fabric said:One thing I didn't like about the site was the trial levels. I was able to do a few rounds of one, but then it started asking me to sign up for a monthly fee, and on top of that wait a minute between each and every round. The fee wasn't much ($2.99/month) but I wanted to be able to use it a little more so I could decide if it was worth it. So that was a little disappointing.
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Samenow "Inside the Criminal Mind": this book is not translated into French either ...
I'm finishing "All Story is Story of a Thought" by Robin Georges Collingwood
Then I will attack "The new Leviathan or man, society, civilization and Barbary" by the same author, these are the only two books translated into French ...
If the French team could orient me to find readings similar to the books recommended by Laura, I will be delighted ... A big thank you in advance.
Thank you also for all your comments which I am greedy and do not miss to read them every day.
fabric said:Also, there's great little write-up about DNB with studies, tips and anecdotal reports from people that have used it can be found here: http://www.gwern.net/DNB-FAQ
"With programmers, it’s especially hard. Productivity depends on being able to juggle a lot of little details in short term memory all at once. Any kind of interruption can cause these details to come crashing down. When you resume work, you can’t remember any of the details (like local variable names you were using, or where you were up to in implementing that search algorithm) and you have to keep looking these things up, which slows you down a lot until you get back up to speed."
–Joel Spolsky
Renaissance said:I've noticed that behind the pull of dissociation is often a type of isolation combined with wanting to deny some aspect of reality through controlling tendencies. Such tendencies seem to give rise to all sorts of negative emotions that can often be drivers of negative dissociation as well. I think accepting and acknowledging reality as it is goes a long way in allowing yourself to process it and not carry around conflicts like a festering wound. The desire to control life as you would have it seems to act as a significant blockage that turns energy inward. You end up getting stuck in a bubble and a hostile internal environment that is pretty toxic. It seems a person can only stand being in such a space for so long before they seek a release or an escape through dissociation (living in dreams seems to apply here). Such an escape can only temporary because the underlying cause hasn't been dealt with and you just return to the same state possibly worse off than before.
The unfortunate thing is when you live life this, the conflict and denial just pile up and you go round and round in a denial-conflict-dissociation negative feedback loop. I found that a step in getting out of this loop is recognizing the tension involved with the subconscious tendency to control others and situations. Once you see and feel that specific type of struggle you can better see it for what it is as well as the filter you have put on whatever issue. Releasing that control seems to open some doors in seeing the situation in different ways. I don't think this means you'll instantly be objective and fully understand the situation, but the point is that you're stepping out of a self-oriented perspective that at least puts you on a different path toward learning and living. And in turn, you break the pull of the dissociative cycles. At least that's been my experience. Learning to be open with others about your struggles (without the drama or self pity) seems to be a major aid in this process as well.
Scottie said:Oh, and the second quote on that page is also interesting - the part about cubicles.
Everyone likes a view when they're working, right? Well, yeah, because it gives your poor brain something to look at and "relax", even if you never stop thinking about your work.
So putting workers in bland cubicles is about the worse possible thing you could do to stimulate performance and motivate people.
There is a story that Simonides was dining at the house of a wealthy nobleman named Scopas at Crannon in Thessaly, and chanted a lyric poem which he had composed in honor of his host, in which he followed the custom of the poets by including for decorative purposes a long passage referring to Castor and Pollux; whereupon Scopas with excessive meanness told him he would pay him half the fee agreed on for the poem, and if he liked he might apply for the balance to his sons of Tyndaraus, as they had gone halves in the panegyric.
The story runs that a little later a message was brought to Simonides to go outside, as two young men were standing at the door who earnestly requested him to come out; so he rose from his seat and went out, and could not see anybody; but in the interval of his absence the roof of the hall where Scopas was giving the banquet fell in, crushing Scopas himself and his relations underneath the ruins and killing them; and when their friends wanted to bury them but were altogether unable to know them apart as they had been completely crushed, the story goes that Simonides was enabled by his recollection of the place in which each of them had been reclining at table to identify them for separate interment; and that this circumstance suggested to him the discovery of the truth that the best aid to clearness of memory consists in orderly arrangement.
