertaking activities that remove fear, intimidation, inhibition and even entering into such realities via positive dissociation.
I wonder how literally I could interpret this?
I need to tell a bit more of the story that I posted in “the Mandela Effect...”
#287(mods I apologise I have been trying to link to the post I made in Mandela effect thread to explain story and ended up posting a copy of the post below. I don’t how to fix this up?)
Preceding the Thursday the scarf mysteriously appeared my husband was preparing to leave New Zealand, flying to Oregon on the Thursday. He is there now visiting family and had four months of work, which we are both happy he has rather than languishing over winter in NZ with not enough employment to keep him occupied. He is an everready bunny and needs to be doing something productive to stay sane.
So we have been having ups and downs this entire past year. But I feel the processing of emotions and modeling of behaviours as a direct result of reading these romances has enabled me to completely change how I see him and what I expect from our relationship and my part in creating that. Don’t get me wrong we do not have a romantic thing going anywhere close to the characters in these books. However each of us have our strengths and I found ways to meet him on a level where we could connect. Mainly I switched from being a brooding introvert to becoming much more animated to and simply expressing more joy. My husband is an extrovert people and children love him. Think of the make version of Christine in Slightly Dangerous. Me, more Wulfric Berwyn without all the capability and respectability.
Anyway, I was able to lift my game and said to him I think both of us just need to commit to being happy. And by that I meant have a positive attitude and demeanour to each other. My husband knew exactly what I meant and always responds to constructive ideas with affirmative actions. As a consequence before he left we were good and still good as we communicate every day- because we enjoy talking to each other.
Anyway, he said something else a couple of days before he left, we were talking about men and women and sex. He said,
“Being desired should be a positive experience”.
That just resonated with me profoundly and with all I had read. It was an important statement somehow.
Now he did not at this stage have a return flight to NZ he has dual citizenship. Everyone arriving into NZ has to book managed isolation stay (police and military supervised) in an isolation hotel for two weeks. These dates available are generally not released until 3 months out. My husband was going to gone for 41/2 months so we were not expecting him to be able to book his return flight as it has to be precisely coordinated with an available managed isolation vacancy.
Then last Thursday morning an hour before my husband left the travel agent called.
She had secured a managed isolation voucher him and booked his return flight.
In that moment I suddenly felt like the future was now going to happen. Before that it appeared to me an apocalyptic fuzz, and suddenly I saw him coming back to me.
And then the strange happening of a black scarf appearing from nowhere happened. I still have found no owner of that scarf, the only explanation that now seems reasonable is that a merged timeline occurred. But I feel the significance of having found a new path with my husband was/is what caused this.
