Alada
The Living Force
Miss.K said:Of cause I'm afraid of the Work, and networking, or I would have done more of it sooner, -though part of my not participating too much also were to learn more, in order to be able to participate in the future without being too embarrassingly stupid (both as internal and external consideration )
Yup, I know that one and I'm pretty sure many others will recognise it in themselves too. The irony is though in trying to do the 'I'll just fix this and then I'll be ready' thing, is that once we finally get around to fixing whatever it was (and it takes a lot longer on our own - wasted time), this then enables us to see the next thing in ourselves that needs attention, so we think it might be an idea to fix that first too, and then we'll be ready, and so it goes!
Sometimes it's better just to jump on the merry-go-round than to wait for it to slow to a more comfortable speed. What if it never does?