@Serendipity so you've seen all iterations of possible societies and cultures, past and present and concluded the above? Or are you just proclaiming the above based on the narrow view you have, that you think constitutes all reality?
You speak in absolute terms about things you can't possibly know... no one can.
Patriarchy/ matriarchy what does it matter if we are still under the 4D STS yoke, and are nothing but food, to suffer so that they may be nourished?
Absolute statements are open to challenge. For example, quite a few men are directed by ambition, call to power, talent and such things.
Saying the actions of all men are directed by women is erhmm just not correct. You think Putin is having his actions directed by women for example?
I think what you meant to say is men, at a certain points in their life, or at a certain age, will come under the influence of "women" and will direct their efforts accordingly, to not only provide something for themselves but to also provide for someone else i.e. a woman or be attractive to the feminine. It may also be that a woman is able to make a man better at what he does or give him direction through her influence.
It's still not correct to say men are directed by women... Men are directed by many things, and things can change as a man goes through his life. There are many influences that act upon a person. Women are also directed by men FYI. We are all directed by each other, as well as our goals, ambitions, talents and inclinations etc.
I think you are mixing things up. What exactly do you mean by controlling and patriarchal? Do you mean men who are within their masculine energy and are able to take charge when needed, admit when they don't know, be virtuous etc or do you mean men who are abusive?
Best to be clear with what you mean when you speak absolutely, on behalf of all men.
Reading your posts about this subject, it's kind of all over the place. You certainly say things that are right, but you also say things that are wrong - it's all jumbled in together that put together, it's a bit sour to the taste. There's a charge in your tone that indicates there's something deeper going on behind your words, and you appear to be inviting confrontation.