He inferred that persons desiring to train this faculty must select localities and form mental images of the facts they wish to remember and store those images in the localities, with the result that the arrangement of the localities will preserve the order of the facts, and the images of the facts will designate the facts themselves, and we shall employ the localities and images respectively as a wax writing tablet and the letters written on it.
Laura said:Indeed, correcting thinking errors is one of the biggest challenges that people face because it is very hard work and no amount of meditation will do that.
Thinking errors are discussed at some length in The Wave, but we've learned a lot more since I wrote about them there; such books as "The Myth of Sanity" and "Strangers to Ourselves" and "Thinking Fast and Slow" come immediately to mind.
One of the main tools utilized for correcting thinking errors is what we call "The Mirror." I recently read Samenow's "Inside the Criminal Mind" and discovered that he and his mentor, Yochelson, also used a very similar process to help criminals learn a different way of being and thinking. It's another "must read", I think. And that's not because I am suggesting that anyone has a "criminal mind", but you will discover that a lot of ordinary thinking errors are very similar to those of criminals only the criminals take them to extremes. The truth seems to be that with sufficient knowledge and understanding, the ability to put yourself in another's shoes, having an accurate reading of reality, leads to a completely different life free of anger and hurt and feeling victimized.
But this process requires close and careful attention to DETAILS of reality exactly as the Cs suggested here:
Life is religion. Life experiences reflect how one interacts with God. Those who are asleep are those of little faith in terms of their interaction with the creation. Some people think that the world exists for them to overcome or ignore or shut out. For those individuals, the worlds will cease. They will become exactly what they give to life. They will become merely a dream in the "past". People who pay strict attention to objective reality right and left, become the reality of the "Future".
This is part of networking and the Cs have said in numerous places that repeatedly examining and discussing thoughts and feelings and events is a big part of this. They also suggested that meditation is a means for soothing the distress that might possibly arise from this very process.
So, don't get the idea that meditation - a deliberate calming down - can in any way take the place of the ruthless and relentless facing of reality. They are two sides of the same coin.
Q: (L) So what's this Sri Sri guy into? (Craig) He's [teaching "Art of Living" breathing/meditation]. Is this a worthwhile program for the benefit of mankind?
A: In certain respects, yes. But it is lacking balance.
Q: (Craig) Which area does balance need to be improved?
A: Remember that nearly the entire world was against the war over sixty years ago and it came nonetheless. Meditation to calm the mind and commune with higher realms will do nothing to balance this realm.
Q: (L) Clearly from my experience, meditation to master yourself and your reactions is a very beneficial thing.
A: Yes. But then what does one do with that mastery?
Q: (Craig) It serves to help people who don't know how to control their mind or their emotions.
A: Yes. And teach them when where and how to use those emotions for change. Overcoming emotions so that one is not affected by what is out there and inside is little more than becoming an automaton.
Q: (Craig) Can these breathing techniques help - Sudarshan Kriya?
A: Absolutely!!!!!!!
Q: (Craig) Is it one of the best tools we can use to revive people's humanity?
A: Yes. But don't forget the balance. Facing reality and mastering the self alternating with meditation for recovery.
biala84 said:I found something, maybe it can helps to another forum members which can't read a book ,,The Idea of History'' but is write in Spanish. I hope i can post it, i start to feel very dizzy :/ Short report in case is soemone have problem to understand the idea of the history, because me while reading book i had difficults to understand some things.. http://www.inif.ucr.ac.cr/recursos/docs/Revista%20de%20Filosof%C3%ADa%20UCR/Vol.%20IV/No.%2014/De%20Mayer.%20Rosita%20-%20La%20Filosofia%20de%20la%20Historia%20de%20R.G.%20Collingwood.pdf
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