On the other hand i will defend my children, my family and mu community if somebody attacks them. Maybe in that act of defensing, somebody will get hurt or killed but its not the same as all the wars that i have seen on the Balkan.
How is that different from some cases that happened on the Balkans? Where there not some people taking arms to defend their homes and people from genocide that happened? You think it is different because you were never in such a situation, but it is not so different.
You can avoid war but it will eventually find you when other side is psychopathic and hell bend on destruction like it is a case in Ukraine, and with the west. In the time of WWII it was different, if there was not physical resistance we would live in modern nazism today. Rising of consciousness is one part of a puzzle, second is the fight, spiritual and physical in a sense. There were also evils from other side that can not be justified because there are morally depraved people and psychopaths from both sides. Would not giving physical resistance to nazis in WWII and keeping your hands clean stop them from killing all those they classified as unworthy? Yes, there were those that are drafted under the threat of death or no way out of financial situation, but like said there can be found a way out, or better to face death for disobedience then be killed spiritually by killing others as a occupation force, but there are different people for different lessons.
Today it is a different thing, if there is going to be WWIII, there is no need to fight because most population will die, same with comets, only hope is independent communities arising when there is a collapse, there is no exit other way, so I think it is better for some people to stay alive because they are of greater use for universe for that time and transition. But still if there was not resistance in a physical way through war in some countries that is stopping western bid to domination, west could have gone much further in their plans for domination and enslavement, not just with other countries but with it s population also, so everybody is resisting in a way it can and it knows(because not all people are well informed or capable yet to take higher road or do not have material conditions for that, which is in itself and a good thing in a bigger way and has a purpose as mentioned when it comes to stopping total enslavement). Those volunteers who join in eastern Ukraine is because they want to help those that are defenseless, not everyone can leave, especially those older who worked all life for that little property they have, it is not like in the west, leaving is not an option for them because it is hardly they ll find jobs with that age, and with the younger ones is the same - having children and working to make a better life for them, and now having to leave all that and start again, no surprising they choose to fight, they have nothing to lose especially those who lost children or family members. Try yourself to be put in that situation that your children, parents, husband, wife's were killed, "you would probably say yea, not a big deal, let s carry with my life, start anew and try to forget about it". Those who say there was no need for a war because the same result was created with war and deaths as if that country just accepted western dictates is naive, first of all not resisting to pathocracy is self-defeating to souled human, and with all those victims through war at least all world would get a chance to see it for what it is, and economic consequences on population after choosing to become western puppet would have much bigger consequences on human lives then through war as was the case after soviet collapse(excluding nuclear war).
War is a horrible thing, and I would avoid it if living in the western country or that is a member of NATO, but if in the east if it came knocking on my door with fascism and there is no other option left would resist. As my country being puppet of NATO and EU and myself being part of that enforcing structure and how things look it seems when the times comes I could be facing death for disobedience, but even if getting out of it chances of surviving without a community are slim, even with all the training and weapons you can not hold out against higher numbers and without supplies. Thought about learning Russian and maybe trying to move there but still can not leave my family, but in a way I accepted my faith, and that is physical death.