sweetcheeks
The Force is Strong With This One
In such situations, I think it's a good idea to be very "soft" on people. If you love your partner, you must allow him/her to come to their own conclusions and give them time. The Cs said that things in our realm take time - this goes for everything. You can gently express your doubts ("What I don't understand is that the death numbers are so low - maybe they will rise quickly? I'm not sure" etc.). Also, this is the time to work on relationships, being generous on how we interpret others' intentions, enjoying a good time together... Notice that the better and deeper our relationships, the more they can tolerate the odd quarrel and discord over what's happening. Be excellent to each other!
i appreciate the kind advice luc and have to agree with allowing her to come to her own conclusions. i can't deny the fact that i get excited when i come across some new info and want to share it sooo bad. she has never judged me or shamed me so for that i'm grateful. i will keep this all in mind when i am getting too excited and have the strongest urge to share it.. but there's always a time and place. thanks for the reminder brother.
I've found over the years that sharing what you learn here with the people in your life is a tricky thing. If you're here long enough you may be surprised by how people seem to suddenly change when big events like this come up. Someone who has seemed to be a critical thinker for many years can seem to suddenly lose all capacity for reason and may even become hostile towards you if you question their beliefs. Its natural to want to share what you learn with people that you care about but take it slow. In times like these it is sometimes better to just watch and listen and witness their experience. When people are really afraid they are less likely to be open to new information. Sometimes just being there for them is enough.
i appreciate that a lot bud. you and luc have reminded me of conclusions i've come to in the past.. but ever since this absurdity began, i have not felt so tired anymore and have been learning so much.. it's lead to excitement and i feel it well up inside of me.. i end up just blurting it out. for someone who has been told by many people how quiet he is, you'd think i could hold my tongue at times haha.
i know i am not the only one who is/has/will feel this way. it is passing though and i feel myself straightening out. anyways this thread is about covid so that's about all i got left. luc, séamas, thanks brothers.
much love