Any thoughts on Incels?

[Oxajil]

It is a little awkward this movement is growing. Anyone has some idea about what has sparkled it and what can be done to hinder it?
I have personal friend who fell to it. That's why I am bringing this up.

You've gotten some good suggestions already for planting seeds here and there. I just wanted to add that if he's pretty set on his conclusion at this time, he might still change his perspective with more experience.

 

[Alejo]

Sorry, but your writing on this topic is rather confusing. Here you say "I don't think so" and then in the following sentence you actually entirely agree with what I said ("I have plenty of good relationships with people who I am not sure what level of work they're engaged in doing, but it has never impeded having a good relationship.")

So why the "I don't think so" in the beginning?

oh, yes you're correct.. I re read the original post I was replying to and I noticed that you said "possible" and I misread it as "impossible" so my reply was "I don't think it's impossible" so yes, I stand corrected. Thanks!

I know that I am challenging you a bit on this. I hope you don't mind, even though you have a higher "official status" here.

oh not at all, this is a discussion forum and I don't consider myself any less capable of making mistakes or not understanding something fully. See right above.

Hoping that someone will start doing the Work once they are in an intimate relationship does not seem to be a good idea. It seems very unlikely that something like this would happen.

I agree.

 

[Ina]

An unsophisticated pov., mine: Incel 'subculture' appears to be a feminist movement consequence exacerbated and validated by DEI into a movement. It is part of cancel culture philosophy and it breeds where victim mentality is present. 'Make your bed in the morning' JP.

The 30s women, the non b...h kind, also have problems finding boyfriends out of fear of meeting 'psychos' or young guys without a preocupation for getting and living a life out of fear of life being so hard. Go figure.